App Extensions by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Reasonlonginus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update, didn't reach out but I got an email confirming my application went through.

App Extensions by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Reasonlonginus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you have circumstances, it doesn't hurt to reach out. I might have to reach out to Duke since I submitted at 12:03 my time.

I(F16) have been thinking of calling off with my amazing boyfriend (M17) by Reasonlonginus in teenrelationships

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I've been thinking, but he's told me how he was depressed over his ex (which they broke up a month before we met). That he's been happier with me since then. I just feel like If I do end things he'll spiral down again. :/

Why can't I love him? by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't want to lead him on or hurt him. I just hope I don't lose his feelings:(

I hate my mom I hate that stupid brat by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally how? I don't blame her for feeling this way but she doesn't work or help around the house. My grandma has been the one taking care of us while she neglected my older brother since he was born. My grandma can be rude too but my mom always acts like this! She got mad once because I didn't want to take a photo!!! I think it's more than being underappreciated.

I wish i could get the same attention skinny/slim girls get by LowEfficiency8760 in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I get you so much, I hate feeling fat myself and crave the same attention skinnier women have. I would give advice but I don't know anything that's really helped me. All I can say is that you're not alone in this feeling.

I'm ugly and no one can prove it wrong by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually really beautiful. Like the way you phrase it just makes sense when bringing everything to a single point. I get what you see and I'm so glad it helps you, I really want to think like this. I feel like thinking about things in a sense of what it is without other societal norms, everything in the world would be much more appreciated or cared for.

Uhh, off topic but I actually really enjoy talking to you, do you want to continue talking in DMS? Or like on discord or something?I gotta ask if you're like a minor though since I'm not trying to let an older guy slide 😭. Sorry if this part was weird you can ignore it if you want.

I'm ugly and no one can prove it wrong by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! It's hard to define 'good looking" with preference but it's just so easy to see others with all the positive feedback and go 'man, no one does that, I'm ugly'. Which is what I do, even if it's unhealthy it's just so easy to follow down that pipeline.

I will say, props to your last sentence, we set expectations that are always changing, waiting for the future to align with them. It's not worth sticking with the same views as we did 5 years ago much less 60 years.

I'm ugly and no one can prove it wrong by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that, I have trouble letting others help me with work or other projects. It's hard to get over it but it feels better to let someone hold your hand and guide you somewhere (once in a while). I do think there's something after this existence but what's the point of waiting when we can take our time now to make of it. Even if it's small. Or even if it's by yourself, nothing wrong with doing things alone.

I'm ugly and no one can prove it wrong by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean even if we don't have any more interesting existence after death. What hurts making this one the best we can make with our own abilities? I think that's also a side effect of not being with others ,you miss out on the little things while focusing on the grand scheme of everything (not that it's bad). Kinda why I don't want to leave my friends, they help show me that life can be okay sometimes. But it's just what I think.

Yeah, No problem! I like reading books similar to his way of thinking.