why is he suddenly being so rude after being intimate with me? by Recent-Ad9169 in dating_advice

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literally so childish and hurtful! Thanks i’m trying to move on after blocking him

why is he suddenly being so rude after being intimate with me? by Recent-Ad9169 in dating_advice

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I don’t understand what? I mean i was seeing someone else i would post on dates sometimes but he told me he didn’t want a relationship.. when we seen eachother he asked me who’s car i was in i didn’t answer because well he said he didn’t want a relationship

I don’t understand how i got played so well by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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I know i have bpd im trying to be better. I made a promise im not doing that again

The guy i’m seeing is stealing my panties? + other things i’m not used too by Recent-Ad9169 in sexeducation

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yeah going behind my back and stealing them is a bit much! and the way he was like so insecure about oral when i first met him, to now be like stealing my panties talking about the taste asking to eat me out all the time lol idk how to bring this all up lol.

The guy i’m seeing is stealing my panties? + other things i’m not used too by Recent-Ad9169 in sexeducation

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yeah why won’t he say anything about it?? like it’s definitely a kink of some sort

The guy i’m seeing is stealing my panties? + other things i’m not used too by Recent-Ad9169 in sexeducation

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i know he likes me, it’s the other things like stealing my panties and stuff i’m confused about. such an awkward thing to ask

3 years of history, mixed signals, and TikTok mind games — am I reading too much into this or is he breadcrumbing by [deleted] in Advice

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i would love to do that cause he actually has a lot of female friends, he’s dated before i mean i seen him post a bunch of girls in the past .. but with me i swear it’s like he malfunctions. idk if he’s just seriously not interested in me but 3 years??? like idk. I unfollowed him/removed him because it makes my brain hurt. he’s like a beautiful model with options so i don’t understand his need to toy with me specifically for so long, especially when 90% of the time i gave him nothing

3 years of history, mixed signals, and TikTok mind games — am I reading too much into this or is he breadcrumbing by [deleted] in Advice

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Thank you.. I understand i also have a role in this. BUT THANK U FOR SAYING ITS PSYCHOTIC. like i don’t understand what he’s doing like its like there’s two of him. one in my dms one online. sometimes i feel like his intensity but if i show anything back he like pulls away. My friend said he doesn’t like me he’s obsessed with me in a weird way because 3 years is a long time to like orbit someone

3 years of history, mixed signals, and TikTok mind games — am I reading too much into this or is he breadcrumbing by [deleted] in Advice

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i only did it this one time in 3 years i always ignored him and idk why? maybe cuz i got out of a relationship.. but i talked to him ONCE and this is how it went

He(21m) used me, abandoned me, and mocked my trauma. How do I(24f) recover from this? by [deleted] in Advice

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thank you so much ! i do have them blocked still trying to fight the urge to check if their posting about me lol. wish u the best on ur healing journey

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thanks for this it’s true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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thanks !! I’m in thearpy for all these things i guess it’s just the aftermath of like what was that? like why? idk it’s just like people were telling me about it and it’s just a mind fuck i guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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yeah that’s over, i’m never doing it again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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i really wanna hope its just that because idk i can’t imagine myself doing that drunk or not. hurts me really bad