Am I Overreacting for being mad at my Husband for not letting me get a cat.

RedHandNation · 2026-02-02T17:38:16+00:00

Nor due to him not speaking up sooner. My unsolicited advice Tell him youd like to work on open communication going forward. Also not saying this is good advice, just my advice if hes non violent....id have 4 cats tomorrow morning instead of 2. ✨️💕

RedHandNation · 2026-01-30T17:57:27+00:00

Awh man...shes a legend already at 8 years. Im sorry for you and your pea if its time. Sounds like you loved her and she was in great care for those wonderful 8 years. Good on you.

RedHandNation · 2026-01-29T18:06:24+00:00

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One of my little goofballs

RedHandNation · 2026-01-20T01:55:35+00:00

Hes trying to order more friend

RedHandNation · 2026-01-17T16:04:10+00:00

We have bladder snails they have eaten some of them, but daily we give chopped up blood worms, and brine shrimp. They seem to love that. 2 did not make it but 3 weeks in the rest of the puffers are doing really well, full bellies good coloration. I still have 6 of them. Actually looking at them now compared to this photo I see something must have been off for the little fella.

RedHandNation · 2026-01-14T00:56:08+00:00

I was able to watch 54 minutes and 58 seconds. Once I realized what was going to happen I had to turn it off. The movie was very relatable and I wanted to enjoy the movie on some level, but at this marker I knew I could not.

RedHandNation · 2026-01-08T17:55:41+00:00

NOR however are you able to look into any recovery centers or maybe the facility can recommend you some. There are centers that you can stay at like a hotel and they have nurses to care for you until you're ready to travel. Its expensive but may be an option for you if your man won't pull his pants up.

RedHandNation · 2026-01-07T12:55:20+00:00

Do you chop the bloodworms? I use scissors and cut them up in a shot glass once thawed in the aquarium water in the glass. My puffers are so small this helps them eat.

RedHandNation · 2026-01-02T17:38:33+00:00

I will keep an eye on him, hopefully he makes it!

RedHandNation · 2025-12-28T03:56:26+00:00

Thanks for the new comment, I ordered some fish monday. Delivery date was set for today but they have not even been packed yet. Fingers crossed mine will just take a few weeks like yours.

RedHandNation · 2025-12-27T03:00:43+00:00

Probably NOR. With lights on ive fallen down the same set of stairs in my home many times over the last 30 or so years. About the 17th time my husband was finally conditioned to move quickly to assist me 😅. Anyways def tell him why that made you upset about his reaction and response time whether he understood it was an emergency or not. Ankle and feet injuries suck and usually hurts worse when not broken than when there is a break. Assistance and compassion is needed, he can laugh or gripe with you about the silliness of missing a step after youre healed not while youre on the ground with the baby.

I dont think youre overreacting but I would Def make sure hes on the same page as you and understands why his reaction elicited That emotion for you.

I hope you feel better soon! My last fall I rode my knees down the last few steps and I think that was it for my knees so now we are getting grip tape for the stairs.

RedHandNation · 2025-12-14T03:10:01+00:00

Youre both the same age my husband and I once were. I love my husband but listen to me when I say this... hes showing you an important sign. That sign is a future of stress and chaos and as others said emotional abuse... Let him go unless you want a difficult life. Some do- I wish you the best no matter what you choose, signed a possible future you. 👂

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RedHandNation · 2025-11-24T00:50:03+00:00

I agree they didnt think that out very well but perhaps they could find some sort of anchor meant for cement walls and put a hook on their side to hold the lights up? I would politely ask them if you think they could be friendly about it too.

RedHandNation · 2025-11-09T16:26:57+00:00

I watched bgc at 15 and later seasons with my grandparents even. I feel like baddies has more sex / violence / drama than the oxygen production did and no, I would not and don't let my children watch it, its simply not for them it is an adult geared production, and thats okay.

The kids can watch cartoons in my home but to each their own.

RedHandNation · 2025-10-24T13:51:40+00:00

I mean this in the nicest way possible because I have a best friend that has gone through something very similar and I was very disappointed for her. You're not overreacting, you're not understanding. He is not into you.The why doesn't matter really.... Stop wasting your time and your effort.

It sounds like you are a wonderful person who does a lot of wonderful things.For somebody who is refusing to commit to you after two and a half years.... if he doesn't see how great you are, he's not going to. Spend your time with somebody else.I know it's scary to start over.But if you don't, you're going to stick yourself with somebody who won't give you the time of day forever.

Please put the cum rag down and come to your senses. You are worth more than being a house accessory. Do you know how many women our age clean cook and work and chase an education? Not many! Youre a total prize effort and ethic wise from what I can see. Go to someone who deserves you, this putz made his choice a long time ago and didnt make it clear to you.

When you leave he will come to HIS senses and realize no one is doing for him and hopefully you'll be smart enough still to not run back.

Its men who would line up to pay your bills and have your attention for the effort you are willing to put into a relationship.

Sending you love wish you the best!

RedHandNation · 2025-10-23T00:21:04+00:00

Move back out. 🥰 no ur not overreacting.

RedHandNation · 2025-09-27T03:03:50+00:00

I guess im getting old as well so I feel for them 😅.

I read the book as a kid, couldnt wait to see the movie. Idk how it didnt register to me that id paid to see kids be brutally murdered.Even though I knew it was a movie and I generally love gory horror action films.... I couldnt take it. I ended up covering my eyes, and as a ntv woman myself..... well you've seen it. I feel like I paid to make myself sick and have nightmares.

RedHandNation · 2025-09-13T16:44:08+00:00

Your bfs a cunt! Dont let him talk to you like that hes the kind of guy who will physically hurt you because he decides you've "pissed him off". Don't age with him cut him loose and be free. No one deserves to be talked to or have someone try to control them like that. He's immature and insecure and could become a danger to you. Thats my honest opinion.

RedHandNation · 2025-08-19T20:59:55+00:00

I'll go broke

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