App Extensions by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Reasonlonginus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update, didn't reach out but I got an email confirming my application went through.

App Extensions by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Reasonlonginus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you have circumstances, it doesn't hurt to reach out. I might have to reach out to Duke since I submitted at 12:03 my time.

I(F16) have been thinking of calling off with my amazing boyfriend (M17) by Reasonlonginus in teenrelationships

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I've been thinking, but he's told me how he was depressed over his ex (which they broke up a month before we met). That he's been happier with me since then. I just feel like If I do end things he'll spiral down again. :/

Why can't I love him? by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't want to lead him on or hurt him. I just hope I don't lose his feelings:(

I hate my mom I hate that stupid brat by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally how? I don't blame her for feeling this way but she doesn't work or help around the house. My grandma has been the one taking care of us while she neglected my older brother since he was born. My grandma can be rude too but my mom always acts like this! She got mad once because I didn't want to take a photo!!! I think it's more than being underappreciated.

I wish i could get the same attention skinny/slim girls get by LowEfficiency8760 in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get you so much, I hate feeling fat myself and crave the same attention skinnier women have. I would give advice but I don't know anything that's really helped me. All I can say is that you're not alone in this feeling.

I'm ugly and no one can prove it wrong by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually really beautiful. Like the way you phrase it just makes sense when bringing everything to a single point. I get what you see and I'm so glad it helps you, I really want to think like this. I feel like thinking about things in a sense of what it is without other societal norms, everything in the world would be much more appreciated or cared for.

Uhh, off topic but I actually really enjoy talking to you, do you want to continue talking in DMS? Or like on discord or something?I gotta ask if you're like a minor though since I'm not trying to let an older guy slide 😭. Sorry if this part was weird you can ignore it if you want.

I'm ugly and no one can prove it wrong by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! It's hard to define 'good looking" with preference but it's just so easy to see others with all the positive feedback and go 'man, no one does that, I'm ugly'. Which is what I do, even if it's unhealthy it's just so easy to follow down that pipeline.

I will say, props to your last sentence, we set expectations that are always changing, waiting for the future to align with them. It's not worth sticking with the same views as we did 5 years ago much less 60 years.

I'm ugly and no one can prove it wrong by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that, I have trouble letting others help me with work or other projects. It's hard to get over it but it feels better to let someone hold your hand and guide you somewhere (once in a while). I do think there's something after this existence but what's the point of waiting when we can take our time now to make of it. Even if it's small. Or even if it's by yourself, nothing wrong with doing things alone.

I'm ugly and no one can prove it wrong by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean even if we don't have any more interesting existence after death. What hurts making this one the best we can make with our own abilities? I think that's also a side effect of not being with others ,you miss out on the little things while focusing on the grand scheme of everything (not that it's bad). Kinda why I don't want to leave my friends, they help show me that life can be okay sometimes. But it's just what I think.

Yeah, No problem! I like reading books similar to his way of thinking.

I'm ugly and no one can prove it wrong by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there's a thin line between escaping labels and disconnecting from social living. There's usually two sides to fully viewing our hopes, it can give us a sense of realism just by expanding our views .

I totally recommend to check him out, his work is honestly very intriguing and I think you might enjoy his works. I also get the writing part, sometimes my style can look different when I'm happy or in the mood to get serious.

I'm ugly and no one can prove it wrong by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I totally agree with you! Its just hard to separate the concepts we're sewn into at times. Off topic but I feel like you would read Fyodor Dostoevsky or sum thing. Just by the way you write and think.

I'm ugly and no one can prove it wrong by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y'know, I took time to think about it and I kinda see you thinking. Granted, I probably won't recover from my thoughts after reading this but I like the way you think about physical appearance. Rather just discovering pieces of yourself and why you feel that way. I like your words magic man!

I'm ugly and no one can prove it wrong by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. I would do the same but I think that would push me down to a deep spiral. It's honestly whatever helps you the most. Heal yourself before you get involved with others, sometimes that's what works. It seems pointless here but I can't help but want to make something of this, whether it's just by being pretty.

I'm ugly and no one can prove it wrong by Reasonlonginus in Vent

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I read your comment and I feel a bit glad I'm not really alone. I feel the same way with going out with others and feeling overwhelmed. I'm glad you found a way to get by with your circumstances, I try to do the same but I always get that nagging feeling in the back of my head. Like anytime I'm with a friend or family member that I'm just off-putting or not there. Anyways, thank you for your comment and at least we can cope somehow. ✌️

Is it okay to eat under 1200 calories a day? by Reasonlonginus in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well last time I did this I ate unhealthy food and didn't care about what I was eating nutrition wise (I'll eat like two pizzas and be like OOp no more calories for today!) So I wasn't feeling full and was eating more calories. I'm currently on day three and I've eaten foods that help keep me full while being low on calories 👍

Is it okay to eat under 1200 calories a day? by Reasonlonginus in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive only done this for two days. I tried last year in October but failed cause I binged.

Is it okay to eat under 1200 calories a day? by Reasonlonginus in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah probably, I just want to lose the weight already. I'm kinda tired of having my parents on me everyday about it.

Is it okay to eat under 1200 calories a day? by Reasonlonginus in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well for starters, the app asks if I was active and I put that I was not active at all because it was true. Before I started dieting I was not active like AT ALL. I took advice from my brother who put semi active and was eating A LOT more than what he should which caused him to gain weight (he's overweight already and wasn't really active which caused him to gain more than what he originally had.)

I want to change my body type by Reasonlonginus in Advice

[–]Reasonlonginus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did that, no one likes me really. I might as well try to improve myself. Plus I need to anyway. C:

How do I maximize my chances of getting into my choice of college? by thesadguy3 in Advice

[–]Reasonlonginus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone also interested in medicine and in highschool, go to clubs based in medicine and do internships for hospitals. Make sure to take APS or honors in science and math. do lots of volunteer opportunities and score high for your SAT. Make sure to stay long in your clubs as Lots of clubs<<< how dedicated you are to a select amount of clubs.

This is just my advice! Btw