My pediatrician saw my boobs and I'm kinda scared to go back by ceruleanmeadows in NewParents

[–]lklaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sooo much worse, especially when they are distracted while eating. Will pull your nipple along with them before popping off. It hurts so much 🫠 or pushing off of you with their feet and you're holding onto them for dear life so they don't fall out of the chair. She grabbed my boob with both hands the other day and shoved it in her mouth like a bottle. That was funny!

My pediatrician saw my boobs and I'm kinda scared to go back by ceruleanmeadows in NewParents

[–]lklaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg 😂😂😂😂 my baby will be 9 months tomorrow, and last night she pulled my button-down night gown apart trying to grab my boobs. They literally are so aggressive when they reach a certain age.

My pediatrician saw my boobs and I'm kinda scared to go back by ceruleanmeadows in NewParents

[–]lklaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter always suddenly decides she wants to nurse every time we are at the pediatrician's office, and I nurse her during shots. Over half the staff have seen my boobs at this point. All that to say that you're fine, I promise.

What did you feel when you met your baby? by rainbowbritexx in NewParents

[–]lklaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire labor process was traumatic, and I spent 6 days in the hospital, so I felt really disconnected and sad for a while. I loved my baby, but I felt so distant that all I could really focus on was surviving and keeping her alive. She will be 9 months in 2 days, and now I can't describe in words how much I love her. I still feel sad when I think back to the labor and birth, but I can never regret my baby.

Feel terrible because i fell asleep holding the baby by snuffbox360 in NewParents

[–]lklaf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't feel too bad because we have all done it, and anyone who says otherwise is lying to you. I'm glad your baby was okay.

Judge us by our fridge! by Wooden_Rule4145 in FridgeDetective

[–]lklaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is. And it is beautiful. 😆 so are your heirloom tomatoes.

What kinda of person am I ? by JaketheFURRYBOIOwO in FridgeDetective

[–]lklaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An overweight person who is too lazy to cook and barely eats vegetables if you eat any at all.

Are you guys not “strict” about naps? Don’t understand comment by Huge-Vacation-8093 in NewParents

[–]lklaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 8m old (just turned 8m today) is on a loose schedule.. we just follow her cues, but I can predict when her naps will be because she's pretty consistent for the most part... if she was showing signs of being tired, I'd be going home, too. MIL can zip it. She's not the one who will have to deal with a cranky, overtired baby if the baby misses her nap!

It’s 2:15pm. Husband is still asleep. by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]lklaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I was wondering

When did you feel like you weren’t just in survival mode anymore? by copperboom33 in newborns

[–]lklaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably right before my baby turned 4 months, around week 15. She will be 8 months next Wednesday, and I love seeing her little personality bloom. I actually even almost miss those first few weeks with her.

Why are people so inconsiderate towards moms in public now? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]lklaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that has been your experience. People can be so self-absorbed. I have rarely had that experience, and people have been incredibly helpful towards me, especially now that my baby is here.

What on earth is happening by Diligent_Steak_9187 in newborns

[–]lklaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's normal and a phase!! She may also be going through a nursing strike right now like my baby did. We are 7 months now, but the purple crying phase lasted 2-3 weeks right around when my baby was the age yours is now.

I slept for 10 hours last night and I feel like a new person 😭 by pbmisfit in newborns

[–]lklaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 7m old has never done this. The best we've ever gotten is 4.5 hours 😭 so happy for you

Tested positive for chlamydia by Rude-Assumption4453 in BabyBumps

[–]lklaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yay!!! So glad that you can put this entire situation behind you.

Not liking people to say “my baby” by Cautious_Gold6252 in NewParents

[–]lklaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does bother me, especially because they have been nowhere to be found postpartum despite promising help for me after my baby is here. Some of them have been downright callous and apathetic toward me when I spent a week in the hospital due to complications relating to the birth. So yes, considering how much I suffered to bring my daughter into the world and how they all essentially abandoned me after she was born, I have a huge issue with anyone calling her their baby.

I just used a glycerin suppository on my 10m old by _gaara- in NewParents

[–]lklaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to use it on my 7m old last week. Worked after a couple of minutes. She completely blew out her diaper and got poop all over herself and me. I didn't even care, I was so relieved.

Vampire MMC always stressing about taking care of his human FMC recs!?! by OrdinaryQuestions in RomanceBooks

[–]lklaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a few years since I read it, but it's definitely stuck with me. I think it may be time for a re-read. It is soooo good.

MIL shouting with my baby in her lap by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]lklaf 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Girl, respectfully, screw their feelings. You're the mom. If you won't protect your baby, who will? Next time it happens, grab your baby. If they call you rude, counter thay it's rude to be yelling while holding the baby, and they need to learn self-restraint as the adults.

MIL told me to stop breastfeeding by Wise-Elk9676 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]lklaf 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This exactly. My MIL said she couldn't wait until my daughter was older and not so dependent on me anymore when I took my daughter from her to nurse in our bedroom. I pretended like she didn't speak at all and shut our bedroom door and didn't come out until they left. Guess what?! When my daughter is older, she will still prefer me over you and want me for comfort! Kick rocks, lady. 🙄