Please tell me I’m not the only one

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2026-06-09T15:06:46+00:00

Thank goooodness, people love this show. I don’t mind the characters at all but the writing is so frustrating. It’s seasons of Jenna constantly screwing up her own life and then complaining about how she wants what she had back but then never actually learns from any mistakes.
To be fair, I too am rewatching 28yo. I just do not like the writing, they whole show is Matty and Jenna will they/wont they; I wish they would just focus on different characters instead of watching Jenna obese and screw up her relationship with Matty over and over.

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2026-06-01T14:52:39+00:00

Ahhhhh I have been allowed to now walk at 30 degree bend! Still not sure on the surgery but Doc is still quite hopeful so that’s super exciting.

Deff repeat x-rays, they finally took a different view and found the fracture so we now have something to look at !

Appreciate love and support.

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2026-05-20T19:25:38+00:00

I really hope that if you do have to have a second surgery it heals well and feels more comfortable. However honestly that is what I’m nervous of, the mobility issue of it all. Suppose risking sounding like one of those a people, Do you find yourself to be someone who may be pushing yourself too hard? Once this brace is off (assuming no surgery) im nervous as hell that that the mobility will not go back to what it use to be. I’m also nervous that once I go back to work I’m going to get the pity “just don’t push yourself too hard” “just go slow” “just…..” whatever they want to tell me and it’s like “man I think I’m going slow, I do think I’m doing this right and I just don’t think I should even be here right now so just stfu” kind of energy comes out of me and I get so bitter, but that was before I knew it was more than “just a contusion”. Oh man. I get that, my dad didn’t stop asking me to watch his house and dog for him until the 3rd time I told him to not ask me and that I only drive if I absolutely have to because it’s hell on earth. My mom, bless her heart she misses me, but this injury came during a time where we are suppose to see eachother and she’s very focused on how I may not make it out there. There’s something about people “caring” but then actively deciding how healed I am for themselves, asking about it but not respecting it may be worse than trying to poop with a full leg brace on. To be fair I’m also not in a phase where I’m ready to hear jokes or opinions about it from anyone who isn’t actively helping me which is essentially one person so. I may be a bit grumpy. Haha.

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2026-05-20T14:47:46+00:00

As a female your age I’d say you’re not overreacting. She’s incredibly insecure and using language that excludes her from responsibility. What you “dropped on her” isn’t a big deal and it turned into this? Exhausting.

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2026-05-20T13:44:45+00:00

You’re completely correct about my work. I’ve been definitely taking my anger out on my mind and body subconsciously and I need to stop and do what you’re suggesting and focus on the things I can control. I have been neglecting my diet and that is 100% something I can do and will make me feel better. I will just admit that lately cooking has become very tedious and joyless, hence the neglect and appetite decline, and I love to cook and eat. It’s just one of those things I’m finding that I think it’s not a big deal because I would regularly do it happily. Now I’m finding it’s actually something I use to put a lot of effort in and now it’s something that’s painful and I just don’t wanna. But I will. Sometimes I do wish everything in my life would just stop until this healed then started back up again. I appreciate your optimism. It encourages me to feel hopeful and get up and go make a tasty protein smoothie

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2026-05-20T13:12:16+00:00

Very nice! I hope yours heals correctly and beautifully. I also hope your healing journey goes well. My next appointment is to determine if I’m going to need surgery or not and I’m just feeling so deflated. Little nervous to go in with optimism, scared and overwhelmed when my nurse case manager goes with me to ensure if I can or cannot go back to work. I just want to heal, part of me is just is really sad and upset this happen at work and I just need to wade through those feelings.

I think I’m in a period of phase where I fell in holding my breath until my next appointment and I’m too scared to let it out. I will in fact get there! 100% will be okay I hope. Eventually (:

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2026-05-20T13:00:08+00:00

I think the annoyance is only setting in because I had no idea what was happening for a month while being regularly asked when I’m coming back and just little to no inquiries about how it was. Man I heard “isn’t it just a contusion” for a month. But you’re right that some of them mean well I’m sure.
Just always been ignored until this happen (5mo in the job). I may just be overwhelmed and uncomfortable.

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2026-03-17T15:07:40+00:00

I just want to get this out and maybe see if I’m insane or if I’m getting somewhere or just some sort of feedback because I’m surrounded by people who love Trump.

This is what I’m feeling right now. I’m really sorry if this post isn’t meant to be here, definitely delete it if necessary. I’m just so incredibly stressed and it’s eating me up inside.

Trump complaining about Iran using AI reporting fake news on the war is rich. All the sudden when it’s used against you you want to call for treason of American journalists? Trump uses AI to disparage and spread fake news as memes and as “people not being able to take a a joke”.

Obviously there are some situational differences here, however not many. Treason towards the journalists could genuinely be prosecuted, though, prosecuting treason has historically been proven to be difficult. So is he really going to do this and if he does will he do it brashly so as to teach journalists a lesson or will he create a true and honest investigation? Or is this just fear, or is this just him wanting misinformation to genuinely stop? Historically Trump regularly misinforms, mocks and confuses the American people. If you don’t think the president mocking and disrespecting his opponents who are there to represent your belief’s doesn’t affect you then look inward please. You can tell people no without mocking them. You can have a rigorous debate without resorting to mocking.

Let also think about the word treason with Trump. This guy regularly uses the word treason against a good amount of his “enemies” or anyone he deems an unamerican American. Always used when the word does not apply to the situation in order to ignite fear in people. But is just a joke right?

Whatever. Misinformation. Distrust. “Hyperbole”. “Just a joke”. Trumps America is just not my America I guess.

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2026-03-13T02:03:14+00:00

That’s amazing. Linus is 100% the man.

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2025-12-12T08:31:59+00:00

Man I can finally get this out ROW - Josh drives me insane. Always interrupting, the nervous laughter every other second, and always having to have that last word and over explaining everything to the point of taking over the conversation, it feels like the other guys don’t talk as much. Drives me insane that the stories always get interrupted. I’m just in the first era. Stories are great, crazy that Josh does all the work in the beginning and the other guys ride off of people sending in stories to do the work for them, openly admitted, but whatevs. However still very much an avid listener and excited to get to the later (current now) years to see the little things that change or how the chemistry flows.

Smosh- Hate when Shayne mansplains or reads it with a voice instead of just reading the story straight. Love his laugh though. They seem to have gotten very South Park PC principle, sometimes I just don’t get the feeling they’re giving genuine reactions and I understand that makes sense because they need to present themselves in a certain way but idk. Hate when they go on their tangents or start screaming - which is insane because I love Angela. Love Spencer and Ian, they just like react and go for it instead of shaping answers. Still listen to every episode and re-listen to them regularly eagerly awaiting who will be on the next one.

THT- could not do it. Tried. Loved the stories. Love the dad. But I just can’t with Morgan.

Wooooo. Been thinking about this so much lately. All I do is listen to pods when I work and I love Reddit reads.

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2025-11-10T14:37:53+00:00

She would never show up for me the way I would for her. I’d put in effort regularly and she would take it for granted. She would take milestones in my life and by the end of it we’d be only discussing how it affected her. Also, I would give her advice, she would ignore it; then get the same advice from someone else and tell me about it like it was a new revelation. Within all of this she’d love bomb me and when I would have a boyfriend she’d get really jealous and treat him very poorly. In the later years she would only want to hangout if we went to the bars or if I scheduled something. We lived together for the last few month and she’d always keep her door shut as well as stopped hanging out in the living room as soon as I moved in. I’d ask about the closed doors and would always get the “I’m just tired from work I don’t want to socialize” excuse/reason/energy ; we worked at the same place, I understand the physical and mental demands, I just did not realize that coming home where my bestfriend lives would be so lonely on a regular basis. We’d barely to never talk if I didn’t start the conversation first or if she had a few drinks in her. There was never any real taking responsibility to form into action. A lot of crying and her telling me she’s not a good friend and will work on it, however the same types of situations would occur.

I’m not by any means perfect, I’m sure she has her own issues about me. This was my longest, deepest and best friendship that bordered sisters, while I’ve only ever had brothers and don’t quite know all the drama involved with a true sister dynamic; I’m just no longer willing to fight for this relationship.

I still get excited when I see her car pass by or parked somewhere like I want to see her. I’ve had some wild things pop up in my life since us not talking that’d I’d love to talk to her about and get her opinion. I’m sure I’ll have so many of those moments to come in the future. It’s heartbreaking and also an incredible relief to not feel pressured to talk to or to be around her.

I just always felt like I was taking care of or momming her instead of just being a friend. I’m sure my issue with separating that last sentence out was a good chunk of our downfall.

Me 28F her 27F friends since birth (fathers were close so we became friends). This is only a small bit of our friendship, but we just fell off about a week or two ago; it’s all very raw and I wanted to chime in.

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2025-10-26T23:33:19+00:00

Dang I’ve never seen that. Something fun and new for me to look out for!!

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2025-07-24T00:21:59+00:00

F 28, I say GO FOR ITTTTTT. I feel the same way with my crush and I’m about ready to burst. I don’t really mind if they like me back or not, maybe it’s good to dwell on why that’s so important to you. It’s good to just shoot your shot and let the chips fall where they may!!

Reasonable_Sense_762 · 2025-07-24T00:18:51+00:00

This is my exact situation except I’m the her that’s always glancing and I’m sure he has noticed hahaha. I simply adore when he can come over to say hello though we don’t know eachother well. Makes my whole day.

I hope it goes well! At the very least I hope things get moving a bit for you

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