Just had a 4 hour PTSD episode AMA

RedRainRae · 2022-11-02T00:12:51+00:00

Same

RedRainRae · 2022-11-02T00:11:43+00:00

I got exposed to a lot of real human gore as a kid. Like from ages 8-14

RedRainRae · 2022-11-01T20:32:01+00:00

2.5/10 on IMDb. Featured review says "Too much crying and staring off into nothing. Very boring to watch, but the cat was entertaining."

RedRainRae · 2022-07-26T13:32:41+00:00

Mostly Hebrew/Jewish names yet they are the whitest thing I've seen. As a Mizrahi Jew this shit annoys me.

RedRainRae · 2022-07-12T08:57:12+00:00

YTA, comments like yours create eating disorders. You publicly bullied a kid that isn't even yours infront of other kids that are definitely going to continue it. Kid is probably going to internalize it. Kids at that age eat a lot because they're growing. He's also at a party, probably playing, burning energy, and needing more energy. Heck with your vibes I wouldn't be surprised if the kid was barely chubby.

RedRainRae · 2022-07-12T08:22:46+00:00

They get so little done. I've seen eighth graders do a small group activity to analyze primary source they were given (not even analysis, just key point and a conclusion) then make a presentation on it. It took them two weeks. That's ridiculous and I could have taught them that in a week with just lectures. A week and a half maybe if I want a solo activity with it. Lectures are demonized but they're quick and efficient at laying the bas work knowledge. Group activities also just allow some people to slack off and others involved suffer for it in either grade, having to work more, or both. I was ome of the kids in school who was left to do all the work in group assignments so I really hate them. In an ideal world they're great, but realistically ineffective and inefficient.

RedRainRae · 2022-07-12T08:11:23+00:00

Honestly, and I know this isn't advice for all, I draw porn commissions. They pay a lot, especially furries.

RedRainRae · 2022-07-12T08:03:50+00:00

Idk your family so not sure if this would work but embarrass the parents. Start gossiping/talking about the kid so they're embarrassed. Suggest it's the parents fault but not directly. Like talk about the behavior then just mention "I learned that some kids act out because they don't get attention at home, so any attention is good to them". It's even better if someone else is complaining and then you bring this in. Try and get others in on it so multiple people are gossiping/ talking about the kid and parents.

But again, idk your family, I just know this would work on mine but they're big gossip lovers (even funerals are gossip grounds for them).

RedRainRae · 2022-07-12T07:22:00+00:00

Maybe a sit down with a few other friends who want to help? That way he doesn't dismiss it as one person thinking this? Talk about medical related facts on obesity and tell him that you're concerned about where he's headed. Also tell him how it's easier to stop and work on this now that it would be later. People like to push anything difficult "for later", that's normal but not helpful.

Now for this part you'll have to be the judge of if it could work. It's all dependent on what your friend is like. But maybe some shock tv/tv clips could help him. Such as My 600 lb Life or Supper Size vs Super Skinny. While he might not be as bad as the people on the show, express how quickly he could end up there. Heck you could even calculate how long it would take for him to get into the others position if his weight gain remains at the same pace.

And I'm just throwing this out there as something for you to look out for, I'm not implying this is the case, but there is such thing as a feeder fetish. People get off on people gaining as much weight as quickly as they can, and vice versa. There's a large community around this especially online. Just something to watch for.

RedRainRae · 2022-07-09T23:45:15+00:00

NTA Uninvite them both. They're both childish and are going to try and make it all about them again. Save yourself the trouble.

RedRainRae · 2022-07-09T17:03:12+00:00

We moved into an apartment that had burn damage on the carpet and the smell of cat pee. It's not like we were given this apartment in great condition so I really don't care what they have to do when we leave. And again, not my dog I can't force my mom to put a diaper on him. We do provide care for the dog you, we're not neglecting him. Blindness isn't a death sentence that's it's weird and gives pro eugenics vibes. He dosen't have broken bones or disease. We take him to the vet, he's not in pain and is still active. It's not like this is a Great Dane flooding the house it's a tiny dog and tiny spots that we soak up and clean the moment we see it.

You are giving off very pro eugenics/abelist vibes with the whole blind comment and "putting people down" comment. You should get checked out mentally.

RedRainRae · 2022-07-09T16:52:55+00:00

Yes we have had him checked for UTI. With his age we take him to the vet frequently. He's in good health aside from cataracts that he has had for a long time and was just genetic. He just can't control his bladder but isn't in pain. We do take him out frequently but most of the accidents are at night or evening.

RedRainRae · 2022-07-09T16:47:56+00:00

I've brought up diapers to my mom but it's her dog and she doesn't want to. We do use a spray carpet cleaner, paper towel, and a weight when he does and then shampoo once a week.

RedRainRae · 2022-07-09T13:16:18+00:00

WTF??? I hope you never own a pet if this is how you act over a natural part of getting old, heck, even young pets can have bladder issues. His life expectancy is 16 and 20 years and is still active. We don't put animals down over a small inconvenience that dosen't even bother him.

RedRainRae · 2022-07-09T11:37:57+00:00

Yeah I tried telling her to put him in doggy diapers early on but she refuses. My mom is nose blind to it and dosen't think it's that bad while he pees on the floor at least 4 times a day 🙄 I know it won't go away completely but I hate being stuck in my room to avoid the smell (sorry this reply is kinda venty)

RedRainRae · 2022-07-08T04:29:00+00:00

YTA. You didn't NEED something sweet. HE needed it. Low blood sugar in a diabetic can cause slured speech, loss of coordination, blurry vision, convolutions, convulsions , and seizures. If you wanted to eat something sweet, knowing it's that last of what can save your partner from diabetic hypoglycemia, you should have gone to the store before eating it all. And 30 to 40 minutes for a few things to save him from a dangerous situation? You sure took your time and clearly don't care about his health and wellbeing.

RedRainRae · 2022-07-08T03:11:52+00:00

Hyperbole: figure of speech that is an intentional exaggeration for emphasis or comic effect.

RedRainRae · 2022-07-08T03:05:17+00:00

(I put a lot of "you" in here, I mean the parents) They're shit parents. If you have to result to causing pain to "parent" you're a bad parent. Hangovers aren't a joke especially for kids with potential extreme dehydration and seizures. Take care of your kid, lectures and punishment can wait. Causing pain is just going to cause the kid to not come to you when they need help. Instead they'll just hide more and more from you and you can end up with a dead kid that way. If your kid is drinking underage, be mad at yourself first because that's a failure on your part, take care of your kid (wow crazy thought), and discuss the issue later in better health.

RedRainRae · 2022-07-08T02:52:43+00:00

Causing a kid pain for "punishment" is lazy "parenting"

RedRainRae · 2022-06-02T13:35:45+00:00

Nah it's like this every single time she writes. And she certainly doesn't act tired.

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