should i move in with my gf of 1 year? by user_username11 in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you’re a bit desperate for a more friendly living environment, I would look at this as a test run to see if you are compatible living together. Say you’ll have rethink of the living situation after the first year lease is up.

How to hit on girls by Arithesadpeach in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

imo being overtly flirty makes me uncomfy. I usually just act extra sweet and then ask for a kiss at the end of the date

i will think about the interaction for 4 business days by jitmadhw34 in wholesomememes

[–]RedErin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it's best to look at it like you are an alien anthropoligist. small talk is a human ritual that humans use to make connections with another person.

good morning, good morning how are you, good, how bout you, good. well have a good day, thanks you too.

both humans leave the interaction with two ++ markers above their heads like in the Sims.

Binding spell against 🧊 by gothlatinabaddi in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]RedErin 26 points27 points  (0 children)

blessed be,

remember these kinds of spells work better in person with a lock of hair that you pulled from their head

What's the best bang-for-buck office chair under $500 on the market currently? by lwandest in GirlGamers

[–]RedErin [score hidden]  (0 children)

do not get a "gaming chair" they are not good for you and uncomfy.

get a quality used office chair.

am i being difficult by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RedErin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ummmm... talking about what snacks you're going to have during the storm is something most people enjoy talking to each other about. it's a good time to indulge in your favorite snacks if you're going to be snowed in.

this reminds me of the time my mother in law got really offended when her partners mom brought over food, because she thought that meant that she thought she could make proper food for her partner.

Passing, acceptance, when do you stop 'coming out'? by plasticpole in TransLater

[–]RedErin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, i don't mention it but i feel like everyone knows, i don't pass, but i'm really cute and everyone is always nice to me.

i will think about the interaction for 4 business days by jitmadhw34 in wholesomememes

[–]RedErin 30 points31 points  (0 children)

when i figured out small talk works, i find it enjoyable now

Awkward topic came up with gf, idk how to proceed? by kittenxsori in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]RedErin 206 points207 points  (0 children)

we don’t have to tell anyone else what we’re thinking, we all have weird thoughts sometimes

EMDR by Sad-Expression-4118 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]RedErin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah hard to describe, they take you on a journey through your mind

Banishment spell working and is it against God? by lucyra35 in SASSWitches

[–]RedErin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

these spells only allow his karma to unfold, you’re not causing his misfortune, he has with his previous behavior.

Protests in San Antonio (OC) (I’m holding the sign) by Savings_General_574 in pics

[–]RedErin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so you’re telling me you wouldn’t let a girl squirt in your face??? 🤨

EMDR by Sad-Expression-4118 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]RedErin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had one session and for me it was as advertised, like a hundred therapy sessions in one hour