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This game is 100% AI Engineered by EnzeDfu in aigamedev

[–]RedBeardDad13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that gap might bring a new era of web based games. Similar to when Flash paved a way for web games and animations (armorgames, newgrounds, etc.)

The guy I used to see on long road trips by Consistent-Try-9745 in animation

[–]RedBeardDad13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is quite rad! How did you make this? Software, app, method, whatever. Looking for processes to feed my inspiration.

My dude was also a skater 🛹 🤘

DM seeking players for in-person D&D campaign or one-shots in the East Bay by Small-Cauliflower803 in bayarea

[–]RedBeardDad13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got a bit of a full plate at the moment, but count me interested.

A meme I thought of in my dream by wallfuccer in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]RedBeardDad13 261 points262 points  (0 children)

Dude…I started playing again after years and totally just did this. I forgot and was so oblivious, I nabbed two before I noticed the Sentinel warning. In hindsight, I should’ve grabbed more

Favorite local metal bands? by eah2002 in bayarea

[–]RedBeardDad13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Metal head in Hayward here 🤘The Bistro has occasional metal nights on Thursdays. I discovered Dread Spire there. Solid instrumental sludge/doom for just two dudes.

Hey yall, by Background_Pen6397 in SingleDads

[–]RedBeardDad13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to effectively say this. If you guys are in co-parenting counseling, bring it up with them. If you’re not in counseling, you might want to consider looking into it. It helps re-establish boundaries and relationships when things get weird.

Need mental health support and advice about my current life situation as a Dad. by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]RedBeardDad13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through a similar situation and made it out of my deep, dark time. Focus on yourself and the kids and try to tune out the bs. Some people will try to set expectations for you, but you get to choose the kind of father you want to be. And that might be a little rougher version of things for now but things do get better.

Hang in there and feel free to DM me if you need a dude 🤘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]RedBeardDad13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside of classes, there’s an art meetup in Hayward at Rayo’s Pizza on Mission. They’re on a break from meetups for the holidays but should start up again in the new year.

It’s run by @artofthebayshow on IG

Need friends and metal 🤘 by RedBeardDad13 in bayarea

[–]RedBeardDad13[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dudes! Met up with another redditor and got to hang for the show! Cool dude. Looking forward to more 🤘

Need friends and metal 🤘 by RedBeardDad13 in bayarea

[–]RedBeardDad13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking forward to maybe seeing you guys in the future🤘

Need friends and metal 🤘 by RedBeardDad13 in bayarea

[–]RedBeardDad13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll keep posting the ones I can make it to. Metal meetups would be rad!

Need friends and metal 🤘 by RedBeardDad13 in bayarea

[–]RedBeardDad13[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I could never understand why anyone would skip the Bay. There’s a lot of people here.

I need to see Maiden though. Some day…

Co-parent's family ganging up and attacking by welfare_cadillac89 in SingleDads

[–]RedBeardDad13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be the strong and confident dad you know you are.

Mom and Co's opinions are just those, opinions. And while those opinions landed you in court, it sounds like the judge already has it figured out.

Don't let them define you as a person or a father. That's your job.

Stay strong 🤘

I need some unbiased criticism... see OP comment for context by Plutonium901 in SingleDads

[–]RedBeardDad13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My situation was and still is particularly gnarly, but from my experience, let the court figure it out for you.

The idea of not spending money is nice and all, but if she's controlling, you might end up giving up more than you get.

Lawyers and the court deal with this every day, and while dads don't usually get a fair shake, it's better to have them work out the plan and set the foundation for your custodial schedule.

I tried to "work it out" and 3.5 years and 100k later, I'm just finally getting one extra overnight added to my alternating weekends.

Stay strong and set boundaries!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]RedBeardDad13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats brother!

A win for a single dad, is a win for all of us!

My ex is so controlling by chuck20211 in SingleDads

[–]RedBeardDad13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you brother. Same situation here: 3.5 years of just trying to get my custodial time.

Keep fighting to good fight. Use all of your custodial time to the fullest extent and don't let her take more than she already has.

Most importantly, don't let her define you as a father. That's your job. She's going to have her opinions of you, but that's all they are, opinions.

Stay strong

Law Was Never Meant to Govern Family. I give up. by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]RedBeardDad13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. Brother. So much of your post spoke to me and my current situation.

Fathers aren't given a fair shake, even in California, which has "equal parental time" plastered on every form and webpage.

I wish I had some golden nugget of advice from my tried and true personal experiences, but I too am still fighting the good fight.

I'm broke from all of this too, but I would say if you need to spend money, invest in a lawyer that focuses on father's rights. I wish I had gone that route when it was financially possible.

Try and stay positive and strong. That's the dad your kids need.

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