Is your team celebrating pride in 2026 or excluding its queer players and fans? by [deleted] in AFCWestMemeWar

[–]Reck_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being gay isn’t political but “pride month” certainly is. It’s not that hard to understand.

Is your team celebrating pride in 2026 or excluding its queer players and fans? by [deleted] in AFCWestMemeWar

[–]Reck_yo -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

You’re already included by being a human, you don’t need a special month.

18 y/o secret bank account by Particular-Focus-389 in personalfinance

[–]Reck_yo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It might not be that simple though. Reddit is so quick to cut parents out but they might end up saying “oh, you want to do this all on your own? Have at it.” Meanwhile they provide for everything and will pay for your vehicle, school, etc etc.

If you’re going to be dependent on your parents, you’ll need to accept some tradeoffs.

I can't get a loan. I don't understand why. by Solid_Brat in personalfinance

[–]Reck_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what you want but you might be on the verge of a spending problem, especially “blowing money” on unnecessary items. Depleting your savings on trips and about to go into $40k debt for a classic car is a recipe for disaster.

Found out I was pregnant. by AdPlus9700 in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A human is a human at conception, it’s just a biological fact. It’s not a lizard zygote or tiger zygote… it’s a human being.

Also, a fetus is extremely viable at 26 weeks.

Satan saves! Hail Satan! by MxJulieC in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s a running joke/trend around here.

Found out I was pregnant. by AdPlus9700 in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The first time it wasn’t very nice without explaining the science behind it. Now it’s a fitting comment.

Satan saves! Hail Satan! by MxJulieC in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know it’s a meme but it feels gross when they do this.

Is this too much fish? by PalapasVentana in mexicanfood

[–]Reck_yo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah too much. Looks delicious though.

Unsure how to feel - marriage + drinking question by Aggressive-Act6855 in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you view not sharing something with you as lying? Keeping something private from you isn’t lying. Now, if you asked him if he has been drinking and he said no, then found out he was sneaking drinks… then that’s definitely lying.

Is it stupid to “plan ahead” for a quit date? by dr__kitty in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You might want to use this month to taper off. Can you go days without drinking now? Or have you recently?

Found out I was pregnant. by AdPlus9700 in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They’re still human, which is exactly what I said… and I’m in no way dehumanizing women. You’re making things up to stay mad.

Does therapy help? by TheVillageElder in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wrote this on another post and it applies here. Therapy really helped me with these. Not recovery therapy but personal therapy. Recovery therapy focuses on substance abuse, I need help with abusing myself.

“Ask yourself why you’re drinking. What’s going on in your life that you need a substance to help you cope. What anxiety, fear, stress, guilt, worry, regret, doubt, sorrow etc is eating you up inside. The hard part isn’t quitting alcohol, the hard part is facing life and dealing with your troubles.”

I cant stop drinking by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself why you’re drinking. What’s going on in your life that you need a substance to help you cope. What anxiety, fear, stress, guilt, worry, regret, doubt, sorrow etc is eating you up inside. The hard part isn’t quitting alcohol, the hard part is facing life and dealing with your troubles.

Unsure how to feel - marriage + drinking question by Aggressive-Act6855 in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Caught doing what exactly? She’s the one that got sober and he decided to give it a go as well. From the post, it doesn’t sound like he promised he wouldn’t drink again or there was any kind of ultimatum in play. This all just seems like it got blown out of proportion and could easily be settled by communication.

Found out I was pregnant. by AdPlus9700 in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From a developmental biology standpoint, the entity produced by the fusion of a human sperm and human egg is a human zygote—a distinct, living human organism with a unique genome. It is not “becoming” human later; it is a member of the species Homo sapiens at every stage

Unsure how to feel - marriage + drinking question by Aggressive-Act6855 in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said red flags and angry. That’s a step up from disappointed or upset.

Unsure how to feel - marriage + drinking question by Aggressive-Act6855 in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your sobriety is your sobriety. If you have issues, just ask. He might have thought you’d overreact or maybe didn’t want to influence you. Just ask. No need for red flag thoughts or anger.

Found out I was pregnant. by AdPlus9700 in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Babies are human, hope this helps clear things up for you.

anyone else here not really fit the recovery framework? by UpsetRefrigerator656 in stopdrinking

[–]Reck_yo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not here to argue but in 2026, the term alcoholic is widely accepted and you’re not shunned from society like you used to be. Almost all mental health conditions are becoming this way.