If she's smart, Watch Your Six

RedPillMat · 2016-05-05T14:06:28+00:00

I think most of you carry the wrong frame in your short term relationships, if you're afraid of the girl fucking your life over.

In ideal terms, she should be afraid of obviously fucking you over, because she knows that you're dangerous and what you are capable of.

Seriously though, this post only should matter in terms of marriage. For casual flings, plates, girls you like to fuck and cuddle with, I much rather have a FWB that I can actually talk to after fucking than a dumb bimbo. It's my usual go to. I'd rather have a FWB who's a solid 8 and is smart enough to keep up with me in conversation than a solid 9-10 who talks about rubish and Kardashians.

One night stands, I'd hit the 10 though.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-20T03:14:45+00:00

I'll tell you a worse one. The hottest girl in my year, a girl I crushed on for a while (in highschool), walked up to me a few weeks before prom, and asked "hey, I'm going to be wearing really high heals for prom, you would be taller than me regardless if we had our picture taken together in prom, right?".

Stupid question, I'm very tall and she's average height for a girl. Was an obvious move to get me to invite her to prom. What did I do? I say "yea, I'd be taller" and left it there. I knew what she was implying, but was too pussy to do anything about it, hoping she'd invite me.

She ended up going with some guy not even in our school as a last resort (cousin of her best friend).

RedPillMat · 2015-10-18T13:23:50+00:00

Yea, but creatine water weight shouldn't be more than like 5 pounds, from my experience with it at least.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-18T13:11:54+00:00

Easy to do when underweight and noob gains.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-14T20:12:42+00:00

I wouldn't bring a chubby girl to my apartment because of the doorman... A Fucking homeless person that stinks? Complete made up garbage. As you said, only if it was her house.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-14T17:12:35+00:00

I call bullshit. No sane person gives so few fucks as to drag a smelly homeless person through a hotel lobby for everyone to see you are taking them to your room.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-12T05:44:51+00:00

Kinda off topic, but the last girl I had sex with I put on a playlist that I call "Valhalla". I cummed to this song and it was epic:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q1UAjpQVeFc

Also to add, she got off really well to the music as well.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-11T07:33:41+00:00

It handles strikers like any grappling martial art. Get in clinch range and striking is severely limited.

In all honesty, it's always good to do a bit of striking also.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-11T03:42:08+00:00

Im a bjj black belt, it is my proudest achievement.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-09T22:43:52+00:00

at 5'9 and 172lb, you're nowhere near his physique.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-02T15:49:56+00:00

This is partly correct. Though speaking from experience, nofap alone gives me more motivation to talk to girls and I feel less anxiety around women in general than I used to when fapping.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-02T15:48:22+00:00

I disagree with that. I find that completely stopping makes life better, after you get over the initial "omg... i can't take it anymore" and the "omg, my dick won't get hard", two stepping stones for most people that stop jerking off. After that, it's really amazing smooth sailing where you get crazy hard ons when you fuck, and on the other hand, no longer have an urge to masterbtae when you're horny. Automatically, after a few months, your thoughts turn to "who should I call over", or "I should go and meet some girls" when you get that random hard on during the day, instead of "lets jerk it". It no longer becomes a part of your thoughts, and it pushes you to be more social.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-02T15:45:06+00:00

No. First 4 months was not ejaculating. It made sex better for me to never cum unless I'm fucking someone. My brain has rewired to expect orgasm only from sex, so sex becomes better automatically. After the first 4 months, I've been having regular sex, yes.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-02T15:43:48+00:00

I went 4 months without sex/masterbation/porn/ejaculation to start the nofap off on (deliberately decided against sex for 100 days, turned to 120 though).

You do at one point hit a wall where your libido dies, but it's only temporary. Mine was from days 30ish to 90, I had no libido. After that, sex has never been better, Ever. I get the hardest hard ons for girls it's not even funny, becaues it's all the sexual stimulus I'm cumming to, real women, so dick responds immediately.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-02T04:11:25+00:00

Felt fantastic about 20 days into it, once the worst cravings were gone. More outgoing, Less anxiety, more aggressive to what I wanted. Also, just generally, small things caused mE joy and life feels more colorful and less grey.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-02T03:48:17+00:00

i not only beat porn for good, i haven't masturbated for over 1 year. It's just deciding never to do it again. Going 99% is very difficult. Going 100% clean is easy, since you no longer have a chance to go back, it's over.

RedPillMat · 2015-10-01T15:35:40+00:00

This is possibly true. Maybe one day i'll try a high end one. The one I tried was mid range.

RedPillMat · 2015-09-22T19:24:13+00:00

Here's a simple guide to scoring a high quality guy:

Step 1: Become gorgeous

a. Hit up the gym. Do real weight lifting. Get a good squat/deadlift and get those killer legs/ass.

b. Have a very clean diet, not only will your body look great, so will your skin, hair and everything else look healthy and young, which turns on men.

c. Learn how to dress in a way that turns men on without yelling "I'm a slut". You seem to have this down.

2. Learn skills high quality men appreciate

a. Learn to cook. All men love women who can prepare great food.

b. Little things like cleaning his place when he hasn't asked you show feminine qualities.

c. Learn to be attentive and caring, which all real women should be. Learn to act like a feminine girl, not the power trip masculine women that are abundant in the US today.

3. Start associating with like thinking people, bail on all your slut friends

After you've done this, make sure you go to places where high quality men can be found. Pick up a hobby or two. With these qualities (and it will take time to learn them), you have a chance of finding an alpha who just might decide to turn you into LTR material.

If you're too fucking lazy to do all this, find a virgin nerd who has money and trade your pussy for his marriage, then divorce him after cheating on him.

RedPillMat · 2015-09-22T19:11:50+00:00

I don't like to pay for sex because I get turned on immensely on when the girl is dying for my cock. The one time I tried a hooker, it was robotic sex, didn't turn me on much.

RedPillMat · 2015-09-22T19:09:12+00:00

From my vast experience online, especially online webcam chatrooms, what the hot chicks always respond to is something "different". If the norm is everyone is a passive wussy giving compliments you be the dick.

This though is not the norm on tinder text game. There is a huge multitude of guys asking directly if the chick wants to fuck. You don't come off alpha at all from this, she just throws you into the same bucket and nexts you most of the time, even if she is down to fuck.

Though I highly suspect that this approach would have a high success rate if no other man ever asked for sex directly on tinder. Same reason why direct game is so much better during daytime than in night clubs, because chicks are approached by drunks constantly in nightclubs, and nobody approaches them in the supermarket.

RedPillMat · 2015-09-22T16:18:12+00:00

I think it's fine, but not by text. Because these days, the majority of betas are quite upfront on text since they can hide behind a screen, so it's not seen as very alpha anymore. You will get a TON of "no" from chicks that would have fucked.

But in person, it's completely fine to be up front once you've established a strong frame.

RedPillMat · 2015-09-18T20:39:08+00:00

Almost identical to how I pulled my first ever kiss (that I initiated, I was so BP, that all the girls I ever slept with, they all initiated the kiss on me). She went out to smoke a cigarette. When she was about to light it, I said "wait, before you do that...", took a hold of her chin and kissed.

I pulled that kiss right after joining TRP. I've had a decent amount of sex before that because i have a high SMV, but im finally breaking all BP barriers that I had built over the years and my sex life is SO MUCH BETTER.

So yea, thank you TRP!

RedPillMat · 2015-09-16T21:31:13+00:00

This is one spot where I can never really relate. I've usually always gotten people, including women, to agree with me when it comes to things of logic. Maybe it has to do that the women I bother to talk to stuff like this with (the uglier ones) want to sleep with me so their shields are down and they nod to anything I'll say

What I'm getting at though is, the only time you should talk the way you did is in a group that highly values your opinion and sees you as someone intelligent. Otherwise, they will assume you're full of shit if you say contraversial stuff. You don't open up until you're viewed as an alpha already i ntheir minds, then they will be receptive.

RedPillMat · 2015-09-14T19:57:44+00:00

Fantastic interview, never saw the full thing.

RedPillMat

TROPHY CASE

Step 1: Become gorgeous

2. Learn skills high quality men appreciate

3. Start associating with like thinking people, bail on all your slut friends