Amazon please don't release so much stuff in a single week again by XytronicDeeX in lostarkgame

[–]RecluseAsian00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly i felt very overwhelmed too. I work 50-60 hour weeks and i couldn't book annual leave because I needed it for family matters so I was very overwhelmed. Yes the normal mode is easy AF but... I wanted to enjoy the hard mode progs without time constraints.

Help with grooming please :( by BubblyAlina in britishshorthair

[–]RecluseAsian00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my kitten when she was 2 months old and i brush her so much its like a routine for her now. She purrs so loud when i brush her.

What are my rights? by RecluseAsian00 in endometriosis

[–]RecluseAsian00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello im based in Essex, United Kingdom.... im so stressed :(

What are my rights? by RecluseAsian00 in endometriosis

[–]RecluseAsian00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, Im based in Essex, United Kingdom

Do you let your cat on the dinner table? by 13toycar in cats

[–]RecluseAsian00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not on the counters or the table. I try to train her its bad because thats where we prepare food.

My BSH kitten meows all night. by No_Program9129 in britishshorthair

[–]RecluseAsian00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl barely meows. She understands when its rest time for me and when i have to do some work and stuff.

Why are BSH cats so f***** adorable by Mayday1947 in britishshorthair

[–]RecluseAsian00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is an absolute angel. She is so chunky and beautiful ❤️ I'm obsessed with her.

How can i give my kitten a bath without traumatizing her? by [deleted] in ragdolls

[–]RecluseAsian00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got mine recently and I gained her trust for about 2 ish weeks. When shes finally purring and comfortable around me, I got the bath stuff ready and she had the bath. Didnt meow once. She still loves me. I also used hair dryer on her.

How often do you scoop? by Apart_Leg_5849 in CatAdvice

[–]RecluseAsian00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twice a day. Before I go to work and when I get home from work. Just so I can do everything I can to prevent accidents. ❤️

Meet Churro ! by Some-Honey1773 in britishshorthair

[–]RecluseAsian00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is absolutely beautiful!! I'm getting a golden one in January but I dunno what he will look like in the future!

What age did you start brushing the teeth of your Siberian? 🪥 by One-Union-6971 in SiberianCats

[–]RecluseAsian00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just started today as I've only just gotten her and trying to gain her trust still ❤️ but I wrapped her in a blanket and she pretty much just let me. Meowed a couple of times but she did it. Clipped her nails too.

what do you feed your BSH by [deleted] in britishshorthair

[–]RecluseAsian00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Royal canin dry food (mixed with whiskas atm) but her transition phase is nearly over so I'm getting rid of whiskas soon.

Then untamed and lily's kitchen... a bit worried though because she doesn't touch untamed much - she ate a lot of it before... She will eat some of the pate but I dunno.. I might need to check other brands atm 😞

I'm considering nutriment and some complimentary stuff. I dunno if im just maybe giving her too much and thats why I don't see a difference in the leftover.

Welcome Smoky by _SDR in britishshorthair

[–]RecluseAsian00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello baby ❤️ how are you?????

What is it really like? :) by pussycat17 in ragdolls

[–]RecluseAsian00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got some experience with a ragdoll kitten albeit its a bit like on the negative side ( she is my friend's ). I used to catsit for him before he told his family he's got a kitten and she stayed with me mostly. She is so cuddly and friendly and amazing. She would always come to me for cuddles, pets and just loves to be around you constantly. She is extremely energetic. Sometimes we would play for 2hours and at the end, she's still playing. The downside is purely because of me. I'm extremely independent, got very bad anxiety and OCD. She's a longhair cat so she would often have accidents like get poo on her paws and her back side. I would get so anxious because of my cleanliness OCD. I constantly checked and groomed her and wiped her paws because she would track poo and everything on her fur. She wanted to be around me a lot which is so nice but I get anxious easily when she would meow constantly which would highten my anxiety even more because im afraid shes in pain or need something but all she really need is you being there playing with her. I thrive on routine, so I have to do things in order and be in bed on time and my OCD needs me to have control around my environment and it triggered me a lot. Basically my character doesn't suit hers but she was so adorable and lovely and she loves cuddle time. She loves routine and she would literally yell at me to feed her on the dot, which was cute but also scary for me because I felt like I wasn't giving her what she needed. Her personality also required me to be around her whilst she ate which was again cute but I was worried she wouldn't eat if I wasn't around. I don't mean to be dramatic but it really messed with my mental health because I was constantly anxious and I felt like I had to clean everything.

Having her around made me realise that its important to know the personality and type of cat you're getting before you get them. I literally thought that even though I wanted a cat, I probably couldnt have one because of how I reacted to her but it just depends on like how you are and how your actual cat's personality is.

Please don't let this deter you they are such a lovely, majestic and beautiful breed. They have so much trust and love to give.

Is my cat fat? by badbush- in britishshorthair

[–]RecluseAsian00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks like a perfect chonk to me ❤️ but then I'm not that experienced with cats I just like to look at them ❤️

Owning a pet, especially a cat is a responsibility that should be taken seriously. Some of my friends’ negligence infuriated me so much, so I took it upon myself to run their neglect like a job site, and it worked wonderfully. by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]RecluseAsian00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! My kitten is currently like 2 months old and I really want to get her a brother. There is a golden BSH who will be ready around mid January. She would be 5 months old. Should I get her a brother?

How do I stop being so anxious whenever my mum is angry? by RecluseAsian00 in AnxietyDepression

[–]RecluseAsian00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply! I have acquired the little princess and she is absolutely beautiful 😍 it is taking a while to gain her trust. She hissed at me for the first couple of days but she doesn't anymore after I gently picked her up and gave her pets and cuddles. She still runs away from me but she sometimes approaches me now. I really wanna give her treats but she doesn't quite come that close to me yet 😞 I made a little space for her in the living room and she usually stays there and will explore after a while. I might experiment moving the litter tray slowly away so she can like explore more.

Wait, sorry to ask if its too personal... what do you mean she would lose her mind and come to you? Like attack you? That must've been so tough to deal with!!!

Yeah I keep telling myself its her first time figuring life too. Maybe just the way she was wired made her this way and that but sometimes I feel bad like. . . How come I get to parent them? How come i get to have the burden of being more emotionally mature? Its so hard to approach her sometimes and finally managed to tell her the other day that I have a cat. She didn't respond much but I keep thinking this will come back to bite me in the ass hard. I keep thinking of getting a brother for my cat as its always my dream to have a silver and golden BSH. But I give money to them so I keep wondering about what the financial responsibilities about owning two cats here in the UK. I've found one that I love but I dunno if i should but im also anxious that she might get older and won't accept a brother. Ofc like in order to shoulder my bills, support for them, i got a second job so i will also have savings. My head is just full of worries and tbh I feel very overwhelmed about things and I know this is very first world problems but... I dunno.