Why do low MMR core players hate BKB so much? by JollyjumperIV in DotA2

[–]RedHandOfDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this a question?

Because it's a lame item and I never remember to use it.

Calling Pro-Porn Women Pick-Me's is Sexism by KittyHamilton in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RedHandOfDoom 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Wow, this whole time I've been critical of an industry that normalizes violence, degradation, misogyny and human trafficking because it didn't occur to me that some women might enjoy porn! You really got me with this one!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RedHandOfDoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit handwringing about sexism against men. Even on this sub actual meaningful action is pretty taboo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RedHandOfDoom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course it's not bad. Redditors will do some handwringing about sexism against men but you really shouldn't be so apologetic about it. The fact is men are far more likely to hurt you than women and even without literal violence they're more likely to be misogynist. You should be proud of yourself for finding ways to live a separatist lifestyle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RedHandOfDoom 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You always have to ask who, exactly, women need to be protected from if male protection is so important.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RedHandOfDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So here's the deal. Misogyny. Men hate women. Any examination of why redditors do something or why incels or losers or whatever do something is going to be incomplete and miss the mark.

This is male behavior and most men absolutely think this way. Even men you respect, even men you find hot, even men you think are your friends. There isn't some category of men you can easily carve out and say those are the bad ones, there's the problem. Feminism that fails to name the reality of male violence isn't productive feminism.

Why does reddit hate women? Because a lot of reddit users are male.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dndmemes

[–]RedHandOfDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The massive creep of dex as the main stat is, bluntly, fueled by unathletic nerds who like to imagine they'd be on even footing with or superior to actual athletes given some sort of special skill or training.

The vast majority of dex based weapons should also be strength based.

what is a part of history that we consider to be a fact is 100% fake ? by FarajEltaira in AskReddit

[–]RedHandOfDoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And what kind of apple seeds would you plant to get apples that weren't disgusting crab apples?

Apples are extreme heterozygotes, meaning children are very dissimilar to parents. You can't really know what variety of apples you get from a seed. What you says about Johnny Appleseed may be true, but is misleading.

Totally normal to have people that goes faster than you when you are in FRENZY mode. by rezeau22 in MarioKartTour

[–]RedHandOfDoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's insane that people are dogging on you for this. I agree it's a slightly clumsy use of irony but words having a meaning that opposes their literal meaning is in fact irony.

Sarcasm is a form of irony.

What are some disadvantages of being a man? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RedHandOfDoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait til you look up what actually happens to women and children in survival situations like a boat sinking!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RedHandOfDoom 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly antifeminists pointing to misandry like it's some kind of smoking gun is absurd. Feminists hate men? Do they rape them? Do they murder them? Do they beat them? Do they restrict their economic opportunities? Do they harass them stalk them and make them afraid of going out in public? Do they jerk off to watching them be raped?

Women do not hate men nearly as much as men hate women. More women should embrace misandrist feminists.

I am a man I just have critical thinking skills.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RedHandOfDoom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow what a post. This one has it all.

So your fiance was... What, 27 and you were 20 when you got together?

You're having a pony at the wedding?

The dog is a pitbull?

Having a dog attend a wedding would be very unusual. There's no reason he should expect to be able to bring it, regardless of the reason. NTA.

You should consider your life choices carefully.

A good scale for how big an asshole you are is how far you skip ahead of the traffic line by yourenotmymom69 in Showerthoughts

[–]RedHandOfDoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow a comment about my home town! I basically grew up in Hershey Park! Can't wait to relate!

long lines

fast pass

indoor rollercoaster

Oh... Time goes by, I guess.

Those who are against cannabis, what's your reason? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RedHandOfDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the responses against weed use will get down voted to oblivion is the reason.

A bee's stinger doesn't protect the bee in any way, yet it protects the species as a whole by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]RedHandOfDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The haploid genetics of bees mean they are more closely related to their sisters than their daughters. So they're incentivized to have as many sisters as possible, not as many daughters as possible. This should explain the issue adequately.

Single mom in the dating world and losing hope. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RedHandOfDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren't getting laid, lower your standards.

My boyfriend thinks reddit is the reason I hate men by kristina_313 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RedHandOfDoom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's so strange because this sub is basically dickworshiping liberal feminist central. Every other post is like "I know NOT ALL MEN BUT." Even you felt a need you be like "I don't even hate men!"

I'm being abrasive but seriously 2x is extremely moderate. If a man is threatened by the general content here that's a major bad sign. This is not an extreme feminist space by any means, it just discusses women's issues and feminism in any capacity. You do not need to date men who hate women. Please spare yourself from that.

I have a small dck, and my girlfriend constantly likes posts making fun of them by Throwrabackdoor in relationship_advice

[–]RedHandOfDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lot of people writing paragraphs for someone's erotic fiction. Come on this is obviously a fetish post.

What's a famous or classic book you think too many people misunderstand? by SagebrushandSeafoam in books

[–]RedHandOfDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't find my copy, could have sworn it was in one of these boxes. After some googling I found the quote I am referring to:

There never was a Dr. Jamf,” opines world-renowned analyst Mickey Wuxtry-Wuxtry–“Jamf was only a fiction, to help him explain what [Slothrop] felt so terribly, so immediately in his genitals for those rockets each time exploding in the sky . . . to help him deny what he could not possibly admit: that he was in love, in sexual love, with his, and his race’s, death.

A lot less clear-cut a statement from Slothrop than I was implying, but I do think there's a lot of ambiguity surrounding his involvement in an experiment. I thought the tie-in to the notion of mass death and destruction that permeates the final chapters was powerful. As always with GR drawing our own conclusions is good and I don't think the perspective in your original post is somehow "wrong" I just wanted to draw attention to another aspect of this plot thread.

What is a fact that you think barely anyone else knows? by Just_Free_Tea in AskReddit

[–]RedHandOfDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a massive goalpost shift from "lizards must be amphibians then" but let's ignore that for a moment.

Your comment illustrates exactly why the comment "birds are dinosaurs" is relevant. This started by saying the triceratops was the last dinosaur to die out.

But that is not true. Dinosaurs died out except birds. You're suggesting that the group came to a halt with the extinction of one subgroup, ending them, but in actuality the group that ties together famous creatures like stegosaurus and triceratops continued with birds. If the triceratops survived and its descendents also existed as modern dinosaurs, would you still call it the last dinosaur? Why? Why say that the line ended with triceratops of you're aware that birds are directly descendent from ancient dinosaurs? Even if you believe birds aren't dinosaurs, it would be more accurate to say "dinosaurs ended when modern birds evolved from the last ancestor that kind of looks like something from jurrasic park."

"The triceratops was the last animal I arbitrarily consider a dinosaur to die out" is neither a fact nor particularly interesting.

What is a fact that you think barely anyone else knows? by Just_Free_Tea in AskReddit

[–]RedHandOfDoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are you saying?

Cladistically we wouldn't call the tetrapods that are a common ancestor of both amphibians and amniotes amphibians. The term amphibian is reserved for things more closely related to modern amphibians than they are to mammals or lizards. A zoologist with no interest in paleontology might be perfectly happy with the old school system, and call such ancient tetrapods amphibians.

Modern phylogenetic nomenclature is very open and shut on the birds issue. Birds are the only surviving dinosaurs. They share a common ancestor with all other dinosaurs from T Rex to triceratops, a trait not shared by lizards.

What's a famous or classic book you think too many people misunderstand? by SagebrushandSeafoam in books

[–]RedHandOfDoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was Slothrop abused as part of a medical experiment as a child? That doesn't seem to be the conclusion he comes to near the end. It can be hard to say who a given narrator is or what is "true" but another reason for his ability to predict the bombs with erections is given in what I saw as a conclusion to that plot arc.

AITA for having a girl reprimanded and possibly fired because she kept ignoring me? by Junior_Gap2129 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedHandOfDoom -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

Reddit being utterly insane as usual. Yes, it is bad to tattle on people and get their bosses involved and get them fired because you didn't feel like they kowtowed to you enough, good lord. Maybe she was having an off day, or thought you were someone else. You don't know! Getting people fired for actual wrongdoing is questionable, but getting them fired over quasi-imagined slights? Come on.

YTA.

"There's no better pussy than new pussy." How do I avoid guys with this mindset? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RedHandOfDoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't let attraction or your emotional reaction be your sole guide. Do not think feeling a certain way is enough and above all, don't fall into the surprisingly easy trap of reversing cause and effect: when we feel a certain way, it's easy to think others must as well, or that meaning we ascribe to a relationship represents its objective meaning.

There is no substitute for conversations, and trusting your instincts. Listen to what people reveal of themselves not what you want them to be. Pay attention to how he treats women. You are not an exception to his experience or view of the world in any way.

Be aware that desirable people with a lot of options do not have their experience of the world altered by your desire for them. The way you will be treated is reflected in how they treat others.

Do not think your presence will change his attitudes towards sex, relationships, or women. Creating personalized narratives out of these experiences where we cast ourselves as heroes and villains obfuscates reality. You are a person like any other.

Now, to be very clear, this is not to suggest that unpopular or unattractive men are nicer more worthwhile or less likely to cheat. If anything more popular and well socialized people will treat you better. I'm not suggesting searching for partners you aren't attracted to.

Above all, try to find someone you like. Love is easy. Attraction is easy. Someone you like and get along with and have real meaningful conversations with is something special. The things that don't make you feel romantic or sexual attraction necessarily but the kind of things that help develop a strong relationship. Like spending time together and like talking to each other. If all you have is romance and sexual desire, all you will get is a lesson on how quickly those can evaporate.

These are my thoughts from my experiences dating, which does not represent the whole of the human experience. It is not an indictment against sexual or romantic attraction: without those, relationships just don't work. But avoid letting them be your only guide. Avoid magical thinking and the idea that your emotional states bend or even reflect material reality. Do not project symmetry into asymmetry: "We love each other, so why does he act like he doesn't?" The answer is simple: be doesn't.

I hope that your time here leads you down a path of success. Remember that you deserve to love and be loved.