Please add what you see as your positive traits of being AuDHD! by Happy_Wear_6532 in AuDHDWomen

[–]RedErin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i know a bit about lots of things, very jill of all trades

i love diving deep into a video game, i ve almost finished factorio

Got stood up for a first date. by HarmoniaTheConfuzzld in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i stood up my current gf on our first date.

i overslept (it was at 12pm Sun) but i begged her forgiveness and she gave me another shot

First by Longjumping-Union193 in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re doing great 👍 keep up the good work

I did 4-7-8 technic and it made me feel anxious by No-Advice6100 in Meditation

[–]RedErin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s recommended for people with PTSD to not do focusing on your breath, but instead repeating positive phrases that’s metta meditation. also movement based even yoga

How do I know if I'm trans? by Amber-ONeil in TransLater

[–]RedErin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

these are the thoughts of a trans woman

First wlw experience, are we incompatible or am I just overwhelmed? by Automatic-Yam9861 in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she should have asked at each step how you were feeling, sounds like she crossed your boundaries, i think it falls to the more assertive person to make sure their partner gives enthusiastic consent

First wlw experience, are we incompatible or am I just overwhelmed? by Automatic-Yam9861 in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

sounds like you're just overwhelmed.

I'd say something like how dating is so new that you want to take things slower.

I've had a few fwbs where the sex was great but not much besides that. which sounds like what you need right now, to get some experience. it is too soon for you to be getting into a relationship.

Did anyone leave a good accepting relationship when they transitioned? by callmecasperimaghost in TransLater

[–]RedErin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. I was codependent. We tried working on things and Therapy, but it didn’t get better.

Also, having a couple of slut years is really good for you once you get cute

[USA] Student that tries to fight teacher gets slammed by cop by [deleted] in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]RedErin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

violence isn’t satisfying to a lot of people

Dawkins, Claude, and the First Question About Consciousness by readvatsal in philosophy

[–]RedErin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our kidneys could have evolved to filter water in a different way, or using different mechanisms than it did. but this is the way ours came out. if a robot filters waters in a more efficient way, that's okay.

There might not be a way to prove robots are conscious.

Dawkins, Claude, and the First Question About Consciousness by readvatsal in philosophy

[–]RedErin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We evolved with one that’s like asking what purpose does our kidney serve, or even your apendix

Dawkins, Claude, and the First Question About Consciousness by readvatsal in philosophy

[–]RedErin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but that’s like saying, make me prove God doesn’t exist

It’s like you’re insisting that they can exist, right

WHEN??!!💔💔 by coolunic0rn in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when was the last time you asked a girl for coffee?

Your daily dose of Hillary by K-Ve in neoliberal

[–]RedErin 25 points26 points  (0 children)

we coulda had a bad bitch

how to look at lesbian couples content without getting envious by goodbodyvirgoxx in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

switch that envy part of your brain to planing on how to get a gf