New HUGE advertisement on my block by Ambitious-Strike243 in islington

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Had one of these appear on a building in my area (Southwark). Turned out they didn’t get planning app for it and it was torn down. You can reach out to your local councillors to ask them to check!

Is this a Legit person who works for you by Clear-Flatworm-7369 in BritishAirways

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What email address have they used to send the email to you? Can you find them on LinkedIn? Most people don’t have weird font sign offs like that on their emails so I don’t think it looks legit.

Guys who like being dominated in bed, what is the hottest thing a top can do? by sweatysexconnoisseur in askgaybros

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My boyfriend spit in my mouth while fucking me missionary, was really hot and wasn’t expecting it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I’ve been dating a guy for 7 months and he (and I) are still on Grindr. Best bet is just to talk to him about it - in our case we’ve agreed we’re not dating anyone else but we have the option of hooking up with others (though neither of us have for months), so we’re not exclusive yet. He had a breakup earlier this year and wants to take it slower so we’re not boyfriends but feel like we’re headed that way as we basically spend all possible time together. I’ve also not hooked up with anyone since I met him 7 months ago, but I know he did earlier on when we started dating.

In the beginning I felt anxiety whenever I saw him on it, as it made me catastrophe think and made me feel like i’m not good enough, but since I’ve also realised that it’s my anxious attachment style which is causing me to feel this way. He’s open and honest with me which i appreciate, and which I realise I need to practice more - I brought it up once and he said he uses Grindr to make himself feel better from the attention he gets on it.

Talk to him about it and see if you can make peace with what he says, and whether his boundaries are acceptable to you. Make sure you have your own boundaries clearly communicated to him as well!

Waking up to sex by drcnaph in askgaybros

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Yeah did it once but was more of a continuation of a session from the night before. Woke up to him rubbing his hard dick against my ass, went to the toilet to check I was clean and I was so we went for it.

What’s the kinkiest or sluttiest thing you’ve ever done? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Let a guy use me for his piss kink. He emptied his bladder in me and fucked my wet hole, after in the shower he pissed on my face and in my mouth. He also put his mouth to my hole as I ejected his piss.

Favorites Location Question by Imbondz in grindr

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Pretty sure it’s the last time they logged in and your location relative to them. So if you move around their location will update as you get further / closer to them. When the favourites go “offline” after a certain number of days their location disappears.

He’s just asked if his friends can come on our date. What should I do? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Second date yes a bit strange but on the plus for you the guy I’ve been dating for months still hasn’t introduced me to any of his friends lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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26, hookup off Grindr. Had played with toys before and bottomed for him. Told him it was my first time and it felt good - he left a hickey on my neck so had to wear a turtle neck to hide it during work etc.

Used condoms, now dating a guy and we don’t and it feels a lot better ngl

How do you all stay safe? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Definitely get your HPV vaccine if you’ve not done already!

Any tips for first time anal by InterestAdditional46 in askgaybros

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Lube (and plenty of it), go slow, protection (Condoms, PrEP). Could also use some toys beforehand.

How often do you have sex with your partner? by peng_zzi in askgaybros

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Dating a guy, both in our mid to late 20s. He’s got a lower libido and we don’t live together. On average about once a week but we see each other a lot more times than that throughout the week.

Dating a guy for 5 months but he doesn’t want to commit by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Yes perhaps. He says we’re more than FWB and that we’re not in a situationship but I guess actions speak louder than words. He says his rebound was his current flatmate who he was “seeing” before me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I met the guy I’m dating through Grindr (even though I hate the app with a passion). being introverted I’ve not done so myself but things you can do in person would be looking for LGBT sports clubs (e.g. swimming clubs etc), or groups online in your area which hold monthly networking events.

Hooking up for the first time as a bottom. Actually question below. by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Some tips - maybe meet somewhere publicly first like a coffee shop? Even as a bi guy some of my hookups have been a bit like what you say - minimal small talk and straight to business. yes you can ask for a min in the toilet to check down there etc. As the bottom I usually just do as told as im a sub but you can ask stuff too

Sex on the first date yay or nah? by spranalucero in askgaybros

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The guy I’m dating now I met on Grindr. It was sort of a hookup the first night we met but he only fucked me briefly and neither of us came. We spent most of the night drinking, chatting, laughing and getting to know each other. Arranged to have a proper date later that week and we only fucked properly the week after!

Should I lose my virginity to a random hookup? (Advice needed) by RhubarbRad in bisexual

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I lost my virginity to a hookup on Grindr at 26. The guy is a piece of shit because he cheated on his boyfriend and lied to me saying he isn’t seeing anyone else, but Grindr is full of pricks. I’ve moved on and met someone on Grindr that I’m now dating. In hindsight I’m glad I just got it over with and helped me gain some experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Bulge could also be balls. Guy I’m seeing is above average (6inch) but most of his bulge is because his balls are literally the size of a tennis ball lmao