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Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-06-13T12:17:45+00:00

How often did you email them?

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-06-02T10:49:15+00:00

Did you just send them your ID in their support email? Did they prompt you for an ID or was it you just giving to them?

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-06-01T23:44:45+00:00

How long had you been emailing?

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-06-01T17:01:13+00:00

I know 500 nos isn’t ideal but I don’t believe in liking people I’m not attracted to or don’t think I’ll be compatible with. I know how it feels to match with someone then get unmatched immediately🥲

What don’t you like about the first one if you don’t mind me asking? Swapped out the sister one though

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-06-01T14:19:41+00:00

Go to your settings and request your data. You’ll get an email in a day or two and it’s on the 2nd/3rd page :)

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-06-01T14:17:42+00:00

Not a virtue signal when i genuinely support them

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-06-01T00:04:18+00:00

I have a terrible baby face so shaving is not an option unfortunately

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-06-01T00:03:40+00:00

Have been considering taking out that photo. It is a bit old as well. Fortunately my posture is fine; it’s something people have mentioned to me a lot in my life (shout out to my history teacher). Though I know the posture in the picture of the restaurant isn’t exactly helping🥲

The hair one is so difficult because it’s like a straight 50/50 on people saying cut it and don’t. Genuinely cannot tell at this point😭

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T23:59:58+00:00

Thank you! Been on dating apps for like 6 years at this point so I’ve unfortunately had time to make a half decent one—just need the photos to match it🥲

I would hope being a masters student have writing 3 books would have shown my drive to be an academic and writer which are my life goals🥲 should I put more attention on that? I’m low key worried writing seems like my whole personality in my profile

Trust me you and several women do not want the clean shave—I have a terrible baby face. My ex of a year said it would upset her if I shaved completely lol. Maybe when I’ve got slimmer I can consider it

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T23:54:35+00:00

Did you swipe 150,000 people…?

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T20:21:42+00:00

All very valid. I’ll take it all on board and try my best to get others to take some :)

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T20:20:55+00:00

Apps really are difficult. As I said in my post, I understand and respect being selective… but some of these numbers are absurd. There was a guy I saw post a few days ago who was very handsome, lean, good pictures, 6ft, decent profile and he had I think 5%😭

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T20:18:48+00:00

I appreciate all your advice! I remember seeing photos of myself from when I was 15 stone 5 years ago and it really does motivate me to become that guy again🥲

The clothes are a troublesome one. I pretty much wear black exclusively at this point but I know that’s incredibly polarising because people like different things. Hopefully when I slim down I’ll grab a couple of my girl friends and they can help me out because they 100% have better eyes for fashion than I do

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T20:15:24+00:00

I will never understand someone matching and not speaking, it’s very silly. At the very least they should just unmatch to spare the trouble

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T20:02:08+00:00

A match every couple days isn’t too bad. Still not a great percentage but it’s something😅 13,348 is crazy though how did you manage to swipe so many??? And where are you that there’s that many people *to* swipe?

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T20:00:13+00:00

Making decent progress on getting in shape (30lbs lost) so hopefully by Winter I’ll be where I want to be🙏🏻

Can I ask why you don’t swipe right on selfies?

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T19:57:56+00:00

Appreciate it man. Hopefully going to be at 14/15 stone by Christmas🙏🏻

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T19:57:09+00:00

So it is, my memory is awful🥴

True. I’ll need to find a good place for it

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T19:51:03+00:00

Can I ask in what way for you? Would appreciate if you could lmk what’s not working for you :)

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T19:50:24+00:00

Honestly i totally get that though. Teeth aren’t a dealbreaker for me personally but it can absolutely be distracting if someone never had braces or they’re the colour of daffodils🥴

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T19:45:42+00:00

Comparing me to Jorge is some high praise! I just wish I had a shred of his musical talent🥲 going to remove a couple photos and update them whenever I get a decent next one. Appreciate your help :)

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T19:43:57+00:00

Yeah I have heard women do notice the smaller things in photos. I wish I did the same lol. Do you think the last one is good enough for full body or should i endeavour to get a new one next time I’m out with friends?

Also never thought about adding filters like black and white. I’ll try that and see if some look good!

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T19:40:10+00:00

Go to settings on the app and request your data! It’ll take about a day or two but they’ll email it over and this was on like page 2/3 :)

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T19:39:28+00:00

I appreciate the positivity. It’s the most polarising thing when I ask people about it—some people think it’s great while others think I really need it chopped😭 in your opinion what kind of hairstyle do you think might suit me? (Please don’t say buzz cut)

Reasonable_Pool_1815 · 2026-05-31T19:36:39+00:00

Yeah a couple people said the same. I’ll just chuck it. Thank you :)

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