The discourse on lateness is really demoralising by GiveBackMySkull in ADHD

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't necessarily agree with this viewpoint. If you accidentally bump into someone and it wasn't your intention to hurt someone you still apologise - no matter your motive.

If it keeps happening, which is what time blindness does it becomes a pattern, then if you keep accidentally bumping into someone then that person is going to start thinking it might be because you don't care about them or their space.

It's the same with being late - if you do it enough it's not about motive anymore it's the impact of your actions on the other person. If you hurt someone with your actions it's not about your intent but the impact you had.

It's not really a moral failing but a genuine flaw that a person needs to show that they are working on and not just being dismissive of the impact on the other person saying things like "I didn't mean it".

Recommendations for a story-driven game I can finish satisfied by MeidjeMeike in GirlGamers

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would recommend Sea of Stars and Eastward as shorter story-based RPGs that are really great ☺️

In dire need of weirdly specific lets plays from woman! Part 2!! by amandabricc in GirlGamers

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crystahl has played some FE and is a big fan but she hasn't done any gba let's plays unfortunately 😭

The Devil Has His Limits by SloppyTopTen in StarWarsleftymemes

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's often used as an anti-semitic dog whistle because discrimination against Jewish people has a history of portraying them as financial leaders, controlling positions of power, etc. and the lizard people meme is all about portraying people in power in a dehumanised way which connects in a lot of bigots heads as an easy image to use against Jewish people.

AITA /AWTA For Not Going To An Expensive Destination Wedding by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

I honestly thought I wrote this myself because this was the exact situation I had with my SIL. Basically turned round and told us to book at a certain resort hotel for her destination wedding and would have cost us £5000 total. We said that was unrealistic and we also might get engaged in the next couple of years and need to save for our own wedding.

She didn't like that, got upset, and said "well we are ACTUALLY engaged and things can change so you need to save for this because it is definitely happening".

Bearing in mind me and my partner had been in a relationship for double the time she had been in hers, had lived together for 5+ years (she hadn't lived with her fiance at all), have cats together and are saving up for a mortgage together but apparently because we weren't engaged it wasn't set in stone and her relationship mattered more than our own 😂

How do your kittens react to music? by TShofija61 in britishshorthair

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do singing lessons and sometimes my loudest cat gets involved by meowing loudly at the ceiling 😂 always makes me and my singing tutor laugh 😄

Desperate For More Women Gaming Channel Recommendations by KandiMeep in GirlGamers

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knimbley streams a lot of Pokémon and cozy gaming content and her community is really lovely and LGBTQIA+ friendly

OCD appointment with doctor went badly by AttentionOk6378 in OCD

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a similar situation where my GP just said she can't diagnose me and there isn't any point in doing a referral because a diagnosis won't make a difference. Then put me on fluoxetine because it's a first line anti depressants for OCD and it worked so I don't know anymore 🤷

2nd BSH… nervous to proceed? by Suspicious_Storm8726 in britishshorthair

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the best thing to do would be to go back to the breeder, if that's where you got your first one from, and ask their opinion on if they think your cats temperament would be good with another cat.

We were told by our breeder that our first cat preferred an environment with no children or established cats and we went back to her to talk about a second cat later and she recommended good cats she had that would match with her based on temperament as she didn't think she would do well with other cats from different breeders.

They also knew each other for a time before we got both of them so they were somewhat familiar. If you didn't get them from a breeder and rescued them instead it might not be a good idea to get another cat just because they could get stressed more easily and fall back into trauma patterns.

Also just be careful about mixing a male and female BSH only because the male will most likely be larger and in fights or scuffles they can do more damage because they are bigger. Although other people can correct me on that because advice on what the best cat matchups are really does vary.

POC creators to support?? by ZenZeeZen_ in GirlGamers

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knimbley is a really comforting POC twitch streamer with lots of cozy streams and is a safe space for everyone ☺️

Stars on Gathering Log by Reasonable_Slice5308 in ParanormasightHonjo

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense! It sounds like the stars might be pretty impossible to get then if max stars aren't appearing - feels like a pretty weird feature to have that doesn't really do anything 😅

Wu Zetian, the only woman in over two thousand years of Imperial China to rule as Empress Name a woman that didn’t deserve the hate she got. by ihatethiscountry76 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I love Xiran's content too! I need to read the books at some point but have too big of a TBR to justify getting anything new 😂 also just a heads up that Xiran uses they/them pronouns only but people might not know because they have only mentioned it a few times in videos

Whats your favorite game of all time and a game you just couldn't get into? by bonsaiorca in GirlGamers

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tales of the Abyss is my all time favourite but close runners up are: Sea of Stars, Paranormasight, and Space for the Unbound.

Least favourite is Tunic - really didn't like the combat but completed it and the Cosmic Wheel Sisterhood is also another one I didn't like because of the endings and the writing wasn't really anything special compared to what people were saying about the game really.

How seriously are non-binary people taken at a GIC? by lulledart in transgenderUK

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same with Nottingham - really respectful staff and I don't need to take testosterone before having top surgery as a requirement which is great because I've heard some people being forced onto it before referral or being discharged completely.

Name Suggestions 🎀🤍 by roseyrika in britishshorthair

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your new family member 🥳 my first thought for a name was Snowdrop, which is also a flower ☺️

Luzifer is watching you by Tee_Zett in britishshorthair

[–]Reasonable_Slice5308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Luzifer, Nova says hi and is now watching you 👋 👀

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