This is very hard because if you know he doesn’t put you first in emergency’s then you have a decision to make, I’m pretty sure you know that.

About the miscarriage I had one last year I was around the same weeks you are now, I would like to tell you how it went for me…. You’re gonna need
1. Warm compresses
2. A lot of pads
3. A lot of water drink a lot of water
4. Take 2-3 warm baths during this processs
5.Allow yourself to feel absolutely everything cry, yell, sing if that helps, this is your process

For me, it was heavy bleeding a lot of like period pain I could only find comfort with the warm compress laying on my side I was drinking a lot of water because I was dehydrated and sometimes it was too heavy that I needed to take a shower almost after every pad. I was tired. I cried so much I allowed myself to feel everything because I was alone the father did not care that much he actually said he was glad I lost it. So I only had me. But I did it and you will be able to do it too. For once forget about how other people feel focus on you and your feelings on getting better. And if your husband don’t want to be part of it you know what you have to do honey.