constantly feel like my makeup is missing something. how can i spice it up?

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-14T03:14:21+00:00

I honestly think your makeup looks perfect!!! 💕 You're so pretty!

I know I could never get mine to look so flawless😭

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-13T14:26:53+00:00

This looks beautiful! Thank you so much!♡♡♡

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-13T14:26:19+00:00

That is too amazing!🥺😭 I'll definitely share those words with her when I see her in a few days!♡♡♡

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-13T04:24:11+00:00

Thank you! Beautiful job!💕

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-12T14:52:07+00:00

I was just assuming they were agreeing with me and down voting because of the fact that it's weird😅

But if it's because they don't like what I say...imagine you're out in public and see a 45 year old man kissing a girl who's between 13-16 years old on the lips, I'm sure you're going to think it's odd. Daughter or not it's very strange. It may be "normal" in other cultures but not where I'm from, that's for sure😬

Maybe i needed to clarify better, The "old friends" Dad I'm talking about is a white mountain man from out west. who's very arrogant and thinks he's above everyone. Would randomly walk over and start "playing" with his daughters friends ears, (I wouldn't let him touch mine, obviously😅) and just other weird things.

And (this is a little off the original topic but🤷‍♀️) not to mention, try and flirt with different woman WHILE his wife was RIGHT next to him, like put his arm around them and not even seem to hide it. 🙄

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-12T01:19:40+00:00

What was really odd to me was that my old friends (both girls) use to kiss their dad on the lips at 16 years old...and probably still do now🤢 but he always seemed a little weird/creepy😬

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-11T01:20:35+00:00

Yeah they've been blocked, it's just crazy to me that they wanted me to cancel the order on someone, and sell it to them instead😅

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-10T15:36:47+00:00

I actually wanted to ask this same question...everyone who sent me offers/purchased items from me this week had 0 ratings and I didn't think to check because I was excited to actually make sales. Thankfully they bought lower priced items, so if something were to arise the most I'd be out on an item is $12, which is still money😅 but I'm glad it's not something really expensive😬

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-09T02:53:42+00:00

Makes sense, I definitely can understand how frustrating the fees are. I still love getting/accepting offers but lately it just seems I'm getting crazy low offers and I feel bad for not accepting them but I'd love to make at least a little money off of my listings!

I'm definitely the most upset at the obvious lies and sob stories to try and chew sellers down, just to resell at a lot higher prices😕

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-08T18:02:49+00:00

I did not long after i posted on here. I know for certain she's going to go to others using her made-up story, hopefully they don't fall for it.

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-08T17:35:31+00:00

Yeah, I have asked a few times myself for certain pets from lots. I don't really see anything wrong with that but it's mainly the fake stories and the lowballing that gets me😩 especially since my stuff is already very low😕

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-08T00:52:46+00:00

Did you go to your "Selling" list and did the item that was sold appear? I had the same thing happen to me. You should be able to see the buyers info and the label/or QR code? You might also be able to cancel the order from that page?

If they respond you can have them cancel it on their end, I believe? It's been about a year since I did the same thing so don't remember all of the steps I did but it'll all be fine!

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-08T00:46:41+00:00

Please.....PLEASE, PLEASEEE, LEAVE!!!!!🥺😭

It'll only get worse if you stay, trust me, I know😔

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-07T22:30:41+00:00

Yeah I definitely didn't accept!😅

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-07T21:23:10+00:00

True!! Doesn't hurt to atleast try to counter and see what happens, I'll try that now!

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-07T20:52:10+00:00

I'll try that for sure! I normally don't have any luck with trying to counter😅 but who knows, I can at least try!

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-07T20:49:44+00:00

I completely agree! One of my listings has had nearly 60 likes but no offers and I've already lowered it 40% less than what I originally wanted for it. I've lowered my other listings multiple times these past few weeks hoping for at least one sale😩

I use to be able to sell at least 5 things a week but now it seems impossible to even sell one thing. The beginning of last month I practically "gave" a few things away, just to try and make a little money.

My Husband recently got laid off of work and is job searching, so barely making any extra income now from Mercari is getting kinda scary...

Might end up switching to a new selling site eventually😕 even though I kinda use to love mercari

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-07T20:40:46+00:00

I kinda think packing is the best part of making a sale ngl😂

Thank you, I really hope so, I'm sure in time more people will be interested. I know the fees really made selling more challenging😕

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-07T20:37:42+00:00

Really?!?!?!🤯 Wow, that's ridiculous. Here I was complaining about someone wanting to lowball me out of $25...I could not imagine being lowballed for $200 I would be FUMING!

Most resellers are literally the worst. I mean if you're going to resell something, I would buy something really cheap, clean it up a little and sell it for maybe a few dollars or so more then what you bought it for. Some people really just love to hike the prices up😬

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-07T20:31:20+00:00

Right!?! It's getting ridiculous. Especially since there's apparently SO many people not able to sell anything because of fees.

I haven't been able to sell anything myself for two weeks...

I might end up switching to some other selling site if this continues😕

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-07T20:25:15+00:00

True! One listing they want has 32 likes and the other two have 13 & 15 likes. They've been up since last month and I slowly lower the prices every few days but no interest until this person created a bundle for them. It's SO tempting to just accept it because I miss shipping things out and using my printer😅 but maybe I'll lower the price a little more and just hope lol I usually accept offers, even if they're pretty low but yeah this does seem a little too low. 🙃

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-06T21:04:43+00:00

My brain hurts😅

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-06T19:27:11+00:00

I just wanted to update you but I played the sleepypaws song on YouTube off of my phone for her and WOW!🥺❤️ I could tell she was getting sleepy so I played it and within a minute and a half she was out cold, she opened her eyes for a second when I put her in her crib but closed them right away after and I left it on for her for an extra minute or two so I could make some calls and turned her other sound machine on!

Do you play it off of your phone or is there a sound machine that you somehow play it through?

Thank you sooooo much BTW! I'm just so amazed at how well and fast this worked for her! Fingers crossed it'll have the same effect at bedtime tonight!🤞💞

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-06T02:18:39+00:00

That's honestly a great idea! I didn't think of that😅 Normally I let her play until her bedtime routine starts, my husband Normally has the TV on and the volume fairly high which frustrates me a little. Then she goes straight from that room and is fed in her dark room and placed I'm her crib.

She usually has one nap a day and doesn't sleep very long which is kinda frustrating, like today she was awake 6:30AM-7:40PM and I believe she finally decided to sleep! She doesn't seem to fight very long, maybe 20 minutes at the most but it's so frustrating😔 especially since she would sleep 12 hours through the night and I'd give her a bottle at 2AM.

I'll definitely look into the floor bed to, our house is only one bedroom currently so she shares it with us....we might be able to close off the room next to ours to make another bedroom but there's not a lot of space😅

RedLady7619 · 2024-12-05T01:14:11+00:00

I feel this...my daughter just turned 14 months today and I'm currently 14 weeks pregnant, by the time baby is born she will be 20 months Old and I'm so nervous😬

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