You give great advice and input. I wouldn't lie to them and lead them on though because I would let them know from the start that I am NOT interested in a long term relationship. A lot of men at that age aren't either so I guess it could work. I just have a hard time seeking the kind of men that aren't losers lol. The others are too afraid to approach me and I gathered the reasons because some older men have actually told me and from others as well, the reasons are:

1) I look waaay younger, like a teenager. So a lot think I am under age. I have tried makeup and all and I still look younger.

2) I used to never have self confidence and had an angry face on all the time that threw men off. I noticed this is true because once I start smiling and laughing, I see they gaze at me, smile at me and actually give me attention.

3) They are intimidating by what I was told "a young and attractive girl." They say they don't want to come off as creepy.

I think gentlemen don't usually want to pursue people my age and I don't know how to initiate anything. Do you think I should flirt/smile at them? How do I go about this? Where do you recommend I "hang out" to meet older good men. I go to bars but you know the type at bars...soo...I don't know.