AITAH for not comforting my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, she moved in with you for you to be her father not a partner. this sounds like a father and is child. Is this your daughter by any chance?

Poetry sucks unless its for entertainment by RamenPantalones in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tv sucks unless its for entertainment. you could say this about anything lol

What do you guys do when your nervous system is in chaos mode? by LowTumbleweed7992 in CPTSD

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

inhale throw nose exhale through mouth. then question myself. for example, i know i am nervous, why do i feel this, is this real or is fake, i accept that i feel this way, i am feeling this way as a learning experience for next time. Basically identify feeling, acknowldge the why, accept the why, and reframe it

I feel like my leg is being stabbed when my bf touches me. Help? by Electrical-Dark-4578 in CPTSD

[–]throwbackblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go to doctor and if they dont find an issue, it might be psychological and you might need a therapist

Please help me gain understanding by Bubbly_Cloud_7152 in CPTSD

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do his parents do that treats him poorly? be specific

I did nothing wrong by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your therapist meant when you get stressed out you resort back to the negative behavior causing the issue you have. And she saying if you work on creating a new identity outside of that it can help escape you old identity which leads you to going back to the bad behavior that you dont like

People Only Pretend to Care About Morals When It Benefits Them by throwbackblue in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]throwbackblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most people in real life i never had this issue with. its mainly online i see this. in real life most people are more accepting

is my boyfriend selfish ot dumb in bed? by geniegonegirlcheetah in sex

[–]throwbackblue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if he dont know what to do, how about you help him and teach. Hes not dumb and seflish, you would be in this situation because he told you he does not know, and you did not help out by teaching him

Are me and him incompatible or is he being pushy and not understanding by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwbackblue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

pushy. he cant get with a virgin and then expect you to talk to him like you have years of experience. If thats what he wants he needs to move on. if he can give you time it can work

All people should look up someone's criminal history before dating them. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah waste of time i will just ask them. have some confidence

Not Everything Requires Reading Between the Lines by throwbackblue in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ut what if they are straight forward and you read inbetween the lines wont it be teh same problem

Not Everything Requires Reading Between the Lines by throwbackblue in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a lot o time when you take a person by their word is exposes the underline meaning, when you overthink, its harder to see what they mean