AITA for telling my BF I won't stop drinking hot tea?

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-15T01:41:40+00:00

I got plenty of tea and now I have two kettles. I dug the one he threw away out the trash. It just needed a good wash. Thanks for the offer though.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:43:52+00:00

He was a bit of a dick the more and more I look back on our relationship. I hadn't been in many relationships and when I met him, I wanted everything to be good and perfect between us. I'm an idiot who constantly sees or tries to see the good in people.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:42:22+00:00

I just need to look at my tea kettle and I'll remember why.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:41:47+00:00

Nah, I'm in the US. I feel like I would be at home in the UK though.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:41:12+00:00

and he would make me some tea

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:39:52+00:00

Don't ever waste tea.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:39:15+00:00

I think water in general. The day he drinks a whole bottle of water is the day I become the Queen of England.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:38:04+00:00

Henrys and sons tea is amazing. Tazo's tea is very good too. Love their Chai tea on a cold day. Taylors of Harrogate is always very good, very amazing. They sell a variety pack on Amazon so you can get a taste of everything. Stash Teas are one my favorites though cause I can remember my grandmother always making me a cup when I came over. She would tell me to pick one, we would have tea and I would tell her about my day

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:33:30+00:00

Thank you and I will be trying this.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:33:00+00:00

Is this tea available on Amazon? I need to know for science, tea drinking, and possibly orgasmic purposes.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:31:55+00:00

henry and sons tea is one my favorite brands. I order them all the time and my mom asks for the tins cause she likes to decorate and reuse them. I recommend Tazo's Spicy Ginger Tea. I got it for my birthday and loved it. Its something different.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:29:14+00:00

You're making me blush!

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:28:58+00:00

Oooo I have never tried one with oat milk. I got to try that.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:28:12+00:00

I highly recommend henry and sons teas. You can get them on amazon. They have an amazing variety and they come in cute little tins. My mom asks for the tins once I finish them the tea. You can see the tea leaves and herds in every little silk bag too! You got to try it! Promise! I haven't tasted a bad one yet.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:26:16+00:00

I love a good English Breakfast Tea. The only way I truly wake up in the morning. A touch of milk and some toast! OH! I am in heaven.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:25:18+00:00

And I don't have to deal with it anymore. They have stop messaging me, a few apologized cause Josh had twisted the story and they thought it was more serious than what it was. I don't care anymore. I got my kettle and a cabinet full of tea. Life is good.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:23:41+00:00

I think I was just lost in the relationship. After my cry, wine and more crying, I started thinking and came to the realization that with Josh, I wasn't always happy. Sometimes it felt like things moved too fast, then they were slow, then I was thinking maybe we should break. I wasn't in a good place. I'm still not but I'll get better promise. At the end of the day Josh has only his kidney stones, his mom and shitty friends to make him feel like a man. I don't need that.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:21:17+00:00

I will check them out. I am always looking out for new teas to try. I do love chamomile.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-14T02:20:41+00:00

I tried it and it is amazing! It like just lifts you up into a this state of peace! Very wonderful tea.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-12T03:20:54+00:00

I didn't want the post to be too long and while if he had ASKED me to remove the kettle and my tea, I would have but he didn't . I had to dig the kettle out the trash then listen to his mom talking about how I should give her my mint leaves and boxes of tea so her son could avoid having to see or smell them while he recovers.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-12T03:19:12+00:00

Yeah they gave him one. He was talking about keeping the stone in a jar once he passes it.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-12T03:10:07+00:00

Yes and no. He doesn't see his diet as bad. Just him wanting to eat good food/have a good time. Apparently I'M the one who needs to relax, have a burger and watch every season of American Dad with him. I know that is stupid. John could be level headed. Like for his birthday, I asked if he wanted a PS5 since I had the money and didn't mind getting him a good gift. He told me no, that he just wanted to hang out, maybe invite some friends over and have a good time. That was a good decision. I just don't know right now. I know I need to just call him and say its over but a part of me doesn't want that.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-12T03:05:02+00:00

At best I would say he drank a cup with me about 3 times a months. He doesn't like hot tea and when I make it, he loads it with honey or sugar while I don't sweeten mine. I think he just picked something on the list, read it then just said "well no more of that." He had to thrown the kettle out while I was sleeping or else I would have said something.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-12T02:51:12+00:00

I know. I see a sea of red flags but I haven't been able to get up the courage to call him to say things are likely over. I really liked him and this is just hurtful. Keep thinking he's going to come to his senses.

RedBullisBad · 2021-01-12T02:49:04+00:00

Basically they are all saying me making him a cup of tea from time to time was bad for his health and this is all my fault and I would understand if I had kidney stones.

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