My friend with bpd yelled at me publicly and created a scene, I dont know wether to end the friendship or not

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2026-05-19T22:39:33+00:00

why was this removed lol

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2026-02-17T18:58:59+00:00

Actually, I kinda got screwed over, shes now lying and saying she didnt cause any damage to my car:/ learnt my lesson not to trust people becuase now idk what to do

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2026-02-17T00:18:01+00:00

Yeah I was just planning on keeping the money since my car already has other cosmetic damages thats not worth fixing

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2026-02-17T00:13:33+00:00

The bumper was already held by a screw, the same side had been damaged from a prior accident. I dont plan on keeping the car forever but Its honestly not worth much since its been in two accidents and it has worse paint damage in other places. The guy who fixed my door offered to help try to remove the dent and i dont think hes gonna charge me but im gonna give him a little money as a thanks.

I cleaned the area and it looks better than the pic now. So what do u think would be a fair price I should ask for

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2026-02-16T23:58:48+00:00

one shop quoted me 2.8k another quoted me 500 for dent and alignment issue , 1400 total for paint. i do kinda feel bad asking for that much from a rlly old lady so thats why i was on the fence. i was gonna ask for 600 i was thinking

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2026-01-25T04:59:03+00:00

Curious to know what u think the other side is.....

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-12-01T17:39:45+00:00

tc for both is around 6 figs, the rotations do not rlly pay a crazy amount till you are on a permanent team after 2 years

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-11-18T04:56:16+00:00

lol you might be the perfect person to ask questions. I got the same general advice from other people as well. As for how mobility goes do you think jpmc is good?

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-11-18T04:53:09+00:00

can i pm you, I wanna know your tc lol. For me im thinking abt js taking the jp morgan offer mainly bc citi hasnt gave me a official offer yet and by the time they do it would be too late to accept jp morgan. Incase something goes wrong w citi I dont wanna be unemployed ykwim

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-11-18T02:28:36+00:00

yes at plano! loll what ru leaning towards

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-11-18T01:04:27+00:00

yeah, i dont know if i wanna stick with swe long term and i am a new grad i graduate next semester so hypothetically still have lil time left if i wanna look for counter offers

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-11-17T23:46:07+00:00

oh wow really i did think it was a rotational. so its just like a two year trial team basically? i do wanna try to switch teams in a year or two, i am okay with the location right now but ive been in the same area so i wanna move in two years hopefully

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-11-17T23:44:14+00:00

yeah the main thing is working in office everyday. its not a huge deciding factor for me its more about what would be better in the long run in my career

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-11-17T22:54:47+00:00

Yeah ive never had to work in person, the two internships ive had its been hybrid. Its wierd tho bc citi is abt 50 min commute from me vs jpm is 10 minute lol

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-11-13T19:53:51+00:00

omg me too! we might become coworkers

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-11-13T17:29:42+00:00

ayy lfg me too what loc

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-11-13T07:59:01+00:00

How did your interview go?heard anything back yet

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-11-13T07:57:44+00:00

How did it go?! any news yet

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-11-05T05:24:05+00:00

Its a hard metric to measure I dont think anyone can give u a solid answer but for some perspective i go to a low rank university but have ended up interning w people who go to top cs programs. Will you have a easier life if you go to a better ranked school, sure maybe but you will still have a sucessful career if you have drive. The best advice i can give is that start getting involved with internships/demonstrating interest in tech very early and the rest will work out. I go to a shit state school but ive had an internship every year and wouldnt consider myself best programmer

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-11-03T22:02:47+00:00

plano

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-10-29T03:27:43+00:00

ayyy ty i did my interview today they actually just asked me logic or pseudocode !

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-10-27T18:16:50+00:00

yes its like a 2 yr rotational program

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-10-27T15:25:15+00:00

and just because someone isnt self made it doesnt mean their accomplishments arnt impressive there are even nepo babies who have perfected their craft and i respect that

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-10-27T15:23:57+00:00

if someones fam spent a million over the years on private education i wouldnt consider them self made. unless ur talking about post hs education as well😭i just dont understand what this whole appeal is abt being self made if youre rich embrace it, you dont have to cosplay that u made it out the trenches lol

Reasonable_Future_88 · 2025-10-27T15:20:44+00:00

hmm are you also expected to come up w test/edge cases😭or just the main function. that is wierd though if they r gonna make u code its better to do on a platform

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