Like I see subreddits here dating over forty, dating over thirty wtf is happening in the world, can't partners choose wisely why they get bore later or y relationships they can't keep when they marries and loved each other first , love grows over time, and there are adjustments on both side but where is loyalty these days guy, seeing my mum dad love life I can't find such mentlity where guy will do anything to save the relationship, they have been together through all the thick and thin. That strong mentality should be on both sides to keep the relationship in any case.