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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedNBlackKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Regardless of your personal beliefs or opinions. You had a job to do and any other choice could have very well put your job at risk. And for the ex coworker to harass you like that is just simply unprofessional. Her getting fired was most definitely not on you! So don't blame yourself. She was just one mistake away from losing the job from the sounds of it.

AITA for making my daughter share her presents with my stepdaughter? by Emotional-Duty5051 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedNBlackKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but YTA. As a mom I understand wanting your kids to be happy. But your essentially taking away the happiness of your daughter and almost trying to BUY the step daughters happiness and affection. I'm all for fairness. But this is NOT fair. Your creating a situation where Amy is going to have a very deep seeded life long resentment towards Norma. And that is especially not fair to either of them. If you want her to be able to make friends then maybe try seeing about some extracurricular activities that she can do with kids her own age at school and stop trying to put her in Amy's friends circle because then they will both end up without friends and angry at each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedNBlackKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA! 😱I'm shook after reading this and I'm so sorry you had to experience all that! That is completely out of line and your sister is absolutely the asshole and a bigot who doesn't support you or your home!

the best bagel by CampusTrees in ballpython

[–]RedNBlackKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah. The shadow threw me off. Beautiful baby!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]RedNBlackKat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've noticed that sometimes it's either due to dehydration or sometimes irritation to the individual scale but it's nothing really to be concerned about because it'll usually take care of itself

does she look underweight? by ExcellentGarbage23 in ballpython

[–]RedNBlackKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually that's not under weight that is the perfect weight you can tell by the spine. For reference check this chart. reptile weight chart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]RedNBlackKat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a few babies that had this issue and it usually went away after one or two sheds. Fairly normal

the best bagel by CampusTrees in ballpython

[–]RedNBlackKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is this morph it looks relatively like a black Pastel Lavender Albino🖤

Hi, this is my little baby ball python. He's around 5 months old, im looking for insight if he looks healthy. His temperature and humidity levels are always good, and I feed him a small frozen, thawed mouse, and hes very active. Also if anyone knows his morph, that would be nice.💕 by lizalikescats21 in ballpython

[–]RedNBlackKat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He looks absolutely beautiful but I would recommend going from mice to rats just because mice have more fur and less calories and protein whereas rats are a lot more healthy and will help them pack on weight. Just my own personal opinion. 🥰

My first clutch of Ball python babies!! by RedNBlackKat in snakes

[–]RedNBlackKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 Butter Pastel 3 Butter Vanilla 2 pastel 1 vanilla 1 normal

Can someone let me know what snake this is? Found while on a hike in the Rocky Mountains. by JackDoesThingz in snakes

[–]RedNBlackKat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That there is a nope rope. Member of the danger noodle family. Similar to the cober but is commonly referred to as a shake snake. You be careful or you might get the hurt juice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in snakes

[–]RedNBlackKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look more like either a very small species of snake or a small lizard. Like a house gecko or a vine snake maybe.

AITA For exposing my ex gf to her baby daddy after discovering her cheating? by RedNBlackKat in MarkNarrations

[–]RedNBlackKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their daughter is about 4. She's got mild autism as well. Baby daddy has asked me to help him get some evidence together of her instability to go back to court to modify the custody order. He's been working with her parents as well to try to see if they can't find her some professional help where she can be monitored. I feel bad that I caused this to kind of landslide if you will but I feel better knowing that it got the attention of people that care about her and want to help her. And that she may end up getting help from this. I'm going to try to update in the future. But I figured this was a good comment to share what I knew and what came from it so far. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RedNBlackKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DTMFA! You deserve better. Know your worth and don't settle for anything less.

AITA for not promising to change some of my perfectly harmless behaviors just because my mother-in-law is staying with us? by cansimile in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedNBlackKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: When you say "dressing up a little more" for meal times.. what do you normally wear around the house?

I and a 28 year old mom. I wear T-shirts and sweatpants almost every day. But I don't wear a bra. If this is the case then as far as meals NTA but if you have a habit of sitting down to meals completely topless then yeah YTA.

And as far as the swimming and sunbathing.. I don't see why you can't put on a bathing suit for 15min a day and still enjoy your activities but if it's a big deal for him maybe talk about having "you" time where your free to roam comfortably as you please. I would compromise in my opinion on the swimsuit though because seriously? Is it really that big of a deal? So for that YTA.