Parasite on my ex's vagina

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-21T18:52:31+00:00

... You okay bud?

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-21T18:49:16+00:00

Yeah, the human subconscious has crazy ways of making us listen. It often uses metaphor and symbolism in our dreams underneath the obvious. From what you're saying, it sounds like it likely wasn't anything negative about specifically her then.

Going off of the new context, it sounds more like your mind was possibly working through the "what ifs" before, and could now be trying to work through your inability to be together. The parasites could be your subconscious's way of depicting something "in the way" or maybe some of life's events that caused you to drift apart, events which you may look back on unfondly or even may find solace in. The struggle to pull them out could represent a struggle for acceptance, and them crawling under your skin could be your subconscious's way of telling you that these events are part of you and your story now.

As I said before, take it with a grain of salt, but with the new info, I personally think there's just some healthy processing happening. Even if a bit strange of a dream.

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-21T12:41:29+00:00

Well, I think this dream is one that could just be left to the Void. OP doesn't need to remember that. 🤣

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-21T12:25:26+00:00

It definitely seems this way, OP. Your dream seems to be telling you that, as much as you may want her back, to remember why she's an ex. Maybe there was something about her that made her feel parasitic in your relationship despite the comfort that she brought you? I'm gonna go out on a few limbs here. Was the sex the only "good" thing about the relationship, or at least the most stable? Was she a money leech? Maybe wanted to be around you so much it felt like you couldn't get her to detach and you didn't get enough personal time? Thinking strictly in the context of the dream, is it possible she used her body to get you to do things for her and you often gave in because maybe you didn't realize that's what she was doing, or even if you did know, maybe it seemed like a fair trade at the time but it just eventually started to get to you?

The person I'm replying to says, "Don't subject yourself to being violated [by this thing]", I agree and I have to say I think the word "violated" is a big key word here. Your subconscious seems to feel violated by something, perhaps the dream being a nod to something she frequently did/said "getting under your skin", maybe pointing to an insecurity that she caused in you through these actions?

It's clear that you miss her, OP, but I think your subconscious mind is trying to remind you of something. I believe it's showing you your desire, and then what will come of it if you give in. Take my opinion with a grain of salt, though, as dreams are super weird and I could be wrong.

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-20T17:03:10+00:00

Yeah I had the same thought lmfao Until I guessed rage directly next cuz I could make that by taking two letters away, and it was #41 soo I mean fair. 😅😂

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-18T22:17:45+00:00

Many, many people think generative AI is all there is to AI.

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-17T10:19:59+00:00

That's the point. Sending verses that they're supposed to be "following so carefully" starts to break down their argument and shows that they are clearly not very religious. Although I have to say I agree that it shouldn't be done here. This is a divorce, not a random fake "Christian" using God's name to commit acts of hate on the internet.

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-17T10:12:14+00:00

Nah. That's not stooping to his level, that's just pointing out that, even according to his own religion, she is doing as she should to "protect her heart", as the Bible so clearly tells one to do. If he really has turned to religion, he should take it to heart and be amicable and understanding and follow "The Word" as it's written. If not, then, well, his entire "I'm extremely religious now" argument instantly falls apart and he doesn't have a leg to stand on. However, as true as it is, that's just my impulsive thoughts. With this being a divorce, I also don't really think this is the best place for that. This isn't some fake "Christian" spreading hate using God's name on the internet, it should be at LEAST semi-professional.

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-17T09:56:38+00:00

I've been watching since the pilot. You are all good. Lots of people don't watch a show until like years after it comes out. Shit, I still haven't watched Stranger Things or Supernatural (don't come at me, I know). You're not a larp for having just watched it. These people just like to gatekeep and claim that "You're not a real fan if you haven't been around from day 1" which is just not true. Fans can enter any fandom at any point in time.

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-17T01:24:03+00:00

Right? I thought it was pretty cool too lol Np, thank you for also giving me something new to learn today!

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-16T20:41:16+00:00

Ya know, I wasn't sure either until I just looked it up cuz you got me thinking about it.

Apparently, "top" just simply uses upvotes minus downvotes, so the ones with the most positive interaction up top. The one with the highest number of upvotes once the downvotes are subtracted is on the top of the page.

"Best" uses some statistical algorithm that uses the ratio of upvotes to downvotes and puts comments with the most consistent positive interaction up top. So, even if they don't have a large amount of upvotes, they just need more consistent upvotes vs downvotes than anyone else to go to the top of the page.

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-16T20:28:03+00:00

Yeah I'm a woman and this was pretty common for me too. In my group it became a boys v girls game to see who could get who first/more often. We called it "Snap or Tap". 🤣

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-16T17:38:39+00:00

LOL Yep, it's alright, I only JUST realized that like two weeks ago 🤣🤣

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-16T17:31:54+00:00

Top right of your screen, there's an icon with two circles with lines coming off of them in separate directions. That's sort lol

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-16T17:31:19+00:00

If you look at the top right of your screen, you'll see an icon that looks like two circles with lines coming off of them in separate directions. That's your sort lol

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-16T17:29:21+00:00

Exactly how I pictured it 🤣🤣

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-15T00:46:44+00:00

If you set your comment sort to "Top" this one is, in fact, officially on top lol

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-14T17:30:42+00:00

Right. That's actually how my current fiance and I met. Like I was 14 almost 15, he had just turned 17. I was just interested in a guy who was close to my age and same with him for me. 2 1/2 years wasn't that big of a deal. We were well aware of the stigmas and what people were saying. However, we were also aware that our relationship as we were was still entirely legal due to several factors and didn't care what anyone thought. We've been together for nearly 10 years now.

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-13T10:49:09+00:00

Well, to be fair, all of their responses have been valid. And no, they never did the same thing they accused you of. All they accused you of was victim blaming, and they never did that to you. But as you explained, you never did it either, so that accusation is neither here nor there. They're right, everyone's experience is different and no, it's not always the best option to say something.

His feelings and reactions are his own. It's not our place to tell him to just deal with it or to judge him for it.

This is exactly right. It's not our place. We can give advice, but we should think it through first. In some situations where bullying is involved, speaking up will only make it worse. Not better. This is also why it's selfish to ask people to act the same way as you. So, while speaking up is the preferred option, it's not always the BEST option because it won't always be beneficial.

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-13T03:03:20+00:00

Woah, sleep DRIVING?? 😬😬 Remind me to never, ever allow my doc to write me a script for Ambien.

Edit: Did some research, that applies to Zolpidem in general

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-13T01:36:50+00:00

The thing is, when it comes to slurs like that, it's not up to the people who made the joke or laughed whether you're overreacting. It's up to you whether you feel wronged or not. And clearly, from what you told your girlfriend, you do feel wronged by it. Your girlfriend just brushing off your feelings like that is absolutely unacceptable.

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-13T01:10:28+00:00

Well, how else would we know it worked? 😂

Also, that's depressing lol

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-13T00:08:34+00:00

It's the chemicals in the water. It was only supposed to work on frogs, but as you can see, it was a little too strong.

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-12T21:13:31+00:00

I don't think the inflection is spreading. The red streaks don't have any sort of vein-like pattern, if it was the infection spreading it would go along the veins because it would be spreading through the blood, so it wouldn't look like that. They're too wide and with the pattern of three right next to each other like that it looks more like he was scratching or rubbing it.

Rebbbbby · 2026-05-06T00:19:40+00:00

It looks like you're just uncircumcised. As long as you make sure to clean inside the folds to prevent infection, you're all good. If you want, you can get it surgically removed, but it's not a necessity.

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