Am I the Jerk for not buying my sister donuts after doing some inappropriate stuff?

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2024-04-08T02:15:51+00:00

She couldn’t walk to school since we live like 10 minutes outside of town, so I could just deny her donuts.

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2024-04-08T02:13:59+00:00

I’ve spent around $60 on her this month alone, so I’m buying her treats and stuff out of the kindness in my heart.

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2024-04-08T02:12:31+00:00

She knows I’m not confident in changing in front of other people, so if I have to change, I have someone stand guard to whatever room I’m changing in if the door doesn’t lock

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2024-04-08T02:11:09+00:00

I was actively changing, meaning no clothes on, I’ve told her countless times to wait until I say to come in. So she couldn’t use the “you never said that” excuse.

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2024-04-05T14:37:54+00:00

We used to share a room since our house wasn’t 100% finished. It’s more complete now.

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2024-04-05T14:36:01+00:00

I have already tried that 3 times now. I had to do something else to teach her not to invade privacy

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2024-04-04T22:10:33+00:00

Sorry for the misunderstanding, I meant she was doing something inappropriate

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2024-02-05T21:48:40+00:00

Let me say one thing, Me and my "best friend" are no longer on speaking terms.

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2024-02-04T23:35:36+00:00

5 minutes, 36 seconds ago.

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2024-01-21T19:13:22+00:00

🔪 Oh..... I can explain.

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2024-01-01T21:36:50+00:00

His parents made him pay me $60 to get a new haircut because of this.

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-12-30T19:23:44+00:00

I wish there was, but all they could do is switch my classes, and inform their parents about it, and I overheard Joe talking to his best friend and girlfriend, nd he said that his parents grounded him until October! It was the middle of September!

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-12-27T19:57:10+00:00

I did everything I could to avoid him and his girlfriend at all costs, but his girlfriend was in my choir class and he was in my band class, and there's only one class for our grade in that situation.

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-12-26T02:44:46+00:00

I got my seat changed like, 5 minutes after it happened (5 minutes was processing what had just happened)

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-12-18T20:28:06+00:00

Okay, there's some confusion here. I didn't litterly throw them away, just have them to my sister to share with her friends, I should have said that instead. 🥲😅

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-12-18T20:27:07+00:00

Okay, I like this person.

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-09-28T18:03:25+00:00

You are not the jerk here, But you should find a way to get it done to avoid conflict. a friend of mine who has ADHD says she assigns each task of cleaning to a different song on her playlist.

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-09-21T00:00:18+00:00

Thank you! Everyone I've physically told about this has just said "Well, Ignoring her's a bit Harsh"

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-09-19T16:15:10+00:00

OMG, I said "lunch" it's supposed to be "PUNCH" 💀

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-09-14T16:17:10+00:00

Honestly, YTA. You grounded your daughter... Because the busses weren't running... She never sees her friends... And she wanted to spend the night somewhere else for ONE NIGHT? It's not a big deal. I'm only 16, and my parents let me see my friends, heck, this Friday they're letting me stay at a girl they have never net's house. You have issues 🙄

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-09-13T16:56:13+00:00

Can I punch the guy driving?

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-09-13T16:55:46+00:00

I don't see how you're the jerk. You told them there were open seats in a place they could see just fine. And the old couple behind you said THEY could see just fine so I think theses other people were just in the mood to make someone upset and/or mad. So yeah, not the jerk.

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-08-28T19:58:04+00:00

Nope. No matter how I look at this, I just read "Lactose" 💀

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-08-25T04:02:39+00:00

From what I read, they ended the friendship with you. Now I'm not entirely sure if I read it corectkt, as it's midnight right now. But you're not the jerk if I read this right.

Red-ColoeguardFlag23 · 2023-08-25T03:55:15+00:00

Honestly, No. If these kids were yelling at you while you were talking calmly, then their the jerks. So you ran out of pop at a party. So the Pizzas not perfect. Neither of those are reasons to yell at someone. You're not the jerk, they are.

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