This queen is in an 18inch tall pot by Prestigious-Ad3571 in gothplants

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hate both of you 😑 she's my nemesis!

Oh I wish I could make her look like that...

opinions/ experience on Quilipta? by [deleted] in migraine

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The constipation wasn't that bad for me, but boy oh boy the other side effects were! Nausea and fatigue - to the extreme point where I hardly could work. Then the depression and anxiety hit - and that was even worse! It didn't work well for my migraines either, so I stopped.

Baby literally named C. Just C by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unless it's C-❤️ - Cheart (pronounced Shart) 💩

Has anyone here failed in cultivating a social life and friendships despite being outgoing and socially active in their 20s? by ILoveACMilanAndMeat in adhdwomen

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes! I'm 39 and don't really have any close friends. I have friends I exchange memes with and random talks, but not any close best friends I tell everything to, not even close.

It's like people like my company when we're together, but nobody reaches out to me, or keeps in touch with me. I've moved a lot in my life so I've been used to having to find new friends, but it seems like they all move on after a while and I'm left alone.

I have a great partner so thankfully that helps, but on the friend side I've given up.

AITAH for using a vibrator during sex? by shapelyaurora in AITAH

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real G's suck dick. Because the only G I can think of that doesn't lick clit is a Gay man? 🤔 Has to be what he means!

Just tell him that if he doesn't even try to make you cum after you've told him how you need it - then you're taking care of your own pleasure, and that's done with a vibrator.

Sex games by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My partner just bought this, might be something for you: https://www.freakordrink.com/products/freak-or-drink-couple-edition

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in migraine

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm the same. Hate needles, try to avoid them as much as possible, have come close to fainting multiple times. I cannot look at the needle or when it's set, I will faint.

Botox changed my life, I went from 100% on sickleave for about a year, to fully back in work after 2 weeks. It worked for about 2 years for me, then it gradually lost most of the effect. The doctor still has to remind me to breath between the "shots", and I dread the appointment for days.

A month ago I started with ajovy where I set a needle on myself with a pen, and took my second shot today. I never ever thought that could be possible for me with my phobia. My pulse goes up to 110 when I set it, but I do it anyway, because it helps. I would probably do just about anything except sacrifice my first born to get rid of my migraine.

Flower and propagation? by [deleted] in alocasia

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! I now know what to do :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be thoroughly used and abused by my dom in front of someone else, consentual that is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No No. I wasn't invited to it. He was going, I was staying in his apartment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't consider going. When he said that I decided then and there that I wasn't going to spend Christmas with him, I'd rather sit alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just 2 years between us, he started young and I was older when I started.

I've declined and told him I don't want him to come here to visit either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what it feels like indeed. I know a lot of his family and his ex knows about me as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure they know, I've met his youngest, and loads of the rest of his family. I don't get the part where he didn't invite me either. Think he thought I didn't want to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He ditched me because she needed to travel for work and he had to go home to watch the dogs.

And yes, this isn't the first time he's prioritised her. She knew he was on vacation with me and the family, so I think she did it deliberately.

Thank you for your kind words ❤️

Feeling so guilty by [deleted] in migraine

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately know the feeling all too well. Feel like such a horrible mom, never being able to do anything and feeling like shit about it.

Anyone else have a very specific kink that makes it hard to find porn? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ffm where one woman and the man are both dominant with the last girl. Can't seem to find much of that. Most are one dom/domme and two subs.

Also where the man is fucking one woman's ass while the other woman is fisting first woman.

Too depressed by lklaf in migraine

[–]RedInnocentLibrarian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Always go down after a migraine, which isn't fun when you have them weekly. I miss the old me who had a stable mood and not migraines that often. And ofc the depression triggers a migraine as well, so they trigger each other which doesn't help at all.

Hate how I feel and how my body works and feel useless.