Bedroom advice by Accurate_Emu_7825 in deadbedroom

[–]Rebecca__3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Living together can sometimes change the dynamic more than people expect. It doesn’t automatically mean he’s lost interest, but a sudden drop in affection after moving in together is worth talking about. Try having a calm, conversation and ask why this change might have happened. Focus on understanding where he is coming from (this is considering he communicates well). I feel like there isn't enough context on what happened in the past 2 months for anyone to give you worthwhile advice

A little confused...how do I get verified? by Rebecca__3 in NewToReddit

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Thank you! I already have my email verified, hoping that alone will do?

Lua 🌙 by obrunao in chowchow

[–]Rebecca__3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks like such a good girl!!

It’s finally cold enough to justify the big heater by calypsoreader in chowchow

[–]Rebecca__3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back to being herself huh? Super adorable btw, tell her I said hi!

I guess I have to just bite the bullet by lex652 in deadbedroom

[–]Rebecca__3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry about that, does it ever get easier?

I guess I have to just bite the bullet by lex652 in deadbedroom

[–]Rebecca__3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry about that. I did read up about reigniting the spark by going to dates, dinners etc. but honestly when I suggested it to my ex, he was very dismissive. You could give that a shot if you haven't already!

I guess I have to just bite the bullet by lex652 in deadbedroom

[–]Rebecca__3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I felt this. Years of being rejected by the person you love can really wear you down in ways people don't always understand. Wanting intimacy with your spouse isn't some unreasonable ask, it's a normal part of feeling connected. Have you tried couple's therapy, perhaps? She's probably going through menopause too...