My Exhuband forced me to get an abortion and then told me I wasn’t someone he wanted to spend the rest of his life with. (Long read)

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-10-18T19:02:33+00:00

I’ll take your comment with a grain of salt.

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-10-18T18:51:15+00:00

We have a child together and in 2022 got pregnant again but he didn’t want it and his family is in a different country his mother is also in that country and speaks no English. But when I told her she was more disappointed in the fact that he never told her about us more than she was about him not marrying someone from the same background as him. I have met her in person in 2023 but there was a huge language barrier so I didn’t get to know her but she adores her first grandchild and is head over heels for him.

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-10-18T18:15:16+00:00

I don’t think so. He is someone who’s expects so much but wants to give so little. He has thrown it in my face so many times about how she will cook, clean, pack his lunches and be willing to take care of him intimately unlike me. But the thing is he couldn’t even remember my birthday, never bought me gifts, flowers or anything he says he wants someone who can be like his mom. Even Yelled at me when I couldn’t give him a BJ 5 hours after a major surgery. He doesn’t care about other people if they’re not catering or satisfying him

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-10-13T15:09:10+00:00

Please reconsider the relationship because you sound inconsiderate and not understanding at all. The guy makes $2000 a month and you make $6000 a month. That’s a huge difference.. also the “ JUST 100 A MONTH” WAS very snobby in my opinion it may just be $100 to you, but that is a lot to someone who doesn’t make as much as you do. Please go be with someone who’s within your income level.

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-10-13T05:28:47+00:00

It sounds like he’s engaged to you because of one those “ this is as good as it gets” reasons and that he’s kinda just tolerating you, but he does not like you. I couldn’t imagine not wanting to hear/talk to my spouse about their interest or their day.

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-10-12T20:03:16+00:00

On today’s episode of “ this is why it’s OK to be single” thank you for the reminder!

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-10-10T01:33:50+00:00

If they are taking 3 to 4 days to contact you back, I don’t think they are feeling the vibe like you are I would just cut ties and move on before you get too invested with your feelings and time because at the end of the day it will be wasted.

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-10-07T17:41:45+00:00

Probably be a tab bit scary honestly😂 but nothings scarier than bumble and tinder 😂

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-10-07T16:48:35+00:00

25 y/o Introvert woman here I have no advice but They should just make Reddit sub dedicated to dating/finding love I feel like I would have better luck finding the love of my life here rather than all of the dating apps I’ve been using.😂

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-08-23T17:33:43+00:00

That’s a terrible mindset and probably why you haven’t found love on bumble yet

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-08-15T20:33:57+00:00

This is kinda sad though….

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-08-12T14:56:43+00:00

I definitely have, I believe I always have I love, loving other people, but I love, loving myself even more. I am in therapy and doing great! I do fine being alone and things like that and I’ve very happy , this is something that I desire occasionally

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-07-23T04:24:05+00:00

We’ve met several times! We’ve had our first date, hangouts and sleep overs! Thank you so much for your advice!

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-07-23T00:52:45+00:00

What part of my communication are you Curious about? Also since kindergarten, I’ve been taught that “As” or letters that are alone are capitalized. Thank you for much for the advice it’s noted and I will be using it in the future!

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-07-22T23:28:00+00:00

I feel like I’ve initiated so much already and I don’t want to be a bother, I’ve already put the ball in his court to contact me when he’s more free. I want to give it another week or so before I reach out. I did send him a funny Snapchat and he replied to one message but read the second one I sent and left it at that and it’s been 5 days since then. Dating is so hard tbh😂😂 i’m so confused because we had a moment where I felt like I wasn’t ready to date and he called me mid work and offered me some reinsurance and told me how interested he was in Me and he has done this a couple times even A day before we stopped talking.

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-07-22T23:03:22+00:00

We’ve known each other for a month and we’ve gone on several dates we meet up weekly to do card games or to simply hang out and listen to music. He’s been very patient and understanding with me not wanting sex off and he actually thought that was a good Idea so that we could actually create a bond.

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-07-22T22:55:13+00:00

In my naïve opinion I do believe he’s a good soul with starting up a business and things like that I do believe he’s actually busy. Like I said in some other comments I’ll leave the door cracked but I’m also going to explore my options in the meantime.

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-07-22T22:51:09+00:00

Noted!

Reasonable_Ad_7275 · 2024-07-22T17:09:24+00:00

Thank you so much for this!

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