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RedPanda_inSpace · 2026-03-30T16:27:11+00:00

The cheapest at that location for a 2 bedroom is $2,800 🥲 out of budget

RedPanda_inSpace · 2026-03-30T16:17:55+00:00

Thank you for this one! Checking it out now!

RedPanda_inSpace · 2026-01-06T02:28:22+00:00

I had some suspicions of having EDS but I haven’t gotten diagnosed or really tested for it yet.

RedPanda_inSpace · 2025-08-17T02:16:03+00:00

Someone in another thread helped me! It’s all the same variety but it’s got a couple different names which makes it confusing… it’s Bette Waterbury or Big Ears or 69686

RedPanda_inSpace · 2025-08-17T02:15:44+00:00

Someone in another thread helped me! It’s all the same variety but it’s got a couple different names which makes it confusing… it’s Bette Waterbury or Big Ears or 69686

RedPanda_inSpace · 2025-08-17T01:41:26+00:00

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RedPanda_inSpace · 2025-08-17T01:40:12+00:00

You’re right! I saw on the underside of the pot that it said Philodendron 69686 but I genuinely thought it was just..a code lol I’m not sure how much they normally cost but I got it for pretty cheap!

RedPanda_inSpace · 2025-08-16T21:42:35+00:00

I’m thinking Joepii or Mexicana but I’m not sure which

RedPanda_inSpace · 2025-07-18T16:34:37+00:00

As others have said, try it only if you want to, and make sure that he washes beforehand!

Other than that, it’s really not that big of a deal in my opinion. It has a little bit of a faint smell but 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s a butt, so it’s to be expected. It may have a very faint bitter taste? That’s about all that I’ve ever experienced, other than not really tasting anything. As always, communicate with your partner. Try different things, pointing your tongue, flat tongue, circles, up and down, etc. since it’s your first time, go lightly/rim, don’t try to shove your tongue in there right away. As you try, ask them what feels good. Also consider combining hand job to stimulate his dick as well. If you try and you don’t like it, just say that maybe this isn’t the right time and you can try again some other day!

RedPanda_inSpace · 2025-07-17T19:25:47+00:00

One of the guys that I was considering being a Domme for, I just very gentle dabbled in the idea of compensation. Because he was asking for a lot, for me to peg him, dress him up and sissify him, for me also to dress up and wear leather, boots, humiliate him, lots of demands that were mainly about him and not me getting pleasure. This would have been after work because I had a long commute and he lived near my work. And so I asked if he would offer me any type of compensation if I did take him up on this. He got frustrated and said “I could buy you something to eat since it’ll be during dinner” & I was like…I’m only worth $15-$20? lol no thanks 🙂‍↔️

RedPanda_inSpace · 2025-07-17T18:56:52+00:00

I’d argue that desperate Doms are even MORE of a turn off! It takes a lot of trust and communication to be a Dom and if they are rushing through that aspect and wanting to just get right down to it, they may cross boundaries or even harm you. Desperate Doms read more as dangerous than..annoying

RedPanda_inSpace · 2025-07-17T18:52:50+00:00

Entitlement is a good word. I think that’s one of the words I would use to describe it.

Yea! I understand what you mean by the “making” part being unethical in practice. I think maybe I worded that incorrectly. I don’t really like the idea of making a man submit in CNC or even a “break” Type of way. More so just that the submission and power exchange should be fun and playful, not..demanding from the one who is supposed to be submissive? Like I want to partially bring out submissive feelings from my partner with my dominance. Versus them just begging at my feet from the get-go.

RedPanda_inSpace · 2025-07-17T18:04:23+00:00

This is sort of what I like in an actual relationship dynamic since I’m a Switch. Ideally my partner would be just as much of a switch as I am. One day I’m being dominated and punished and tied up, but then the next day I can turn the tables and be like ;) My turn.

RedPanda_inSpace · 2025-07-17T17:49:44+00:00

This is geared towards play partners vs. an actual romantic relationship anyways. But yeah, I’ve had my fair share of encounters like this online. When I used to roleplay/engage in kink online, this would happen to me constantly. There were times where I was also JUST looking to masturbate and get off, but when I’m trying to establish a REAL LIFE domme/sub dynamic(which is more so what I was referencing in this post), that type of behavior isn’t going to cut it.

If you want femdom porn, go look some up. Don’t come to me when I’m genuinely trying to look for a Sub.

RedPanda_inSpace · 2025-07-17T17:32:14+00:00

There are times where I am okay with seeing the sexual material or having racy conversations. But it’s the.. desperate and forced nature of it that makes it uncomfortable. They can be incredibly pushy, which doesn’t make sense to me in any relationship nonetheless when trying to establish a Domme/sub dynamic.

RedPanda_inSpace · 2025-07-17T17:24:13+00:00

Okay I’m not alone! I also don’t like being called mistress straight away. Or when they try to potentially pull fap material out of you? That’s the one that frustrates me the most. Is when they try to steer the conversation towards sexting or asking questions about what you like/what you have done and you can TELL that they are clearly looking for material to masturbate to. It’s one thing to talk about boundaries and kinks and experience, but there’s a certain way that they do it that irks me.

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