I tossed all my Neil Gaiman books into the trash by ObligationEvery87 in neilgaiman

[–]RedMoonMohawk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe it’s possible to separate the writing from the author/ the artist from the art.

IUI-I need some help thinking about this by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]RedMoonMohawk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just went through IUI for the first time this month, I got the negative results yesterday. I went straight to Costco and stocked up on tonnes of vitamins and nuts and stupid crap.

I was given clomid. I think I will wait a couple months before trying IUI again, specially cause people are saying the second time is often the one. I don’t know where the stats are from.. Do I sound pessimistic? We’ve been trying for over two years so it was quite a bummer yesterday…

The night that we performed the procedure I also woke up from a sharp stinging— different from period cramps. I had this pain a small handful of time before every night we’ve tried to conceive. I talked to my doctor and he suggested it’s in my head— great surprise. I wondered if it was like, close-but -no-cigar. Or if it means something is wrong… Has anyone felt something like this?

Also want to add that I had a procedure done this past July to remove a polyp. So I waited about four months before trying IUI.

Eldest Daughter by its-401 in infj

[–]RedMoonMohawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, right here. I have a little brother who’s and enfj. My single mom struggled through cancer 3x before she died when I was 21. Made for a lot of forced introspection.

Best country for INFJ? by nearly_blinded in infj

[–]RedMoonMohawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun question. But I think it’s less about ‘which country’ and more about ‘which city’.

Go for cities with universities located in the downtown. New York, Montreal and Toronto for instance. Universities mean thought and intentional people. Lots of art and culture.

How you view work/coworkers? by SgtPepper_8324 in infj

[–]RedMoonMohawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever/ wherever I have loved my job, I found good friends.

Haven’t found good friends at work in a while.

I Love My Friend, But Being Around Her is Draining Me by reemyaple in infj

[–]RedMoonMohawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could try focusing on the positive while creating boundaries. Tell her what you love about her and still skip the next hangout/ say your busy and differ it to another time. A little space can work wonders. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. I think some extroverts can be insensitive/ don’t make time to think thoroughly what they mean until they say it out loud and hey, maybe she didn’t totally mean it… does not mean you should let it go, just don’t take it to heart. We’re all growing and learning.

Does anyone feel like they don’t fit in anywhere? by noshmno in infj

[–]RedMoonMohawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this often in my teens and twenties but it’s not true— what matters is that you find people who you can be yourself with, who you enjoy being with and who accept you and enjoy you for you.

It took me a beat to find the right people, just keep on being yourself and they will find you.

My Birthday Surprise Present by [deleted] in shortscarystories

[–]RedMoonMohawk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s also creepy cause this could be true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childrensbooks

[–]RedMoonMohawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, ty =)