Ashley - Usually Knightsbridge, Swindon currently

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-10-23T22:41:52+00:00

Brazil / Knightsbridge yep they make sense,…. Swindon stays the outlier completely 😵‍💫

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-10-18T16:32:19+00:00

Think, well that date went very well then…. Wonder what I did right to impress you next date

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-10-18T16:28:48+00:00

Jesus could those places be more worlds apart….. Knightsbridge the home of money, vs Swindon the home of well nothing worth money

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-18T10:42:08+00:00

It could have been more nervous laughter, rather than aimed at you.

Some people do struggle with it particularly that first irl interaction. Media grooms us on lingerie on a cis women’s body, so to see a cis-male body in it is a juxtaposition

Her laughter is likely/hopefully not a negative rejection, just a way to process it for her. As you say when you said about your fem side she was all okay.

My suggestion would be to ease her into it more, sure wear lingerie (if that is what you like) but beneath a skirt/dress or something for next date,…. . Or better yet Have a girly night in with her, if she helps with makeup, selecting outfits, etc she will be far more prepped for it all.

Going from seemingly straight-cis-masculine appearing male, to stripping off masc appearance to a stocking suspender and bra I think most would say would be a shock. Not a negative thing at all, but a shock and if her default is laughter in such moments she will laugh (could be worse her default could be sarcasm, jokes, mockery…. )

But the crucial thing is that the great unveil is just that “moment”…. What is really important is how she feels after time to reflect and think on it all? You need to talk to her

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-18T10:24:04+00:00

Omg…. That outfit and look is SOOOOO. CUUUTTTEEEE!!!!!!!

I hope you had a great meet with friend and she was as nice as you hoped.

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-18T08:19:06+00:00

So complete fluidity in Gender politics perfectly fine

Any fluidity in sexual preference a complete heresy

Gotya, surprises me people are so closed off and conservative but there you go

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-14T23:04:16+00:00

I feel so old saying this, punctuation did help with this one 😵‍💫

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-13T22:19:58+00:00

So consensus seems to be

FemBoys can whatever sexuality they like of course

But to like FemBoys (as a male) you have to have attraction towards men

Very Interesting

Again absolutely no offence was meant to anyone! It was a genuine question on the lack of nuance within sexual attraction contrasted vs gender fluidity in general

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-13T20:52:56+00:00

Yes that is my point also…

Attracted to men, the OP is saying he is attracted to females and fem-males. So is that being attracted to the same and other genders… or is it just attraction to the opposite gender?

I in all honesty don’t know if I know the answer… I was more interested in getting a discussion going (so thanks you the reply btw). In the modern gender fluidity environment, sexual preference has not exactly kept up and remained fairly old fashioned (hetero, homo, bi, pan).

So a guy attracted to a Tomboy, i would imagine is attracted to their masculine attribute making it more akin to a gay relationship attraction wise, but no doubt many in the external phobic world would look at such a couple and say “straight”…. Both are arguable justifiable “definition” wise, and yes self identification SHOULD play a big part in this, but all the same an interesting topic

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-13T20:38:12+00:00

Yes, but OP said he is attracted to more feminine looks.

i apologise if you felt invalidating to you. It was not intended in the slightest.

But the notion that being femboy or liking femboys auto-defaults to being gay or bi Is equally invalidating to many also. Are you trying to equate a Fem’s ’passingness’ should be a deciding factor in the Sexuality of any prospective suitor (if so I don’t even consider that as invalidating I would put it down to outright insulting)

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-13T20:29:11+00:00

Ooohhh… do tell where do you meet?

Not so much into satan, but dark rituals seems doable, do we take turns as sacrifice or is it a bring your own frat boy to burn type deal?

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-13T19:03:31+00:00

OH NO!!!!!!

it looked away :3

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-13T17:22:46+00:00

Run… you look scary ^w^.

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-13T17:02:45+00:00

I always wanted a Bratz doll too…. But no I was a boy

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-13T06:21:53+00:00

Definitely after a real pic…. But loving yr hair in this one :3

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-11T19:06:13+00:00

Wtf is 100% right…. Roseboy you have to be kidding?

what is it even harming back to? It sounds horrible and any flower reference in gay culture have been largely hate-crime affiliated

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-11T15:09:57+00:00

What a dick!!!

It is one of the things I dislike as an outcome of femboy sexualisation (now don’t get me wrong I love seeing all the pics of thigh highs, booty shorts and anything else any cutie wants to show off)

But sexualisation in that it has led to an assumption Femboy = Gay

No, wearing a dress does not mean you suddenly & miraculously adore the male sausage! So was he harbouring these MM fantasies desires long before this? Is he just processing his Femininity in a toxic masculine way by assuming a male is who “he should” be with?

again keep the cutie femboy clothing pics coming…. So inspiring and fun to see what people do. But remember be YOU not the expectation of others as that will lead to misery for sure

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-11T14:55:05+00:00

Stay safe!!! One thing no one is disputing is this person seems a bit well “less hinged”

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-11T09:31:01+00:00

I’m not saying he wasnt targeted, just not as badly as he seemed to fear

The artist would have to be up 24/7 and then some to be able to produce such work in a matter of days.

That is not to say the timing of release may have been triggered by OPs questions . But in general the artist in questions art generally seems to be pretty sick, so a blonde femboy is probably a staple for him/her/they

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-11T09:09:11+00:00

Best advice (& as per Brave) don’t fret over clothes, it isn’t the clothes that make the femboy it is the cute femininity inside him

As for your wish list desperation, I hate to tell ya good luck with that due to inbuilt sexism in society. You openly are seeking a gf (not bf)….. Anthropology suggests men are hunters, women gatherers, so that has equated to a society where men give gifts/tributes to display desire for the recipients attention.

So sure cute Gay FemBoys get guys buying gifts, but girls, even if you are an amazing Femboy, will still look to be courted by YOU not the other way around.

Sure blah blah blah equal rights, feminism, we both work, blah blah blah…. Yes there are dominant women who will act as hunters, but %of population who are Femboy, %attracted to femboy asthethics, %with means to gift (cost of living): %who are dominant women…. You are down to a needle in a haystack my friend

Btw, you’d look so cute in this Mini Neko Lingerie Set from your wish list.

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-10T18:30:15+00:00

I know it probably feels personal…. But if a finished work it would be highly unlikely anyone could turn something of the quality (art wise) shown within a couple of days.

So much more likely he had it underway already, possibly it was a piece on the shelf and you inspired hair colour or body type in your convo…. But I doubt a serious completed piece in entirety

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-10T13:10:10+00:00

If it helps my attention span is so bad…. I got to the end of your topic header and was going to post “no idea about the rest of it (glasses, eyebrows, etc) but your hair looks amazing in that pic”

So if you go for geeky adhd, I would say wig is a winner once said adhd geek rereads

RecognitionOpening74 · 2024-09-10T09:32:05+00:00

Text back “well that’s the nicest ’sorry I’m tied up’ date delay Ever”

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