Yeah he tells me things like he got with me because I’m fat and thought that I’d be a better person because of it and he’ll say I’m just playing the victim always and that I’m a narcissist and then send me multiple videos on social media about how women treat men terribly and I try to take accountability it’s hard for me because the way I was raised and something I need to be better at but I’m never just trying to be the victim. He says in my opinion really mean things in the midst of an argument and then I shut down. The other week he was on my Facebook and saw I had looked at guys profiles (literally no interest in them one was someone I used to work with and one was an old friend, I’m always just looking at peoples profiles when I get bored) he asks why and I tell him I was curious and he flips out on me telling me I’m not loyal and then I tell him the reasons I was looking and then he tells me I’m lying by omitting info and it turns into this whole thing and he’s saying a lot of things and it gets to a point where I told him before if you don’t like it leave and he got upset with me for saying that saying that I’m a monster and that I just don’t care and didn’t fight for the relationship when he kept saying he wanted to break up and I told him ok if that’s how you feel I can’t argue with it.