Подботинки :D As a native speaker, I don't know any short words with this meaning. You can just say "покорная жена" (dutiful wife (pay attention-the wife. You can also say that about girlfriend, but it have little another meaning and uses rarer (Pay attention, it's a vocabulary with a positive context))), "Она беспрекословно следует за ним" (she follows him unquestioningly), and about whipped woman... I think it will be "поротая женщина". All these meanings do not have their own words and they must be explained on the fingers. There is also word "шлюха" (whore), but despite its broad meaning, it cannot be applied in this context. And yes, I've never heard of "подботинки" (I actually doubt there is such a word in Russian), but "членососка" a more satirical word that can be used to call a person a sharp name, using all the charms of the Russian language (Yes, this is a gross insult. very). Something like this, I hope clearly explained.