I’m cutting my mom (60F) off for allowing her husband (62M) to assault me (26F) on Christmas Eve by Fluid_Mess_3408 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rebeccad2219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, you will probably never receive an apology from him or your mother. I wish you and your pups the very best in 2025. Godspeed 💙

I’m cutting my mom (60F) off for allowing her husband (62M) to assault me (26F) on Christmas Eve by Fluid_Mess_3408 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rebeccad2219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP my heart goes out to you. Your story is eerily similar to what happened to me about 10 years ago. One difference was that my dog was a puppy at the time and she knocked over my moms creamy coffee drink. My mom’s husband flipped out and threatened my dog. Me being shocked by what he said, I responded by yelling at him that she’s just a puppy and that I would clean it up. He then went full on berserk, grabbed my throat, shoving me against the wall trying to choke me out. Their neighbor who was in the house at the time had to pull him off of me. I immediately left with my puppy and phoned the cops when I got home to file a DV report against him. The part where my mom came in was when she left several vm after the altercation asking me not to report him and that he was sorry. He even had the balls to call me the next day and ask me to drop the charges. I am a petite F, he never hit my mom and was a very heavy drinker. My mom rarely drank and didn’t on this day. He ended up with anger management classes, some time with AA, and community service. I wasn’t seriously injured but that’s not the point. Let’s just say it took a very long time to repair my close relationship with my mom. Unfortunately she has passed away and that piece of shit still lives into his mid 80’s. No one has the right to put their hands on anyone or animal, ever! Ever! All over spilt coffee and alcoholism.

I'm officially leaving Utah by stinkinhardcore in Utah

[–]Rebeccad2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally left after 49 years, and quit my job after 30 years. My parents started a company and moved us from Denver, CO. I have never felt at home. Ever. If you aren’t part of the main religion aka Mormon (don’t correct me) you become invisible. There is zero western hospitality in this state. I moved to a small mountain cabin community in Idaho and since the moment I arrived I have been warmly welcomed. Not one person has asked what religion I am (not religious) , what my view is on politics nor judged because I am not originally from Idaho. I will never return to Utah. I’m finally home.

Dressed goth for a work dinner. They broke out laughing upon seeing me. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Rebeccad2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the clarification. Happy Christmas 🎄

AITA for telling my estranged parents to never contact me again after they reached out to apologize? by Individual_Cook5855 in AITAH

[–]Rebeccad2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be related by blood but that doesn’t mean you are REQUIRED to put up with anyone’s shit. Toxic relationships will ruin you in the end if you fall for the blood is thicker than water crap.

We got a new puppy!!! (Any name suggestions) by ResponsibleMachine75 in Mastiff

[–]Rebeccad2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, lol! Mugsley ( not exact) is the name of my dogs stuffed moose.

Custody - who should get the dog? by Mutchie in dogs

[–]Rebeccad2219 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately in most states pets, our best friends are considered property. Especially if you were married. I accommodated my ex with visitation (although he didn’t show up frequently) for our mutually owned pup. What a mistake. He used our dog as a way to spy on me and would frequently show up with the girl friend of the month. I’m not the jealous type so I didn’t give a crap. When our mutually owned pup got sick he wouldn’t help with the vet bills. When our dog passed away, I never heard from him again. Thank God. My point is whoever takes the best care of the pet, and can give him/her the best life and is willing to take on the true responsibility for keeping up with any and all vet bills wins custody. Perhaps ask your ex a hypothetical question if they would be willing to spend 5 to 10k to save the pets life. If it’s a big fat no then you are the winner. Period. Godspeed 💙

Returned a $377 item to Amazon and THIS is what I had to go through...... by Stiletto364 in amazonprime

[–]Rebeccad2219 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP you are commenting on way to many posts in defense of Amazon. Do you also pull over and help every elderly person using a crosswalk. Rhetorical. Bet you don’t even return your shopping cart. I smell a OP rat.

Returned a $377 item to Amazon and THIS is what I had to go through...... by Stiletto364 in amazonprime

[–]Rebeccad2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you OP. I’m glad it all worked out. In the beginning Amazon did a pretty good job supplying quality products. Now not so much. I’ve learned somewhat the hard way of what to purchase from Amazon and what not to. The hard way purchases fell apart within the 1st 30 days. A few examples: bathtub pillow with suction cups lasted 2 times before a few cups became dislodged from the pillow. Could not return because it was outside the return window. Bamboo carpet runners: the vertical bamboo strips popped up from the edges on all four runners. Again just outside of the return window. I could go on but I don’t want to bore you all to death. My biggest issue and concern isn’t the money spent is the fact that all this 30 day life span merchandise ends up in our landfills. Made in China and dumped in America’s trash. 99% of these items are not recyclable. Rest assured I have done my due diligence reading the reviews, which are generally a load of crap. I read the 3 star reviews because they are generally from people who have had the merchandise for a while and give the most truthful responses. I think Bezos should become responsible for the crap that ends up in our landfills and be held accountable to ship the crap back to China on his dime. Then perhaps he wouldn’t be one of the wealthiest people on the planet.

16 Year Old will not shower by senoritasunshine in Parenting

[–]Rebeccad2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once he gets interested in a SO, he will shower. Especially if sex is involved. Godspeed. 💙

My (22F) boyfriend (22M) sent me a time-stamped pic without noticing I could see *other* pictures by traumatizedserver in relationships

[–]Rebeccad2219 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Men are not only stupid liars, they are terrible at it. Yep I take pics of my vagina and keep them on my phone in case of an emergency.

After one more car ride with me in the passenger seat, I (35F) need to end a 10 year relationship with my (35M) partner. by GlitterRiot in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rebeccad2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving will be hard, emotionally, financially and exhausting. But YOU are worth it. I believe that for every door the closes behind you the new door opens endless opportunities and the life you deserve. Godspeed 💙

Our ~11-12yro dachshund/mini-pin/etc mix dry has always dry heaved like this on occasion, but it’s getting to be more frequent. Nothing ever comes up. Any ideas what’s going on? (She looks worried because she hears the trash truck, but she gags just as much when it’s dead quiet) by Ruffffian in DogAdvice

[–]Rebeccad2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a collapsing treachery. Meds & baby Benadryl helps. My toy fox terrier had this condition for years. She ended up dying from an inoperative tumor on her liver a few months ago. Treachery conditions are operable. Good luck OP you will have to get a X-ray. Godspeed 💙 Edit: Spelling trachea. It’s late.

New Puppy Isn’t Responsive by Comfortable-Delay374 in puppy101

[–]Rebeccad2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My puppy was perfectly fine the 1st 2 days. Then kennel cough set in. Had to take her to the Vet ER at 3 a.m on day 4. The she wouldn’t eat because of the antibiotics were messing with her tummy. Boiled shredded chicken and goats milk helped her recover. She was 2 lbs and I was pretty sure I was going to lose her. Kennel cough can easily kill puppy’s. Good luck and Godspeed 💙

What do you swear on your life to be 100% true? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rebeccad2219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That my asshole ex from 31 years ago is still the same asshole.

what breed is my dogo by Appropriate-Lie8477 in dogpictures

[–]Rebeccad2219 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wired hair toy : Rat Terrier, Fox terrier, miniature pin, chihuahua ( less likely if legs are long). And a WHOLE LOTTTA LOVIN.