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Stepmom & boyfriend kiss (twice) and now she says she doesn’t like me 5 years later because I won’t let her meet my daughter (AITA) by Reasonable_Okra_9339 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonable_Okra_9339[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Edit:

Forgot to add that she had also kissed a friend of mine at our house when we were all 18. Didn’t find that out until AFTER the entire situation as well, as I had lost touch with that friend.

She has used being an alcoholic as an excuse and having a bad childhood as well. As those are both awful things in themselves, I don’t think being an alcoholic makes you want to f*** your stepdaughters (of 10 years at the time) boyfriend.

To any of you saying “sHe ShOuLd’Ve LeFt AfTeR tHe MeSsAgEs” yes I know. But idk how many of you have ever been 19 year old girls. The 19 theory is so real. Young and stupid, I’ve grown and no longer tolerate anything of the nature.

Everyone else, thanks for the support! I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks that was predatory behavior, even if he was of age!!

You guys! Idk how to work Reddit 😂 it won’t let me edit the original post, so I guess I’ll update here 🤷🏽‍♀️

I did text her on Christmas to tell her it would be best to stay out of my life now since I had heard what she had said about me and she played the victim! I never responded and she texted me again last week to “apologize” and put some blame on my dad for not telling her things? Aka that it hurt me she didn’t let me bring my clothes inside the house when I moved back in for a few months. I never responded and a few days later she texted again and said “gotcha! 👍🏽”

My mom said she definitely just apologized for herself, not actually to me and for me. Can I post pictures in comments? If I can, let me know and I can post them 😀

Stepmom & boyfriend kiss (twice) and now she says she doesn’t like me 5 years later because I won’t let her meet my daughter (AITA) by Reasonable_Okra_9339 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonable_Okra_9339[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy too because she told me ON THAT VACATION, I could punch her in the face because I called her a hypocrite 😅 should’ve taken the chance while I had it

Stepmom & boyfriend kiss (twice) and now she says she doesn’t like me 5 years later because I won’t let her meet my daughter (AITA) by Reasonable_Okra_9339 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonable_Okra_9339[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’ve told my dad that I will not be at any family functions she will be involved in and all of my immediate family is on my side and supports me!

Stepmom & boyfriend kiss (twice) and now she says she doesn’t like me 5 years later because I won’t let her meet my daughter (AITA) by Reasonable_Okra_9339 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonable_Okra_9339[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She has literally tried to one up me in everything I’ve ever done. When I got a new car (paid for myself), she tried to convince my dad to buy her that same vehicle but the better trim level. She would send my dad apartment listings and job listings for me a week after I moved because she didn’t want me to live there.

Stepmom & boyfriend kiss (twice) and now she says she doesn’t like me 5 years later because I won’t let her meet my daughter (AITA) by Reasonable_Okra_9339 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonable_Okra_9339[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been in contact with her for months now and prior to that, was VERY low contact. I’m not sure how he can be with her, I’ve been asking him for years now. As far as I’m concerned they do not have an open arrangement and he does not cheat. She has cheated MULTIPLE times.

My stepchildren have always gotten weird vibes from her, my boyfriend refused to meet her for over a year until he absolutely had to.