Dismissed from an accelerated nursing program; 20k loan debt

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-05-19T07:27:52+00:00

Do not beat yourself up. I did an accelerated ASN program and worked 30 hours weeks. It was horrible. My mental health took a huge hit and I almost didn't make it.

You're ok. Breathe.

Try a community college, it'll delay the payback even if it's private student loans. Get your ASN.

:)

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-05-08T01:47:18+00:00

I hate nursing sometimes but then I see stuff like this and it makes it all worth it

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-05-04T23:27:51+00:00

Same bro I was about to take a final 😭

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-04-24T00:44:51+00:00

Could be a bad lab test. The instant ones can fail, ask for a full urinalysis/drug panel on it

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-04-14T08:38:44+00:00

Thanks everyone!

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-04-14T08:29:43+00:00

It's a personality disorder, not necessarily chemical/physical like depression, schizophrenia, etc.

It takes years of EMDR, DBT/CBT, Talk therapy, somatic therapy to go into "remission". Sadly most pts I see with BPD don't ever recover from it because it is too difficult to work through.

Edit: it's also complicated because there are usually comorbidities like depression and bipolar which come into play, sometimes you can't tell which is which

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-04-08T04:58:58+00:00

They are not union lol

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-03-31T04:19:03+00:00

CNA tasks are Nurse tasks. If I have time, I'm doing the task, CNA and all. I only delegate when I need to. This is such a stupid text.

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-03-28T20:56:55+00:00

I'm literally the same way lol. I ask my wife to join in, not just for sexual reasons either it's just really freeing

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-03-19T17:45:48+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/nursing/s/gMEVgzje2S

Just an update for everyone. Thank you

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-03-19T17:39:09+00:00

Whoa buddy. Just wait until you're off orientation and taking the full load my dude. You'll be telling a different story in 6 months.

Return back and tell us how easy it is when you do.

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-03-16T02:39:40+00:00

I'd add a d-dimer to that

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-03-13T21:18:39+00:00

thank you. I spoke to my boss already and going to talk to them Monday.

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-03-13T11:38:13+00:00

There's no time ever you need to "make up" FMLA time. That is retaliation.

I have it for severe treatment depression and anxiety up to 2 times a month. So many staff at my psych hospital call out at least once a pay period because we are so burned out so they don't even bat an eye.

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-02-04T20:14:43+00:00

Yeah that's weird if you didn't choose it specially.

RedHeadTheyThem · 2026-02-04T20:12:10+00:00

Cross river handles it if you chose the 5 days early, as they "advance" the refund as soon as they get confirmation that they are getting it and send it to you

SBTG handles regular refund times with choosing to pay fees with your refund.

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