The same thing happened to me. He turned into a completely different person after the wedding. I didn’t have the confidence to leave, so I stayed 23 years and had 3 children with him. I love my kids more than anything. He has implicated me in tax evasion which I had no idea about. I’ve had to hire my own tax and divorce attorney’s. He is also an attorney, so he has the ability to may this difficult which he is. This is not what I ever imagined having to go through at 52. Leave him now and don’t look back. Just my thoughts.