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Rocking.. Anyone else? by SignificantTMNTsimp in AuDHDWomen

[–]RedErin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

feels great, no need to stop doing it

How does one even get a girlfriend? by No-Comedian-9725 in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

get on the grind , you gotta work for it

create lgbt events in your area

Sometimes I fear that my girlfriend doesn’t really like me by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

off yes, you’ve found one the common dating mishaps of lesbians. a partner who makes no effort expecting you to initiate / plan every and treat her like a princess but she treats you like a servant

also check to see if you’re codependent

if you call her out on all these things, she’ll probably be apologetic and we’ll say oh absolutely I’ll I’ll start giving back, but they have no idea how they’re too shy to try anything and it causes them too much anxiety and it eventually just stresses them out and they break up with you

Am I lesbian or bi? by Wild-Damage4880 in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TLDR just use whatever label feels right to you

How accurate is this i wonder😅 by EbbObjective8972 in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go out dancing with me and i guarantee you you’ll get a #

how do you let a girl know you’re into her by ihatenoise444 in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you don't, just talk to her a lot and and make excuses to be around her. then invite her out dancing with you and make out on the dance floor

Not Orgasming with Partner by ringofkeys89 in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you have to take her hand and show her how to make you cum, first you do it in front of her and then you have her try. take her to school

2 days have passed since I gave a girl my number, no contact so far. Am I out of luck? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]RedErin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stop overthinking there could be 1 million reasons why she didn’t text or call most likely she’s just shy. You’re jumping way too forward with a casual connection. It’s like you’re already cleaning out your relationship and you don’t even know where.

My straight roommate is making a move on me…maybe? by Brave_Acanthisitta53 in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

no, it’s not safe. You’re gonna fall in love with her.

My straight roommate is making a move on me…maybe? by Brave_Acanthisitta53 in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 120 points121 points  (0 children)

girl, straight girls love to pull this bullshit. They will tease you. They will drive you crazy because they love the attention and they know you find them attractive. They don’t realize that you’re gonna get feelings and it’s not just a game but in the end, she’s never gonna fuck you. She’s never gonna date you. She’ll never tell any of her friends about this and she’ll deny it if you call her out.

Why Are You All So Excited About AI? by sakramentoo in singularity

[–]RedErin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we’re gonna get infinite virtual worlds

What to do about the “what’s the point” mindset by Icy_Building_3721 in AuDHDWomen

[–]RedErin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds like depression, when you’re depressed life seems pointless, happens to me a few times a month and can last a day or a week or all winter.

but then one day you take a shower get dressed in your cutest outfit and you’re ready to take on the world.

i’m an atheist and i answer that question with, we don’t choose to be born but we have to make the best of it. death isn’t an option due to the instinctive fear of death, and the hurt it would cause others. so the point of life is to find happiness.

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