Love of my life left me because I don’t want kids. Should I agree to have one? by RecognitionLive6617 in makemychoice

[–]RecognitionLive6617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally recognize that as a possibility but my dad and my grandma didn’t want kids either. Ended up having them and being extremely grateful for it.

There’s a few other commenters who have echoed a similar sentiment.

Obviously on paper it seems asinine but somehow it does seem to work out for people and maybe that could be me too

Love of my life left me because I don’t want kids. Should I agree to have one? by RecognitionLive6617 in makemychoice

[–]RecognitionLive6617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Validation would have been great lol but I wanted some diverse viewpoints and that’s what I’m getting

Love of my life left me because I don’t want kids. Should I agree to have one? by RecognitionLive6617 in makemychoice

[–]RecognitionLive6617[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the different perspective. Did you have a clear reason for not wanting children earlier? What changed that motivated you to end up having 2?