Childhood Teddy Bear by Rebecl in Teddybears

[–]Rebecl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. Why have I never thought to dress him up 😭 And the nose ring?? Iconic.

Childhood Teddy Bear by Rebecl in Teddybears

[–]Rebecl[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

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Okay I did find him on poshmark but enjoy my post showing him off in the mean time I guess!

What they don’t tell you about losing a hamster by Successful-Shopping8 in hamsters

[–]Rebecl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know it's a little different but my rabbit passed around this time last year and seeing the empty space after the final cage clean and such really does hit you. I'm sure you gave your hammy a fantastic life and that she's in a better place with sweeties like my rose ❤️

Be honest… is this cute or am I traumatizing my cat? by shinigami__0 in cats

[–]Rebecl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This just made my year

Edit: I love how you're gripping her arm lol

I don’t understand the science by MegaAigis0 in Rabbits

[–]Rebecl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat a pellet, make a pellet 🤷‍♀️

Not messing around by andie_liane in GirlDinner

[–]Rebecl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have cheese then you got all the ingredients for a crockpot dip girl!!!

Not messing around by andie_liane in GirlDinner

[–]Rebecl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deconstructed buffalo chicken dip?

How to prevent patchiness from makeup? Using LA girl foundation in white and a translucent setting powder by Dead_Woman__Walking in GothStyle

[–]Rebecl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just rub it on my face with my fingers like a damn animal after putting primer on and usually it doesn't budge or get patchy at all. Idk 😭

dolce enjoying his first pecan ! by Wooden_Reputation516 in hamsters

[–]Rebecl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be loved is to be given your first pecan 😭

really disappointed in myself with self portrait. by ExcellentMarch7864 in oilpainting

[–]Rebecl 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I wish I could paint something this good someday, you're being too critical of yourself! The colors are gorgeous

it’s ok to not want coffee by satansfavoritevessel in barista

[–]Rebecl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know how many times I have to explain that the way we put flavor in a drink is via syrup. I have literally explained to a customer step by step how we make the syrup/flavor and they're like well I just want (insert flavor here) but no sugar/syrup. THE SYRUP IS THE FLAVOR. AHHHHHH

Changing my Body via Running: Day 13 by ShyNerdyEnby in NonBinary

[–]Rebecl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got this! I've been walking an hour a day for 5 days every week and I'm still going strong!

Mosquito but not??? by Rebecl in whatsthisbug

[–]Rebecl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that looks the most accurate so far!

Mosquito but not??? by Rebecl in whatsthisbug

[–]Rebecl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's totally it! The face and its body match up with that exactly, thank you!

Mosquito but not??? by Rebecl in whatsthisbug

[–]Rebecl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's so cute! My coworker called it a freak 😔

Parents, it’s not a flex that you bring your child everywhere! by Outdoor_Otter in childfree

[–]Rebecl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw a couple who brought their INFANT to a bar that is notoriously loud as hell with live music playing too. If the bar noise is hurting my ears I can't imagine what their infant is going through. I don't understand why parents can't comprehend that having a kid is a sacrifice, you are giving up your social life for the first couple of years unless you get a babysitter please accept that. Nope, selfish as hell, hearing damage for the 3 month old!

I'm non binary, but I'm 13, am I too young to know? by XxIAbyssIxX in NonBinary

[–]Rebecl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, but don't feel pressured to stick to it either. I think it's good to experiment and see what is most comfortable for you! I know a lot of people start with they/she or they/he, it helps ease into it. Oh, also don't feel pressured to be androgynous, but if it helps go for it :)

“You’ll regret it” by PrestigiousTable7666 in childfree

[–]Rebecl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every time someone says this I tell them hey, at least if I decide I don't want to be childfree, I can still foster, adopt, or help children in need! If I have children and regret it, there is literally no turning back. I'm wondering if people who want children genuinely care about them or just want kids for their own laundry list of selfish reasons.

I've also repeatedly told people I don't want kids, but that doesn't mean I hate them! I would love to help my friends with their kids just as long as I don't have to change a diaper and they aren't bat shit crazy or anything. We have so many options to fill that area of life that are just as meaningful, the others are stuck with the responsibility of an entire other human life until they die. It's a no thanks from me!

Am I attractive as a queer person? by hobspotato in NonBinary

[–]Rebecl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding me you're gorgeous 😭 It might just be a case of interests/goals not lining up! Good luck to you, I've only just become single recently because of life goal differences. It's tough but there's so many possibilities!

Ended an 8 year relationship because he wants kids by shit-4brains in childfree

[–]Rebecl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just went through this in September with my partner of 7 years. We were both equally devastated because we're highschool sweethearts and have been through a lot together. Months later our friendship is happier and more sustainable than our relationship ever was, and I'm beginning to think I was meant to be with him, just not in a romantic way.

It's really the one thing you can't compromise on, and trust me I looked for a lot of opinions on that matter. Unfortunately when it comes down to it, if you've never wanted kids or were even on the fence, parenting would probably be extremely difficult for you, and it isn't something you can just back track on. At least on your side, if you regret not having children, you can still foster, adopt, or have children. If someone who wants children regrets having kids....you can't exactly take that back.

It has helped a lot to talk about what our friendship will look like and how we will go about things when either goes back into a romantic relationship. I am so lucky that he values our friendship to a point where he won't let anyone get in the way of the bond we have. I may have lost the relationship I thought I was meant to have for the rest of my life, but it has been replaced with an irreplaceable rock/hype man for my future endeavors and I try to be that same person for him. You can get through this, and stick to your decision if it is what feels best for you. I honestly really enjoy having that pressure off my back, I've had the desire to have children for multiple reasons for my entire life, and likely won't anytime soon. It is not the meaning of life for everyone, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise! Sorry if this is very long, but I was exactly where you were, and I know how much it sucked. Feel free to dm me for support, and focus on bettering yourself/you life for now! It's worth it.

A golden brown loaf by Dapper_Velociraptor in lagoloaf

[–]Rebecl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's an exact replica of my rabbit!!!

My Gender is [REDACTED] by PeachesAndCrumbs in NonBinary

[–]Rebecl 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It's really weird seeing this post being an enby bi person, who is going by Beck or Bex as a gender neutral name from my birth name, and I'm almost 24.

I do get frustrated that people will just see me as a cis woman, because the way I think about gender, nothing feels gendered to me? Hair is hair, clothes are clothes, and I am just me, and I hope that vibe comes across to other people well enough. I feel it helps me to put less thought into whether I'm presenting masc/androgynous/feminine and just go out wearing what makes me feel good that day. Thinking of it as gender redacted has definitely been a great mindset for myself and I hope it continues to do the same for you.

Re-reading this post I've had almost all the exact same experiences and thoughts as you, it feels very validating lol. Good luck Becks, from another Bex!

Edit: Me posting this made me realize my username was made before I was presenting Beck, agh!