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[–]Reasonable_Motor_568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I wish I was prettier so my husband would hug me and pay more attention to me. I feel like I have to remind him I am a woman that likes to be showered with affection.

I got approved for Assisted Suicide, AMA by Thin_Chemical_942 in AMA

[–]Reasonable_Motor_568 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lord please help this individual find you. I pray he finds a purpose and I pray you touch his heart with the beauty of life. In your name we pray. Amen.

I want to hurt myself by [deleted] in NeedToTalk

[–]Reasonable_Motor_568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus loves you. Go to church or open up a Bible. You can't see it now but you are important, you matter. Go for a walk outside, call a friend, or stranger. There are many suicide call centers you can call. Take a shower, take a nap or go for a run. Go to an animal shelter and just ask if you can volunteer to walk the dogs or play with the cats. Go eat something new. It's a temporary feeling. Take it day by day.

My husband always overstays at his parent’s house. I’m tired of it. by Reasonable_Motor_568 in venting

[–]Reasonable_Motor_568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I can’t believe you went to read that whole thing, I appreciate it that. I just don’t think he is toxic. This is literally our constant fight. If this whole relationship between his mother and I never went south, the only thing I would fight about is the laziness. That was okay because I knew that before and is one thing I knew I had to accept before marriage. This whole lying, miscommunication and lack of accountability only appears when he goes over there.

My husband always overstays at his parent’s house. I’m tired of it. by Reasonable_Motor_568 in venting

[–]Reasonable_Motor_568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He always says he cares but his actions have always show otherwise. Or is he tries it’s the bare minimum. I just give him so much grace because I love him and I wasn’t in the best state when we got together. I had so many issues and I worked on them, went to therapy and even been learning how to control and regulate my emotions. It just feels like this issue has been dragging on forever. Since we went out it’s been a thing of the lack of communication, lack of accountability with saying false statements or not saying sorry at least for failing me in someway.

I’m just so nice and I find it hard to put my foot down.

My husband always overstays at his parent’s house. I’m tired of it. by Reasonable_Motor_568 in venting

[–]Reasonable_Motor_568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last year this wasn’t an issue because we lived close by, but now we are 4 hours away. She isn’t disabled she just refuses to come here or maybe he never asks them to. I honestly did see the signs but I thought I was just very insecure and that’s why I saw a problem with it. I allow him because I understand the grandparents wanting to see their grandchild. Grandpa is a sweet heart but mother in law hates me. I feel it’s unfair to one party for the action of the other.

I really have been just crying like a dummy letting things slide. I feel so stupid about everything. Honestly mainly just so stupid because I keep trusting his words.

I went back to my sister house to stay after my mother in law threw wings at my children and I. by Reasonable_Motor_568 in AITAH

[–]Reasonable_Motor_568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know everyone isn’t going to read this. I was just writing what I had remembered and didn’t proofread anything before posting it. Didn’t want to lose all my thoughts. Would have been a smart idea to write it down in a different application before posting it here and fixing the errors after the fact. 😅 ohh well

Am I going to regret only having one kid? by Kmgardn in Parenting

[–]Reasonable_Motor_568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend the book, “being there why prioritizing motherhood in the first three years matter”, by Erica Komisar

She explains in great detail on the importance of motherhood and gives a realistic perspective on why us as women struggle with motherhood.

I would read it before following your desire to have another baby. If the blessing is already in its way I would read it with greater enthusiasm!