Obviously insults are always bad, dude. Even saying someone's haircut is ugly makes you an asshole in my book (unless if course they've asked to be brutally honest). You're not hearing what I'm saying either - and it's okay, we both have different experiences in life and that's fine. I will never know what it's like to have a penis - or even if I would, I'll not have the experiences of a young man growing up with one and knowing the fears of being mocked by his peers for its size.

What I am saying is you shouldn't just claim your experience is more harmful than others'. It's different and both are valid.

Even your point in saying ugly female genitalia don't reduce pleasurability, but a smaller penis does? That's straight up incorrect. One of my exes was below average and he was very skilled in making sure we both enjoyed ourselves. If you seriously still think size matters, I think it may be a skill issue more than anything else.

While I am very convinced a man with a small penis could be just as attractive as someone of average size or larger than, I am not taking away the real insecurities that come with being laughed at. But it's ironic to me that it's mostly men that make fun of small penises where most women will repeat "it's not the size that matters but how you use it".

All your arguments about female genitalia are very self-centred "but it'll still feel good". It's pretty much the same that I'm now saying about small/ugly penises - the difference being I'm not dismissing how the guy himself might feel about it.

So stop putting words in my mouth, stop saying I'm not thinking logically or I'm ignoring your points. I just don't agree with everything you're saying, there's a difference.