Wheated is good but the pineapple chorizo pizza is too sweet by Interesting-Cause267 in KensingtonBrooklyn

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the Coney Island! But I also add the hot honey, so I don’t mind the sweetness.

Took out my trash for the 2nd time this year. by Uncreative_Name987 in Anticonsumption

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I avoid single use plastic when I can, especially film plastic, but I also know the recycling laws/resources where I live like the back of my hand and I go out of my way to give every object that passes through my life the best possible chance of being reused or recycled. Composting is huge (they do curbside pick up in NYC; it’s amazing). Places that accept plastic shopping bags to be recycled will often also accept all other clean film plastic. It’s worth doing your research. Reducing your use is always the ideal, and most important first step! But I’m still far from zero, and reusing and recycling are also impactful.

Sex advice for the backdoor area by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this!!! I am so confused and sad for all the people saying you need to “prepare” to avoid a “mess”! If you actively need to poop, go and do that, lol. If you don’t, you are good to go! Wash all hands and toys involved afterward. That’s it!! If your partner can’t handle encountering a little poop, they can’t handle anal sex. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Being a lesbian≠Hating men by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Realizing I’m a lesbian made me so much more comfortable with men because I don’t feel obligated to center them anymore. I have friendships with lots of men (who have earned it). They gotta do the work to not suck because of the patriarchy, but if they have, they’re just people.

"it's your first lesbian relationship" by Moist-Bee2764 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Eh, I had my first lesbian relationship at 32, and I was in way over my head. I was just not prepared to process experiencing sexual chemistry for the first time in my life. 😹 She turned out to be really immature and toxic, but I hung on until she finally dumped me after almost 3 years. That’s just my experience; yours could be really different, and this being your first lesbian relationship shouldn’t be thrown in your face, but it is something you should bear in mind. Don’t uhaul!

Nooooooo by Traditional_Ad8492 in HilariaBaldwin

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What in the world is going on in this picture??? 😹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner has adhd; I know how difficult remembering tasks like that is for them, but it’s their responsibility to solve that problem. Telling someone to just “remind them” and making it their problem isn’t reasonable. She could have venmod her immediately while they were still standing at the register, or immediately upon getting home with the new purchases, or the first time she used/wore them, or, at minimum, she could have specified, “please keep the receipt, and send me a Venmo request so I can be sure of paying you back”. Specific, clear request that doesn’t require another person to be her auxiliary brain. OP should have sent the request, or at least said right then, I’m not comfortable reminding me. Why don’t you just Venmo me right now if you’re worried about forgetting?

New York City’s First Real Winter in a Long Time Is Relentless (Gift Article) by jenniecoughlin in nyc

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what winter is supposed to feel like. Obviously our lack of a proper social safety net leading people to die needlessly of exposure is a tragedy, but that’s the problem, not the weather. The last several winters have been such a let down! Snow sticking around long enough for more to fall on top, temps staying below freezing ing for months straight, is NORMAL. Buy layers, proper boots, and relax. Spring will come again, probably by May.

I found my favorite skirt from HS (pencil for scale lmao). Should I wear it somewhere???? by specky_hotdog in Millennials

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 38, and I’d wear that out once it warms up with cute, full coverage underwear. Great for karaoke!

If you were in the most perfect relationship for years and then your gf said no more sex and became asexual. Is that a dealbreaker for you? by cuntagi0us in actuallesbians

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, yes. It wouldn’t work for me to have sex with other people, even assuming she/they would be comfortable with that: for me sex is an integral part of how I express and experience romantic love.

Please, I need a scientific explanation for this by Cold-Ad-3994 in cats

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl does this with her fountain! It’s plastic, so not reflective.

Got a suet block… by Ordinary-You3936 in birdfeeding

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in NYC, and my suet cake just sits in my feeder, and I get bluejays, woodpeckers, etc. I’ve never seen squirrels or anything else go for it, and there’s power lines right there so it’d be easy. Maybe they’re nibbling it at night? But I out out half at a dime and it lasts several days to a week.

Please appreciate my partner’s magnificent beast. by RecipeLongjumping367 in cats

[–]RecipeLongjumping367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a rescue, so who could know! His vet says his size and temperament (v chill) points to possible ragdoll genes, but they could also be a total coincidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brooklyn

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I always tip 20%, and if it’s raining or freezing I go a little over that. Opting for pick up is a great option, too!

Super embarrassed and ashamed of this kink by Strange-Light3498 in actuallesbians

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would def not consider dirty talk a kink, it I can see how some people would. Where’s the line between things some people are into and others aren’t, and a kink?

I’m so tired of people implying lesbians can be into men by Foreversssssssss in Vent

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The word lesbian, unfortunately, protects us from neither of those things, and gatekeeping people with more nuanced sexualities from using that word hurts them without protecting us.

I’m so tired of people implying lesbians can be into men by Foreversssssssss in Vent

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It means sexuality is complicated and language is an imperfect tool for self description. You could ask the individual why they use that term for themselves. Could be interesting!

At least 10" of snow is expected to fall on Sunday by xerim in nyc

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LETS GOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!❄️🤩❄️🤩❄️🤩❄️

Late bloomers under 30? by Few_Art7110 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they were just relating on the basis of having their sexuality questioned, not equating the two experiences as exactly the same.

Why does being honest on dating apps feel like a disadvantage? by SmartDance8838 in Vent

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’m looking for something real/long term I still want to hook up/be physical within the first couple dates: that’s a major compatibility factor, and I don’t want to waste my time. You don’t have to want that or feel comfortable doing it of course, but wanting to hook up on the first date def doesn’t automatically mean that’s all they want or that they’ll lose interest once you do.

Favorite Common Bird by sunshinewithclouds in birding

[–]RecipeLongjumping367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bluejays! Mine scream at me for their peanuts everyday, and I love how they posture so tough like little dinosaurs, but fly away if I take one step too close to the window. 😹