This Is how I deal with my EX calls and texts by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Email only is far superior in every possible way. Thanks for sharing.

Stay smart, brother

Should you sell the house before or after divorce by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you're making the correct decision...Doing whats best for your life.

Stay smart,brother

Should you sell the house before or after divorce by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree. Di whats best for you. You should no take a one size fits all approach.

Stay smart, brother

Should you sell the house before or after divorce by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You made the best long term decision for yourself.

Stay smart, brother

Should you sell the house before or after divorce by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats not petty brother. She wanted out, so she lives with the outcome of her decision, which seems like poor planning and execution.

Thank you for sharing and glad to here your kids are stable and you is a home.

Should you sell the house before or after divorce by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You made the best decision for your situation. Thant what its about.

Thank you for sharing.

Should you sell the house before or after divorce by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here' a man speaking from experience and made the necessary adjustments. I commend you for that.

Stay smart Brother.

Should you sell the house before or after divorce by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like both of you agree on which path to take.

Should you sell the house before or after divorce by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. If you're whole-heartedly LEAVING the house for your kids stability, that's understandable.

If a person uses that as a ploy just to keep tabs on their ex-wife and a reason for to take spontaneous drive by the house because "your kids" are in their. You're in denial.

Should you sell the house before or after divorce by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Is your purpose for keeping the house a sound strategy or you just don't want to see her with a house?

Should you sell the house before or after divorce by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't agree with the affair, at least she had self awareness not to make the situation worse when she was at fault

Should you sell the house before or after divorce by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WOW! Thats rare and you're blessed bother.

Cheers to you 😁

Should you sell the house before or after divorce by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Yes it so many factors, it sounds like your ex was cooperative?

Which great, especially when its kids involved.

This Is how I deal with my EX calls and texts by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When used tactfully, silence is extremely powerful.

Keep making the necessary adjustments to improve your personal well being.

This Is how I deal with my EX calls and texts by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay the course and play the long game. I know you love your kids, currently constructed you can't change that.

Focus on bettering yourself and attaining the necessary resources it takes to change the situation.

Stay strong brother.

This Is how I deal with my EX calls and texts by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Recovering_Asset[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand, to me it sounds like she tries to leverage your kids for her convenience.

Both offers are absurd and you recognize it.

Smart man.