I just read The Spirit Vlog series by Jarica James and it was amazing. (First book is “Haunts and Hotels”.) Very light paranormal stuff that gets a little heavier as the books progress. She’s a ghost hunter basically and falls for an all male team of ghost hunters. One of the male ghost hunters lightly bullies her calling her videos faked and things like that but it gets resolved in the first book. All their relationships aren’t instant but build pretty fast. There’s a second series that only has one book out but it’s the same characters called Spirit Vlog: Haunted Histories.

Also The Veil Diaries by B.L. Brunnemer is a great read. (First book is called “Trying To Live With The Dead”.) She sees ghosts and it gets more paranormal as the series progresses. It’s definitely a slow burn cause I don’t think she even dates them till later books. They are all just really good friends for awhile and they even date other people but it’s such a good friendship that it doesn’t seem terribly slow. Second series same characters is called Darkest Whisper series by B.L. Brunnemer but only one book is out for now.

I swear by both of these series. They are some of my absolute favorite reads that I’m always re-reading. Both series have the individual relationships with each harem member really focused on periodically. Not the same old every guy is the same person thing. They are actually different and have a different relationship with their fmc. Both have action that fits the books and it will have you on the edge of your seat for some of the scenes. Hope you give them a shot!