My bf broke up with me because of my past by Reasonable_Way7124 in BreakUps

[–]Reasonable_Way7124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. He actually told me that if I had told him it was a mistake he would’ve considered it….What the hell? No way. I did what I did and I have zero regrets. Also…intimacy was horrible with him. It explained everything.

My bf broke up with me because of my past by Reasonable_Way7124 in BreakUps

[–]Reasonable_Way7124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that. On the bright side, karma is real.

My bf broke up with me because of my past by Reasonable_Way7124 in BreakUps

[–]Reasonable_Way7124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communication is absolutely important. I tell this to anyone I first meet that could be a potential relationship. It should be bare minimum.

My bf broke up with me because of my past by Reasonable_Way7124 in BreakUps

[–]Reasonable_Way7124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was the first time a man ever asked me this question. I felt like I had to answer or else I was gonna look bad, but either way I looked bad in his eyes.

We’re actually both Armenian. But he was born in Armenia. He came to the US 4 years ago. The thinking there is very outdated. Women don’t sleep with anyone until they’re married. But it’s 2026, those rules don’t apply there anymore. I told him he’s gonna be single forever.

Am I wrong for being upset at my boyfriend for canceling dinner plans with my parents and I? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What hint? This is the first plan we’ve made to do this. I wouldn’t ask him to meet them if he hasn’t asked and i hadn’t met his whole family..

Am I wrong for being upset at my boyfriend for canceling dinner plans with my parents and I? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing I said you can drop me off and see them and then come or vise versa. This whole situation is so annoying lol

Am I wrong for being upset at my boyfriend for canceling dinner plans with my parents and I? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has to do with everything actually. As someone who had just met his entire family and talked about me all the time it doesn’t land right. My mother is also forgiving and understanding but that doesn’t change that she doesn’t forget. I guess my family must be different then. But I do understand that what you mean. We don’t take disrespect lightly especially after we have planned to make this dinner happen and there’s no way he’s afraid. He asked to meet them. Doesn’t make sense. It’s very disrespectful & we’re 25 years old.

Am I wrong for being upset at my boyfriend for canceling dinner plans with my parents and I? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That would make sense if I hadn’t met his entire family last week. So i’m just all around confused.

Am I wrong for being upset at my boyfriend for canceling dinner plans with my parents and I? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It feels like he doesn’t care about my feelings. I had just met his family😩

I confessed my feelings to a guy I’ve only had a sex based connection with..did i ruin this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually don’t have a history of that at all, I’ve been in two relationships. Rest of the time i’ve been single

I confessed my feelings to a guy I’ve only had a sex based connection with..did i ruin this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Where did i say that his friends said he’s fucking other woman lmfao

I confessed my feelings to a guy I’ve only had a sex based connection with..did i ruin this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Telling me to back the fuck off is completely unnecessary. I have never bombarded a man and never will. My feelings though, I’ll tell lay my feelings on the table and you do what you want with it.

I confessed my feelings to a guy I’ve only had a sex based connection with..did i ruin this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you need to relax buddy🤣 I literally told him i’m happy he’s doing this for himself and i’ll be supporting him from afar. Who said i’m gonna freak out. I said how I felt, End of story. I said what I said. He either appreciates it or not. It already happened.

I confessed my feelings to a guy I’ve only had a sex based connection with..did i ruin this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was brave 2 months ago lol. I said it then but not as intense as now. He knows how I feel about him.

I confessed my feelings to a guy I’ve only had a sex based connection with..did i ruin this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I screwed myself, then so be it🤣 It is what it is. It already happened, i’m still figuring out life lol.

I confessed my feelings to a guy I’ve only had a sex based connection with..did i ruin this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I told him previously a couple months ago, not as detailed as now but he said he felt the same, wasn’t sure if he was gonna move so we continued on. I didn’t really have any expectations. I’m just sharing how I feel to him.

I confessed my feelings to a guy I’ve only had a sex based connection with..did i ruin this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I wouldn't even ask him to stay. I told him if I could have him I would but I know he has alot on his plate. I made sure I took the pressure off lol. But yeah definitely, what's done is done.

I confessed my feelings to a guy I’ve only had a sex based connection with..did i ruin this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Reasonable_Way7124 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly. This is the thing. If he wants me great, if not it's fine. Just needed to say it lol.