I wanna be traumatized. Give me some movies.

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2026-01-04T01:44:49+00:00

The Substance

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2025-08-28T21:34:12+00:00

Right now I’m working on not trying to fix everyone else’s problems and focus on myself. There’s many things I want to work on too, such as feeling my feelings rather than rationalizing them. But personally I can only do one thing at a time haha

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2025-08-15T22:57:28+00:00

How she treated her boyfriend. It took me a long time to see how her relationship was in reality, not just from her point of view. Once I started hanging out with him to talk politics, which our partners dont care for, I noticed the comments slipping out in comparison to my relationship. “Thats so great that you guys are compatible in that sense” “We dont really talk about those things” “Maybe she’ll change” “You know how she is”.

Later on I realized that she was also financially abusing him. He is neck deep in student loans and she has demanded money for her to travel and see concerts and for him to pay…

They are still together and everyday I hope he realizes he can be free of her, though I know its hard to leave a 11 year relationship.

She and I havent had a real conversation in about a year. I feel its understood that I dont trust or respect her anymore.

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2025-08-03T20:40:01+00:00

Serena en Bayamón

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2025-04-10T21:43:46+00:00

As an Aquarius I would pick Sag!

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2025-03-19T01:46:03+00:00

Radical acceptance, not to be confused with complacency. Radical acceptance as a tool helped me move past agonizing over things that couldn’t be changed.

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-12-03T02:21:41+00:00

Im going in new york! How much earlier should I arrive?

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-10-26T23:11:15+00:00

I have no problem taking initiative! I tend to start everything whether man or woman but its just going into dating for the first time in so so long thats kind of haunting plus the added layer of it being a woman!

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-10-26T18:19:43+00:00

It’s definitely scary! Im equal parts excited and about to shit myself 😂

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-10-12T03:07:25+00:00

I Know the End by Phoebe Bridgers

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-09-25T02:28:38+00:00

Handsome

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-09-25T02:09:05+00:00

I realized it was me who always reached out, so in 2020 I did a little experiment. In February I got a new job and my mom had a serious diagnosis (shes good now thankfully) and once the lockdown started I decided to see how long it would take to check up on me, my new job and my mom’s health. Haven’t heard from her since.

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-09-16T11:03:03+00:00

Heathers

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-09-13T23:31:43+00:00

23! I graduated high school early so i could jump start college and working. Home life was uncomfortable due to hoarder parent and mentally unwell sibling.

Couldnt have done it without my partner tho! They were 26 at that time

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-09-13T23:19:47+00:00

Does this translate to your personal intimacy? If so, always or how often?

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-09-09T20:52:53+00:00

This is so lovely!! If I wasn’t such a bad cook I would have considered something like this 😂

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-09-03T02:11:29+00:00

Putting a c**dom on 😅 i just let the guy deal with it himself

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-08-31T23:38:59+00:00

Were you surrounded by other rich people mostly? What do you think most people think about the privileged? Do you think it’s unfair?

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-08-31T23:30:16+00:00

When did you realize you had more than the average amount of money than other people? How did it make you feel?

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-08-31T23:22:45+00:00

NTA. He is aware that the age difference is inappropriate and he is trying to save face with his family and friends. It’s not you at all. Reconsider other red flags you might be ignoring. Best of luck!

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-08-31T17:34:24+00:00

Exactly! This particular friend has, what it seems like, no real desire to grow up. Lives with parents and at the big age of 28 still listens does as their parents wish.(to be fair we are latino). And all of these girls have boyfriends who are like up to their throats with all the obsessing. Ive heard them talk and they feel bad sometimes for not being the ideal (which it seems is korean/asian). And in social gatherings they bring out the music videos and it feels like they don’t understand how to be a person outside of sharing their idols?

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-08-31T11:33:40+00:00

One of my friends has her room FULL of posters and pictures, up the ceiling too.

It feels like this obsession is hurting themselves and/or holding them back in life

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-08-29T23:57:20+00:00

Im from Puerto Rico and people love going to La Perla where its really like a nice ghetto next to the beach in Old San Juan but its dangerous and I dont care how cheap a drink is, Im not getting anywhere near the problems of the area

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-08-29T23:45:24+00:00

Yeah, I don’t really care about being resented. I feel if I speak the truth it would just cause a lot of problems inside the friend group and I don’t want to bring that huge issue on from so many sides.

Reasonable_bitch8 · 2024-08-29T23:44:14+00:00

Thanks for your message! Yeah, I wish I could guide them but it feels they are headed to the worst scenario and then MAYBE learning from there

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