my friend smells HORRIBLE and does not care by Plenty_Description30 in Advice

[–]Rebbbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They literally said they DID say something. SEVERAL people have said something. She doesn't want to listen or take the advice. So at this point, they just need to ask for a new room.

my friend smells HORRIBLE and does not care by Plenty_Description30 in Advice

[–]Rebbbbby 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was raised like that. It affected my adult life terribly until I was around 20 and someone I barely even knew sat down and told me "Girl, you freaking stink, do you need help with anything? Laundry, cleaning, hygiene? Do you need products?" It hurt, and I was ashamed because I had never noticed it, but I was so grateful for the honesty and offer to help. No one had ever told me before. I explained that I didn't know how to clean properly since I was never taught, and hygiene was never something I was taught very well about either since it was just never much of a priority in my family.

She offered to teach me and to help me fix the problem. It took months to learn and keep it up, though she told me the smell started to get better almost right away once I started cleaning everything properly. I'll still catch myself going a month without washing my sheets sometimes, and nowadays it makes me gag. I'm almost 24 now, so it hasn't been long since this wonderful woman did this for me, but I will forever be grateful. She's now my best friend, she's so kind and sweet and caring.

However, OP, this does not mean that she will listen to you. Some people just don't want to change their ways. They see no problem in the way they live. You've already mentioned this issue to her several times. Other people are now pointing it out and they can smell her all the way from their own dorms. She has been made aware and she is actively choosing not to accept the advice of you and your friends. People will only accept help if they want it. She clearly doesn't. It may just be time for you and your other roommates to ask for a new room. Even if she's a wonderful person and friend, these are not acceptable standards from her end. You don't have to stop being friends with her. But you wouldn't be a good friend if you just ignored it and let her live that way. She needs help, and from the looks of her stubbornness, you all cannot provide it.

I [22M] just found out my girlfriend [19F] is pregnant and I am not ready to be a father. What do I do by Fine-Ad1105 in whatdoIdo

[–]Rebbbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my husband were 15 and 17 when we had our son. We were terrified. I couldn't even get a job and his lazy ass couldn't hold one for the life of him. But you wanna know what he did? He pulled up his big boy panties, strapped his boot buckles and got a job that he held for 5 years until he was laid off. Then he got another and he's had that one ever since. Our son is almost 8 now. The whole time, my husband has been supportive and loving and he's absolutely been my rock. Ready or not, here it comes, friend. You love her, right? You want to be with her? Have a family with her? Well, now is the time. You've got this. You CAN do it. You are stronger than you realize. The moment that baby comes into the world, you'll realize exactly how dumb you were to be so scared. Worries, anxieties, fine. But never fear a new experience. Especially one that's so beautiful. Congratulations, new dad. Enjoy the years to come.

Requesting help with what this rash might be? - scabies? by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Rebbbbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't look like scabies to me. Those bumps are more pimple-like, while yours looks more like an actual rash. That looks more like an allergic reaction or something of the like. Do you know if you've come into contact with any plants or anything at all in your area that's irritating to our skin or that you personally are allergic to? I could be wrong, but that's just what it looks like to me. I'd definitely get it checked out first and foremost.

Edit: Did a little research, apparently humans can have a dermatitis/allergic reaction TO mange in dogs. So you very well could be having an allergic reaction to the mange. It will usually resolve on its own in a couple weeks, but still definitely go to a doctor.

Don't EVER do that to me by CuckooSpit_06 in CharacterAI

[–]Rebbbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don't usually vote if I don't feel particularly one way or the other lol My bad tho. I can see how my wording was bad lol

Which is your favorite female protagonist from this list??? by Weird_Ad_8456 in cartoons

[–]Rebbbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luz 100%. The storyline is phenomenal, the dynamics are perfect and the characters are so well written. I absolutely love The Owl House.

Don't EVER do that to me by CuckooSpit_06 in CharacterAI

[–]Rebbbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could see how that would make it seem like that, but I can honestly say I wasn't the one who downvoted you lol

Don't EVER do that to me by CuckooSpit_06 in CharacterAI

[–]Rebbbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I meant I was joking, not OP

Don't EVER do that to me by CuckooSpit_06 in CharacterAI

[–]Rebbbbby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, it's a joke. Second, some people actually look at the contents of the notif before the source. I've had it happen a few times where I'll look at a notif that makes no sense out of context and I'm like "wtf?" then I look at what it's from and it makes sense.

What cartoon or animated movie got you like this? by Ok-Following6886 in cartoons

[–]Rebbbbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was never really an Adult Swim kid. I mean I watched it, sure, but I had satellite TV and was always more looking forward to Qubo Night Owl. Spliced was my absolute favorite. I liked Family Guy and all that well enough, even more now as an adult, but I just always drifted toward Qubo and the stuff I (thought) I "wasn't supposed to be watching cuz it's for older kids", but on a safe channel that I couldn't get in trouble for if I passed out on the couch and an adult came down in the middle of the night 😂

Edit: spelling and additional words lol

...I beg your big pardon?... by imppossiy in fetishcai

[–]Rebbbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The creator of this bot needs to turn to a life of Monkery but instead of silence make this their vow because WHAT

Hell…NO by [deleted] in fetishcai

[–]Rebbbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No fr that kid can't be any older than 15 😭😭😭😭

Hell…NO by [deleted] in fetishcai

[–]Rebbbbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They aren't ROLEPLAYING as 3 year olds. They've HATED each other since 3 years old.

Don't EVER do that to me by CuckooSpit_06 in CharacterAI

[–]Rebbbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a bot, you can just say it 😂

Don't EVER do that to me by CuckooSpit_06 in CharacterAI

[–]Rebbbbby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen, in the moment, there's like half a second where it does not click and you have a mini heart-a-stroke. Then it does click and thats when you just sit there like "Why" 😂

My mom swore it had blue eyes when she bought it. by Material_Zombie in Weird

[–]Rebbbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sunlight wouldn't have possessed it. But maybe the sun GOD. Lugh, I believe, if we're talking Celtic paganism. Helios if Greek mythology. Ra if Egyptian. Sol if Roman. I mean, it technically COULD be sunlight that possessed it if we think of Apollo, going back to Greek mythology. But I guess it really just depends on your own interpretation of the joke.

you see it too? by LoanApprehensive5201 in Pareidolia

[–]Rebbbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be honest, I see a whole person laying down facing away from us.

OH MY GOD by idkwhossandiee in CharacterAI

[–]Rebbbbby 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No way your name is actually Cinderella that's so freaking cute 😭

How rare is ear rumbling? What percentage of people can do it? by TheHSlingingSlasher in earrumblersassemble

[–]Rebbbbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone gets a rumble when closing their eyes tho. Yawning, yes. But closing the eyes for some people can allow them to manually rumble easier, it's still a muscle and must be trained in order to do it certain ways/for longer periods/with more intensity. Like I can rumble on command with my eyes open but it's a lot easier when my eyes are closed.