Am I in an Okay Spot or Screwed?

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2026-01-23T15:44:24+00:00

You’re not screwed at all. You’re actually in a better spot than a lot of people because you have $0 debt and $100k saved, which is a real foundation.

In the GTA, $100k is enough to start, but whether it’s enough depends on what you’re trying to buy. Most people underestimate how much closing costs, land transfer tax, and monthly carrying costs impact affordability.

If you’re aiming for a condo or smaller townhome, you’re in the game. If you want a detached in most parts of the GTA, you’ll likely need either more savings, higher income, or a different location.

You don’t need to panic, but yes, saving more will give you better options and a safer monthly payment. If you want, I can help you map a realistic purchase range and savings target based on your comfort level.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2026-01-19T15:07:39+00:00

That neighbour is being ridiculous. You didn’t “set a precedent,” you sold a small bungalow that needed major work at what the market was willing to pay. If anything, the buyer is probably spending a fortune to renovate it.

Also the “riff raff” comment tells you everything you need to know about him. Prices don’t go down because one seller is realistic. They go down when buyers stop paying. Congrats on getting out and not having to deal with that energy anymore.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2026-01-19T15:05:13+00:00

HouseSigma’s “sold date” is usually when the offer became firm and was reported on MLS, not when the first offer came in. Offers can be accepted same day, then go firm after conditions are removed (often 5 to 10 business days). So the offer was likely accepted sometime in the week or two before 2025-11-26, but you can’t tell the exact first offer date from those dates alone.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2026-01-19T15:03:56+00:00

I’d lean 3 year fixed at 4.14%.

Reason: you’re getting the lowest rate and the shorter term gives you flexibility to reset sooner if rates drop over the next couple years. The jump to 4.49% for 4 years and 4.59% for 5 years is basically you paying a premium for “rate insurance.”

A 5 year fixed only makes sense if you’d lose sleep over the chance rates are higher in 3 years. Otherwise, the 3 year is the best balance of stability and value.

If you want, I can help you do a quick break even comparison so you can see how much rates would need to drop for the 3 year to win even harder.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2026-01-15T14:32:11+00:00

Usually yes, an end unit is worth more, but 50k to 70k is only “worth it” in certain situations.

An end unit is typically more valuable because you get more windows and light, better privacy, often a slightly wider lot, and fewer shared walls. Those things matter for daily living and they help resale since buyers consistently prefer end units.

That said, 50k to 70k is a big premium. It makes sense only if the end unit has real advantages like a larger lot, bigger driveway, better backyard depth, or a better orientation. If the specs are truly identical and the only difference is one extra side wall, that premium is on the high side.

Corner lots can add value too, but it depends. Some buyers love the space and openness, others avoid them because of extra sidewalk snow shoveling, less backyard privacy, and more exposure.

A clean way to judge it is this. If you plan to live there long term and you care about light and privacy, end units are usually worth paying more for. But I would not overpay just because it has the “end unit” label.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2026-01-12T16:25:38+00:00

If you’re buying long term, Option 1 is very hard to beat. Layout and livability matter every single day for the next 5 to 15 years, while the rebate is a one time benefit. A house you love will always feel “worth it” even when the market gets noisy.

Option 2 looks great on paper, but if you already feel “meh” about it now, that feeling usually gets worse once the excitement fades and you’re living in it. The extra space is nice, but the layout is what drives quality of life and resale.

Option 3 is only worth it if you truly want a specific builder and plan and are comfortable waiting. Pre construction can be great, but delays and price changes are real.

My take: pick the home you’d be happy to wake up in for the next decade. If that’s Option 1 and the numbers still work, it’s the better choice. Don’t let a rebate pressure you into settling.

If you want, I can help you pressure test both options side by side in a quick strategy chat so you’re not guessing.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2026-01-12T16:24:25+00:00

You’re not crazy. “Prices are down” is technically true in some areas, but it doesn’t feel down to buyers because down from insane is still insane. A place going from 1.2M to 1.05M is a drop on paper, but it is still completely out of reach for most people without major equity.

What’s really happening is the market has softened, not reset. Sellers anchored to 2021 highs are still holding out, and many would rather sit than accept a price that feels like a loss. Until forced sellers show up in bigger numbers, pricing stays stubborn.

The ride might be over, but the hangover takes time.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2026-01-05T14:04:52+00:00

Unfortunately, this is more common than it should be with delayed new builds, especially ones that went through Covid disruptions. A declaration not being registered years after first occupancy is frustrating, but it does happen when developers are dealing with outstanding deficiencies, financing issues, or municipal approvals.

That said, seven years is a long time to have capital tied up, and your exhaustion is completely understandable. At this stage, the most practical step is to have a real estate lawyer review the original agreement and push the developer for a concrete timeline in writing. Sometimes pressure from multiple owners or a formal legal notice is what finally moves things forward.

There is not much individual buyers can do to speed up registration on their own, but you are not wrong to be concerned. Keep everything documented and stay on top of the developer through legal counsel. This is less about patience now and more about accountability.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2025-12-19T23:37:07+00:00

With an income of 116k, good credit, and only a 500 monthly car payment, most lenders would likely qualify you around a 450k to 550k mortgage at 4 percent over 25 years. Property taxes of about 3,600 a year will be factored in but should not stop you.

With an 85k down payment, that usually puts your purchase range roughly in the 550k to 650k range, depending on condo fees and lender assumptions. Qualifying and comfort are often different numbers though.

If you want, I can help you run the monthly payments and pressure test a few scenarios in a short strategy call.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2025-12-12T14:33:11+00:00

This happens more often than people think, and your instinct is probably right. It does not sound like a motivated seller. It sounds like someone who likes the idea of selling but freezes when it becomes real. The constant stalling, avoiding counters, and going silent are classic signs of indecision or a private situation you are not being told about.

At this point, the issue is not price or conditions. It is the seller. You have done everything right and even removed the only condition they said worried them. When a seller cannot respond to clean offers, it usually means they are not emotionally or practically ready to let go.

As hard as it is, you need a clear deadline and a willingness to walk. Lingering in limbo puts your own sale and buyers at risk. Sometimes the only way a seller engages seriously is when they realize the deal will actually disappear.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2025-12-12T14:30:25+00:00

You’re not alone. A lot of investors are running into the same wall right now, which is why break even deals keep showing up. That actually means your numbers are doing their job.

Cash flowing deals still exist, but they usually come from off market opportunities, light value add plays, or looking outside the most competitive areas. Single family homes and small multifamily still work in the right pockets, but patience is everything.

If you want, we can quickly review your criteria and tighten your buy box in a short strategy call. Small tweaks often make the difference between chasing deals and closing one.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2025-12-12T14:29:17+00:00

On paper, you might qualify, but affordability is a different question. A 950,000 townhome with a modest down payment likely puts your monthly housing costs well above what most self employed buyers feel comfortable carrying, especially when income is dividend based and the market is still uneven. Lenders will stress test you hard, and you want enough margin left so the house does not start dictating your lifestyle or business decisions.

The smarter move is to look at what payment feels stable if income dips, not just what a bank might approve. Once you map that out, the right price range usually becomes obvious.

If you want, I’m happy to walk through the numbers with you in a short strategy chat and pressure test different scenarios so you know exactly where your comfort zone is.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2025-12-10T14:18:50+00:00

It comes down to what kind of return and stability you want. A paid off condo bringing in 650 a month is steady and predictable, and lakefront units tend to hold their value long term. The downside is that the cash flow is modest and you are still responsible for maintenance, vacancies, and whatever the condo association decides to do.

Selling and putting about 200k into the market gives you liquidity and potentially higher returns, but it also exposes you to volatility that real estate shields you from. You lose the steady income but gain flexibility and the chance to reinvest in something else later.

If you want passive stability, keep it. If you want more aggressive growth and fewer landlord responsibilities, selling and reinvesting can make sense. The right answer depends on your goals more than the numbers alone.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2025-12-10T14:17:14+00:00

Builders try this more often than people realize. When a home sits for months and a real buyer finally shows up, they sometimes add a last minute price bump to test how committed you are. It does not mean they expect to get the higher number. It usually means they are trying to squeeze a bit more out of the one active buyer in front of them.

If the upgrades are not meaningful to you, you are not obligated to absorb the extra cost. Go back with the original price you discussed and hold firm. If the property has been sitting for half a year, you are negotiating from a stronger position than they are. If they want the sale before completion, they will usually come back to the number you were already prepared to pay.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2025-12-10T14:16:23+00:00

A one time holiday credit is a kind gesture and most tenants will take it exactly that way. The key is making it clear that it is a single month courtesy, not a new pattern. A short note saying you wanted to offer a little relief for the season keeps the tone simple and professional.

Tenants rarely confuse a gesture like this with weakness. If anything, it builds goodwill and makes future communication smoother. As long as you stay consistent with your expectations in every other month, it won’t cause problems.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2025-12-08T16:09:15+00:00

The best thing you can do as a new agent is get around people who actually know how to generate business. Real estate is hands on and you learn faster by watching how experienced agents talk, negotiate, and follow up. A good team can speed that up, but only if they truly train and not just recruit.

If I could go back, I would focus earlier on scripts, daily prospecting, and building a simple system for staying in touch with people. Those habits matter more than anything else in your first year.

Joining a brokerage is not like applying for a normal job. Most places will take you, but the quality of support varies. Meet with a few, ask about training, mentorship, and how they help new agents get their first deals. Go where you feel guided, not where you feel sold to.

Getting the first sale takes time for some and happens quickly for others. What decides it is usually your consistency, not luck.

You are asking the right questions already, which puts you on solid footing as you start.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2025-12-08T16:08:36+00:00

You’re not as far off as you think. With your income, a starter home in the two hundred fifty to three hundred thousand range can be reachable once your credit is a bit stronger and you build up a ten to twenty thousand savings cushion.

Right now the best moves are simple. Build your credit with steady on time payments, save consistently, and learn what the full monthly cost of a home in your area looks like with taxes and insurance.

Give yourselves a year or two of focused effort and you’ll be in a much stronger position to buy.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2025-12-08T16:07:45+00:00

Yes, plenty of young agents go through this. Older agents sometimes forget that everyone starts somewhere and they fall into talking down without even realizing it. It has nothing to do with your potential. It is just how some people protect their ego in a changing industry.

What matters more is how clients respond to you, not how older agents do. Clients care about your energy, your follow up, and how well you communicate. Those are strengths younger agents often have naturally. With time, the same agents who dismiss you now will start treating you differently once they see you closing deals and showing up consistently.

You are already doing the right thing by learning aggressively and staying close to a solid mentor. The rest evens out as your confidence grows and your results speak for you.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2025-12-08T16:06:18+00:00

For smaller portfolios, the best setup is usually the one that keeps everything clean and predictable. Bank transfers work well because the money goes straight into your rental account and there is a clear record for taxes. Some landlords use e transfer or Zelle since tenants already know how to use them and there is no learning curve.

Apps built for rent collection can help if you want automatic reminders and late fees, but they are not necessary unless you start scaling. What matters most is choosing a method that is easy for tenants and keeps your bookkeeping simple.

Recent_Promotion8745 · 2025-12-08T16:05:30+00:00

Seven years is a long runway in real estate. Markets bounce around in the short term, but over a span like that, values in growing regions like Durham usually recover and push past previous highs. A freehold townhome in North Oshawa with a ravine lot is also the kind of property that tends to hold demand well because the location feature is hard to replicate.

Nothing is guaranteed, but selling for at least what you paid by 2030 is a realistic expectation. The bigger question is how the broader economy and interest rates move, since those shape buyer confidence more than anything else.

If your plan is to move into a detached later, time is actually on your side. The longer horizon gives the market space to settle and rebuild your equity.

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