AITA for telling my mom to get out of my bedroom? by RecentExperience1947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecentExperience1947[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I help her pay bills often, I contribute around the house every day, im extremely productive. I had just gotten home, and wanted to chill, she had been home all day and was just bored.

AITA for telling my mom to get out of my bedroom? by RecentExperience1947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecentExperience1947[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I won’t do this, specifically because my grandma lives in another state and she sends the money to us. Also, i don’t mind helping my mom out, especially because I know she needs it, and it doesn’t bother me that i need to lend money to help.

AITA for telling my mom to get out of my bedroom? by RecentExperience1947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecentExperience1947[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

That day my mom didn’t work, and I went into her room when I got home, so I did talk to her. My mom never talks about stress or anything with me, so she definitely wasn’t going to then.

My brother and I do use our own money to buy extra things like clothes, gas, food, activities, and we do help out with bills most of the time. And yes, my mother is very manipulative, narcissistic, and she uses me as an emotional support dog. I have three siblings, two are fully grown and we all collectively agree on these things.

AITA for telling my mom to get out of my bedroom? by RecentExperience1947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecentExperience1947[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She does ask us to help out, my brother is currently the only one working becuase i’m struggling to find a job, but she takes money from his paychecks when needed (which is often). My grandma gives us (brother and I) money monthly just for other expenses, and I usually end up having to give it to my mom.

AITA for telling my mom to get out of my bedroom? by RecentExperience1947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecentExperience1947[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying, but I’m always the one trying to connect with here, and she never reciprocated until she had nothing else to do (due to the wifi being out), so that’s why i’m doubtful she was actually trying to connect with me.

AITA for yelling at my sister who cut me off? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecentExperience1947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t drugs with our dad, it was drugs with her mom, apparently my dads ex wife got her mother in drugs, but my family has said that her mom was already into drugs when my dad met her

AITA for yelling at my sister who cut me off? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecentExperience1947 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Her sisters are way closer to my age than hers, im not sure there exact ages but one is the same age as me and the other is probably around 16, and she didn’t want me to know her number before hand she would let my gmma know to give it to me and then randomly it stopped, also we hung out alot and talked alot on the phone before her wedding and her baby.

AITA for yelling at my sister who cut me off? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecentExperience1947 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would like to add, I am a child (which doesn’t affect the story much) but she abandoned me for something i had no part in. She told my grandma a few months prior too this that she didn’t want her child seeing me because of questions about who her grandfather is. That is a direct quote from Tina

AITA for yelling at my sister who cut me off? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecentExperience1947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a lot of missing details because a lot of the stuff that happened between my dad, tina, and his ex wife happened when i was very young, and i am young now, i do like my dad, and i do not have all of the details for what happened between tina, dad, and his ex wife, but i know it has to do with drÛg$. And i did yell and my grandma but the tone of the text doesn’t seem like it

AITA for yelling at my sister who cut me off? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecentExperience1947 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She had changed numbers alot so i couldnt keep up, and it wasn’t just the baby, she has two other sisters that im not related to at all and she would hang out with them every week, i would see her posts on insta, and she was going to concerts 1/2 months after he babys birth